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My name is Li Fengying and I am 72 years old this year. The husband died three years ago and now lives alone in the old house. I have a married daughter named Li Xiaofang, who moved out to live with her husband after she got married. I am an elderly family living alone at home, and my life is very lonely.
A few days ago, Xiaofang suddenly came to me and said with a serious face: "Mom, I want to buy a suite for my son Xiaoming as a wedding gift, but the down payment at home is not enough, the difference is 800,000 yuan." Can you sell your old house and give me the money so that we can live together as a family and you don't have to be alone. ”
As soon as I heard Xiaofang's request, my face immediately changed. This house is the work of my wife and I all our lives, and there are too many memories for me, and I am really reluctant to sell. So I said, "Xiaofang, you also know that this house was bought by your father and I with my life savings, it is very important to me, I really can't sell it." ”
Xiaofang hurriedly said: "Mom, I am also for the good of our family." If you can live together, I can take care of you every day, and you won't have to work so hard in your old age. I will be filial to you, you will sell the house, anyway, it will be left to our family. ”
I could hear the eagerness in her words, and I was still embarrassed. I said, "I know what you mean, but this house is really important to me... I need time to think about it. ”
Xiaofang seemed a little dissatisfied, and her tone immediately became serious: "Mom, I've said it all to this point, why do you still need to think about it?" I am your biological daughter, would you be reluctant to buy a house for me and my grandson? ”
I was very unhappy in my heart, and said softly: "I didn't say I wouldn't buy it, I just needed time to think about it..." ”
"What a thought! I see you just don't want to! Xiao Fang's face changed suddenly, and she looked very unhappy, "I worked hard to pull you up, and now I have difficulties, but you push back and forth." Could it be that you just want to live alone in the old house, regardless of me? ”
I saw that she was so emotional, and she was also a little angry, and her tone immediately hardened: "Xiaofang, you can't say that about me!" It was not easy for me to pull you to grow up alone, and I never asked you for anything. Now that the house is mine, I have the right to make my own decisions without your fingers! ”
"Okay, in that case, live in your own house!" Xiaofang looked angry, "As long as you don't agree for a day, I won't care about you for a day!" ”
With that, she slammed the door and left me alone in the room. I looked at her departing back, and my heart ached faintly - how did my daughter become so unfilial? When our mother and daughter had a good relationship, how did they become like this?
I sat stunned for a while, tears streaming out of my eyes. This house is very important to me, there are so many memories on it, I really can't bear to sell. But Xiaofang is my flesh and blood, and I don't want to break off the mother-daughter relationship with her... What should I do?
Looking at the empty room, I went to the kitchen and poured a glass of water and sat quietly to think about it.
In fact, I know very well in my heart that Xiaofang didn't mean to say heavy words to break my heart, she was just too anxious and anxious for a while to get angry like that. When the child is older, she naturally has to plan for her own family, and I should be considerate of her.
But my wife and I have lived in this house for decades, and our bits and pieces are recorded here. After my wife died, I lived here alone, and every place reminded me of him, and I couldn't bear to let go easily.
Moreover, I was also worried that I would lose my independence after moving to my daughter's house. I'm used to living alone, lonely, but comfortable. When I went to my daughter's house, I didn't know if she and her parents-in-law would restrict me from doing what I wanted.
These thoughts swirled in my mind, making me feel more and more embarrassed. That night I tossed and turned, unable to sleep for a long time.
Early the next morning, I heard a knock on the door. I opened the door, and it was Xiaofang who came. Her face was a little haggard, and she seemed to have not slept all night.
"Mom, I'm sorry, I shouldn't have been angry with you like that yesterday. You are my biological mother, and I should be considerate of your difficulties. Xiao Fang apologized with red eyes.
I looked at her tired look and softened my heart: "I know you're in a hurry, I won't mind." ”
"Mom, don't worry, I will always be filial to you and will not let you be wronged in my house. You sell the old house, the most important thing is that our mother and daughter can be reunited. Xiao Fang took my hand and pleaded.
I looked at her and remembered how she was coquettish as a child, and my eyes couldn't help but get hot. I have pulled her up for so many years, and it is not easy for us mother and daughter. Now that my child is in trouble, I should help me instead of being separated.
"Mom, you can keep the money in your own name after selling the house, what you need is completely at your disposal, and I will never take advantage of you." Xiaofang said sincerely.
I nodded and patted her arm: "Good boy, mom knows your good intentions." I will think about selling the house again, you go back and rest first. ”
Xiaofang happily thanked me again and again, and told me to think about it, repeatedly saying that she would be filial to me, and then reluctantly left.
Watching her leave, I gently cleaned the house, looking at the old house full of mottled walls and worn furniture, and I couldn't help but sigh with emotion. We have eaten, lived and dozed together here, faced these things for many days and nights, and spent the years. Now that the times have passed, I should also learn to let go and not become a stumbling block to my daughter's family.
Perhaps, selling this house and moving to reunite with my daughter's family is the choice I should make at my age. The thought of seeing Xiaofang and my grandson every day made my heart clear. Seeing that it was getting late, I picked up my spirits and began to pack up my house and prepare for the next chapter in my life.
After much deliberation, I finally made up my mind to sell the old house. I called Xiaofang and told her about my decision. Xiaofang on the other end of the phone was very happy and thanked me in a loud voice.
The following week, I started tidying up the belongings in the house. I kept my wife's belongings safely, and I also took a few photos of us and children when they were children. I threw or gave away the rest of the unwanted sundries and old furniture.
After Xiaofang found out, she also came over to help me clean and tidy up. She wiped the table and said, "Mom, just pack your things, and I'll take care of the rest." You don't have to worry about anything when you go to my house, just enjoy your old age. ”
I smiled and nodded, a hint of warmth rising in my heart. This is the good daughter I know best.
Finally, the house was temporarily put on hold, and I contacted the agent to prepare to put it up for sale. When the agent came to see the house, he constantly praised the house as big enough and well-lit, and after appraising the price, he offered a price that I was satisfied with. After thinking for a moment, I decided to close the transaction at this price, and the agent was happy to handle the formalities for me.
A month later, the house was sold and I got the sale money. I immediately handed over the 800,000 down payment to Xiaofang. Xiaofang was so excited that she couldn't speak, holding me and shedding tears of emotion. I looked at her happy appearance and couldn't help but burst into tears - I have no regrets as a mother to be able to do something for my daughter.
I have a fraction of the money left from selling my house, enough for my daily life. I insisted on keeping the money in my own account and not giving it to Xiaofang's family. After all, it was my life savings, and I had the right to manage it. Xiaofang did not object, saying that I would control the money myself, and she would not ask for it.
Finally, I packed all the rest of my belongings and moved to her house with Xiaofang. As soon as I entered the door, my grandson Xiaoming came over to help me carry my luggage, and he called grandma in his mouth. Seeing this lively family, I can't help but smile.
Xiaofang arranged for me the largest room downstairs. The room was well lit and also equipped with new furniture. Xiaofang's family of three told me that this was specially prepared for me and hoped that I could live comfortably. I smiled and nodded, feeling even more grateful to my daughter's family.
The first reunion meal was hot. Bob told me about work and asked me what I was not used to when I lived in my new home. Xiaofang and her husband also kept adding vegetables to my bowl to let me eat more. Looking at the happy appearance of the family, I was relieved to think that I really didn't make a wrong choice.
At night I wash and sleep alone in my new room. Xiao Fang came to see me lying down, and told me with concern to tell her if I needed anything. I smiled and nodded, watching her gently close the covers for me and close the door.
Lying alone in the dark, I suddenly felt like I was back in time. At that time, Xiaofang was still young, and I took care of her to sleep like this. Time flies, and now our mother-daughter roles have changed, and she has become the one who takes care of me. Thinking of this, I can't help but sigh with emotion, the grace is no more, I should learn to accept the return of my children and enjoy the joy of nature.
Early the next morning, I got up early. I got up lightly and wanted to make my own breakfast for everyone. After all, I already live in my daughter's house, so I should help with more housework.
As soon as I got dressed and walked to the living room, I saw that my daughter was already busy in the kitchen. Between the pots and pans, the fragrant smell of breakfast made me feel at home all of a sudden.
Xiaofang hurriedly came over to stop me: "Mom, don't worry about this old man, you are our distinguished guest!" Sit down and rest, breakfast will be ready immediately. ”
I was a little embarrassed and said with a smile: "My hands and feet are okay, I should help you share more." Both of you are so busy with work... ”
"With me and Xingning here, don't worry." Xiao Fang shush and warmly poured me a cup of hot water.
After a while, son-in-law Xingning also got up. When he saw me, he smiled and said, "Mom, you got used to sleeping last night, right?" If you are not satisfied, please mention it, I will improve it immediately. ”
I hurriedly said, "Your children have been so well prepared, I am very satisfied, there is really nothing to mention." ”
"That's good. Sit down, we'll serve you! After Xingning finished speaking, he went to the kitchen to help Xiaofang busy together.
Seeing my son-in-law so filial is very gratified. Xiaofang found such a good person who treated me like a mother, and I trusted my daughter to him.
After a while, a hearty breakfast was ready. Bob also got up and sat down at the dining table. The family was eating happily, and I looked at them and felt more satisfied and joyful than ever.
After breakfast, Xiaofang asked me to rest on the sofa and advised me not to do housework. I saw her so filial and grateful. Remembering that we were arguing about buying a house the other day, I felt that I had made a wise choice.
It was a very relaxing day. Xiaofang and Xingning discussed and took me out to eat my favorite Sichuan hot pot in the evening. I couldn't close my mouth with a smile and thanked me excitedly.
In the evening, all three of them accompanied me out to eat hot pot. I watched my grandchildren happily scoop up meat and felt that the more they ate, the happier I was.
After returning home, Bob came over to say goodnight to me. I smiled and patted his arm, lamenting that time flew by, and the fat doll in my memory had grown so big and started a family. After seeing Xiaoming away, I watched Xiaofang and Xingning reluctantly go to sleep, and my heart was full of emotion.
A month has passed and I have fully adapted to life here. Every morning, I can see my daughter's family by my side, and my heart is full of warmth. I also followed Xiaofang's wishes, lived a relaxed and comfortable life, and no longer worried about too many housework. Our family has a good relationship, and I feel happy and satisfied all the time.
I am now very glad that I chose to sell my house and move in with my daughter. God has blessed me and allowed me to live a life of reunion with my family in my old age. I am always grateful for my wife's hardships and made our mother and daughter happy today. I also thank Xiaofang's family again for taking care of me, there is nothing happier than being with my loved ones.
In this way, the warm life in my daughter's house made me have a good time.
On the weekend, Xiaofang suggested that the family go out on an outing to relax. I heard that I could go out for a walk and immediately happily agreed.
Early the next morning, we set off. After getting on the highway, I enjoyed the outside view through the car window, and I was in a good mood after a long absence.
Arriving at a scenic spot in the suburbs, we chose a picnic spot and went for a walk after lunch. Xiao Ming happily introduced me to nearby attractions along the way, and carefully helped me walk slowly.
I greeted the warm sunshine and blew the fresh air, and my mood was extremely comfortable. Seeing a lake view, I offered to suggest that everyone rest there, and the family sat quietly on a bench by the lake to watch the scenery and chat.
This peaceful and peaceful time is invaluable to me. I have had a hard time in this life, and I have finally ushered in the happiness of my current family, and I have decided to cherish every moment in front of me even more.
Back home, I got up early the next morning to make breakfast. Xiaofang was going to stop me, but seeing my high spirits, I went.
I want to make a hearty breakfast for the children to show my gratitude and love. So eggs, ham, greens, and my favorite buns, steamed buns, and fritters, I made them all over my eyebrows.
Xingning and Xiaoming got up when they smelled the fragrance, and even praised my good craftsmanship. I smiled and set the table while asking the kids to eat more. Seeing them eating fragrantly, my heart rose with a sense of happiness.
After breakfast, I offered to help with housework today. Xiao Fang saw that I was in high spirits, and did not persuade me anymore. I rolled up my sleeves, wiped the windows, swept the floor, did the laundry, and nothing fell behind.
After a busy morning, with a smile on my face, I hummed a song and walked to the balcony to dry my clothes. Xingning came over and praised: "Mom, you are too capable!" It's nice to have you. I smiled and said, "This is all I should do, you and Fang'er are so busy at work, I should help with more housework!" ”
In the evening, the family sat around to eat, and the atmosphere was warm and harmonious. I thought to myself, I really haven't felt the warmth of such a home for a long time. I am thankful that God gave me the opportunity to have a home again in my old age, which must have been a blessing from my past life.
As the days go by, the relationship between Xiaofang and I is getting better and better. Sometimes when neighbors and aunts come to the house as guests, they will praise me: "Sister Feng Ying, you are really a good example of raising children and preventing aging!" With such a good maiden family as you, your son-in-law must be filial enough to you. "I was very happy to hear it.
I would proudly say, "Yes, my daughter-in-law and son-in-law are very good to me, and I am simply a big winner in raising children and preventing aging!" "Speaking of this, my heart is full of gratitude to Xiaofang's family.
I always tell myself that I must play the role of being a good mother and mother-in-law, help my daughter share the chores of the family, and do my best to make her life easier. I also want to care more about my grandson, be a funny grandmother, and make him grow up happy.
Thinking of having such a great home by my side, I firmly believe that my old age will be full and bright.