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Some people already have four divorce certificates! What kind of marriage should today's young people pursue?

author:Dashing Xiao Chen tells stories

Wang Feng, finally on the hot search! It's just that such a hot search may be for himself, don't do it!

On October 23, 2023, Wang Feng and Zhang Ziyi released: After eight years of marriage, we have decided to dissolve the marriage relationship after careful consideration and discussion, and will raise and accompany the children together as relatives in the future.

Some people already have four divorce certificates! What kind of marriage should today's young people pursue?

Throughout the emotional history of my brother Feng, it is also extremely tortuous, the divorce certificate has been coded four times, many people sigh, entangled is the rich people's lack of single-mindedness to feelings, or our poor people are too entangled in gains and losses.

My brother's emotional history is currently as follows:

First: Zi Dan (married in 2003, divorced in 2004).

Second term: Ge Xingjie (met in 2004, gave birth in 2005, broke up in 2006).

Third term: Kang Zuoru (date of marriage unknown, divorced in 2013).

The fourth term: Zhang Ziyi (married in 2015, divorced in 2023).

Some people already have four divorce certificates! What kind of marriage should today's young people pursue?

In any case, maybe being separated is a relief for them! I hope that in the days to come, they will be safe and happy!

So, don't their events also reflect the marital status of our contemporary young people?

Have you ever been urged to marry by your family because you are getting older?

Do you have someone you can't love?

Have you ever missed a good person and been annoyed?

Have you ever caused a fear of marriage because of repeated failures?

You......

So why is the marriage rate among young people getting lower and lower now? This must not provoke us to think deeply.

The first point: grandparents pass on the idea of inheritance, and parents only need to look at each other. Right now? Look at the talent, look at the house, look at the car, see if you have money.

This is a material condition, let me ask, how many young people in their twenties can buy a car and a house on their own?

The second point: money is only part of the problem, the biggest is the ethical problem! Since doing some short video media such as Douyin, the bottom line has repeatedly broken through, and the three views have been constantly refreshed.

But we must always remember that when our abilities do not match our fantasies, everything is a dream! Some do not understand, some are unwilling to accept the mediocrity of others, some are unwilling to accept their own mediocrity, and some cannot see themselves clearly

The third point: Now people have more contact with the opposite sex, and those with economic strength also look at more. Lack of self-awareness is a lack of awareness of one's own fate, and a low moral outlook on divorce. The heart will not grow, and it is easy to cause direct solutions to people when encountering problems, but will not solve things!

Some people already have four divorce certificates! What kind of marriage should today's young people pursue?

Mo Yan said: When a bowl of water is uneven, only by sacrificing the kindest can the wind and waves be calm, and once the kindest person is unwilling to sacrifice anymore, he will be buttoned up as a person who destroys harmony. Don't believe it, there are quite a few people who are going through it. The ugliness of human nature, obviously they have selfish intentions, but they demand generosity from others, some lies kill without blood, and some hurt enough to blame the heart.

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