Friends who are not familiar with this series can go to the county civil servant to choose the granddaughter of the director of the bureau.
Roughly talking about the background, a county civil servant, the organization department, the chief is quite handsome, with his own conditions in the county indiscriminately killed, he said that he was choosing a concubine, a granddaughter of a retired director, the daughter of a billionaire fell in love with him, but he was unwilling, the suspect was fat.
But what didn't I expect, right?
After posting this article, there are not many voices condemning this sea king in the comment area, what is more?
It's nothing else, it's a pity.
It is said that this sea king is not wise, obviously the old man has such good conditions, and there are only two girls in the family, so they can "flutter the colorful flags outside, and the red flags at home will not fall", and eat a single household.
Let me put it this way, this idea of eating a single family is wrong in itself.
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Let's talk about this set of gameplay for friends who don't understand.
Even when they get married, some people go to the one-child family, and it is not bad to find that kind of family, and it is best that the parents are civil servants, and marry other people's daughters into the door, and then it is equivalent to sitting and absorbing the funds of the other party's family, which is the modern meaning of eating out of households.
This is also one of the reasons why the concept of only daughter in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai is now popular.
All I can say about this kind of play, right?
If the abacus is played too loudly, there will be no good result after all.
This kind of successful case of eating an only child, a few years ago, cannot be said to be absent.
At that time, people were generally simple, and they also valued their feelings, they were really the son-in-law of a big leader or a rich man, and people really cultivated you as a son, asking for money for money, and asking for people to give people.
But what's the problem?
There are too many cases of biting back in reality, the son-in-law just showed that it was called a hard-working and resentful, and then after the leader or boss reassured the son-in-law to give the son-in-law power and money, the son-in-law backhanded a divorce, and directly let the leader, the boss and their daughter go out of the house in reverse.
To put it bluntly, no one is a fool, and everyone is wary of those who rush to take advantage.
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Let me tell you how to play the leader looking for a son-in-law now.
If the door is right, let's not talk about it, the two sides have the same family background, the upbringing is reasonable, and the situation is clear, there will be no such thing as eating out of the house and then running away, and the leader is generally more assured.
It's really the kind of person who deliberately wants to take advantage, and the leader is not stupid.
Let's talk about the basics.
Generally talk to the daughter about this first, now the girl is not stupid, how much will know, if you are confused, then mobilize relatives to say that the child is not good, or all kinds of pressure on the man, including but not limited to posing, giving face, anyway, the purpose is to give points.
The boy who was a little backbone couldn't stand it at this stage, so he took the initiative and left.
really encounters the kind of person who can bear it, and his daughter is not married to him, so let's take the next step.
Only give face, not lining.
Okay, for example, if the deputy mayor's girl insists on marrying the following, the leader can't stop it, so what should I do?
It is inappropriate not to give promotions.
Because not giving a promotion is not only bad for the son-in-law, but also dissatisfied with his daughter-in-law, what the leader is looking for is the balance between the son-in-law and the daughter-in-law.
What is a balance point?
Promoted, but the position to be promoted is preferably Qingshui Yamen, and it has to be a deputy position.
What's the good thing about this kind of department, right?
First of all, it is idle, the son-in-law has no excuse to say that he is busy, and he has to go back to accompany his daughter after work, and the daughter is happy.
Secondly, it looks good when I say it, and I am also an official, and it is reasonable to say it anywhere, and I can't say that I treat my son-in-law slowly.
Then, it's very easy to control, Qingshui Yamen, there is no real power, and he is not the number one, it is not easy to get out of control, and there is no chance to go out and mess around.
The leader made a move, and when he pressed it, he wanted to press his son-in-law to death here.
As for the promotion later, they all agreed, but they didn't work hard, and they had to beat their son-in-law when they turned around.
I've tried a lot of work, but I still can't mention it to you, so you can't unite and unite the masses in the unit, what's the matter?
A handful of reverse PUA is good.
Oh, by the way, you don't have to worry about this son-in-law being able to mix well in the unit.
It is impossible, those young people who can mix well in the unit and have a valuable character, even if the family is poor, the reputation given by the unit will not be bad, this kind of person, the leader is very relieved.
And to be honest, for a leader who has only one daughter, in fact, his dedication is really not so strong.
He also knows very well that no matter how much he is promoted, his son and son-in-law will not be able to raise their position, and they will be in this position, the pension will be full, and the medical care will be free, what is really a problem, and the old cadres bureau will solve it, as long as someone is waiting, life will be very comfortable.
If it's really your own son, your own cub, then there's nothing to say, the old face is open, and it's okay to ask someone to mention it.
If you say your son-in-law, forget it.
It's not that you don't treat your son-in-law as a child, but there are too many lessons from the past, and if you promote your son-in-law, there are not many benefits, but too many disadvantages.
The son-in-law swelled and went out to the woman, and your daughter came back and must have scolded you for why did you mention him.
The son-in-law is bigger, you can't control it, you divorce your daughter, and if your daughter is not happy, you will follow you.
It's better not to mention it, and honestly press him to death in a post.
Seeing the leader, such as seeing Mount Tai, the leader is stable, and the son-in-law is very affectionate to your daughter, and it is also very good.
That's it.
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As for the boss's son-in-law, it would be good to control it from the money.
For money?
Then rent it to your son-in-law.
You can buy a house, buy a car, you can buy it, but the name is not written, you can live there, but don't think about the rest.
You have to know one thing, for life, the big head is very important, but the more important thing is the cash flow.
The boss thought very clearly, even if he gave a Rolls-Royce to his son-in-law for nothing, if he had no cash flow, he would not be able to support it.
And what's it?
For the boss, if you want a house, I will give you a house, if you want a car, I can also buy it, but in addition to the driving room, I can't give you your daily expenses.
That's right, your father-in-law gave it to the car, but you don't want to talk about the property fee, and the oil money is also given by the father-in-law.
Normal can't pull this face.
And how to say it, even if he can pull down this face, the boss will control his son-in-law.
A little trick will do it.
Only give small money, don't give big money, every time you ask me for money, you are bowing your head to me and my daughter.
To put it bluntly, the core is also control.
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And what is it?
To tell me the truth, in the case of a large class gap, without the blood transfusion of one parent, the gap between the daily consumption concepts of the two sides is very large.
It is very powerful for an only child to be rich.
And don't think that the boss's daughter spends money well, and the leader's daughter spends money not so much.
The opposite may be true.
Just look at the expenses, some leaders' daughters spend much more money than the boss's daughter.
The reason is simple.
One is that leaders often can't control children, especially girls, and they can't control it.
The other is that the leader actually has no expenses, if the parents are leaders, in the case of food, clothing, housing and transportation without spending money, the leader can give the child a very high living expenses.
The salaries of my parents are given, and the pensions of my grandparents are subsidized, and there are Arctic catfish per capita.
Finding such a family background, even if the girl is willing for a while, as long as the parents do not have blood transfusion support, it is difficult to withstand the material test.
Because then the standard of living is much worse.
After a few years, my daughter is willing to leave, then leave, take a step back, find an honest person to take over, and the leader and boss can accept it.
Even if you have children, you can leave.
As soon as the leader changed the child's name, he raised it as his grandson and granddaughter, which is also very good.
Don't worry about your child's acknowledgment.
Children are not stupid, they will choose positions that are advantageous to them.
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So when you see this, do you still want to be a son-in-law and eat a single household?
I don't want to talk about what I don't have, I just want to tell you one thing.
Although there are shortcuts of one kind or another in this world, what I want to tell you is that there is always only one you can rely on:
That's who you are.
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