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Preface
Her husband was "proficient" in eating, drinking, prostituting and gambling, and she left home angrily to find a broader world. dragged a family of five to the city to study alone.
She passed five levels and six generals all the way, sending herself and her children to the tide of the times, and even Chairman Mao couldn't help but praise her.
When her life ushered in a change, she was already over half a hundred years old, but she used her strength to prove that age is not a problem! This person is Ge Jianhao.
A wife, a mother, but without these labels, she is still a big woman who stands up to the sky.
Famous family
Ge Jianhao was born in the old era, a famous family, this family, Zeng and Qiu Jin and Zeng Guofan's family are known as the three major local families, and Ge Jianhao was born in it.
However, someone has said that a famous family is a famous family, and the daughter of a famous family is the daughter of a famous family, in that era, even Ge Jianhao could not escape the fate of marrying.
Unmarried to his father, married to his husband, this is the concept of life that Ge Jianhao has been instilled since he was a child. At the age of 16, she was promised to a well-connected family - the Cai family.
Marrying into the Cai family, Ge Jianhao was very reluctant, she didn't know that the person she was going to marry was a prodigal child, and his reputation was notorious in ten miles and eight towns, but her father's fate was difficult to disobey, so she could only wear red makeup and sit in a sedan chair.
In Ge Jianhao's eyes, her life should not be like this.
Although she is a daughter in the eyes of others, she has read poetry and books since she was a child, has ideals and ambitions, and she also wants to be like an ordinary man, going to the ends of the earth to pursue her own truth.
Marriage added fuel to the fire of Ge Jianhao's life, making it even worse.
Since he got married, at the beginning, Ge Jianhao's husband has not shown his feet, and he behaves like a model husband, but he can't pretend for a while.
Soon, her husband began to have fun everywhere, visiting the Qinglou, looking for a little wife, and was very happy, completely ignoring Ge Jianhao at home.
Not only that, at that time, opium was introduced into China in large quantities, and with money, time, and not doing a good job, Ge Jianhao's husband soon became addicted to drugs and was out of control.
For countless late nights, Ge Jianhao was silently crying, is this all his life?
Since marrying into the Cai family, she has become a fertility machine, and has given birth to 6 children for her husband, the eldest daughter has been married, and she has given birth to a lovely granddaughter for herself, and her son and youngest daughter are still by her side, which can be regarded as a trace of comfort.
Ge Jianhao thought that nothing would change in this life until something happened.
In 1907, the martyr Qiu Jin's heroic sacrifice not only shook the whole of China, but also shook Ge Jianhao's heart that had gradually withered.
We have mentioned that Ge Jianhao's family is as famous as Qiu Jin's family, so Ge Jianhao was also familiar with Qiu Jin, and he was also the daughter of a famous family, Qiu Jin chose a completely different path from Ge Jianhao and threw herself into the revolution. Qiu Jin's sacrifice brought a deep touch to Ge Jianhao.
People are not unable to change, but to see if they have the determination to change.
At this time, Ge Jianhao was over half a hundred years old, but she felt that it was time to make a change.
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Go to the city to study
The first step is to leave the home that binds her, and not only herself, Ge Jianhao has already thought about it, and she will take her son and daughter with her.
At the beginning, Ge Jianhao's purpose was very simple, just to let the children learn Xi cultural knowledge with him again and enrich his brain. But the obstacle came quickly, and it came from the people Ge Jianhao knew best.
Ge Jianhao's husband wants to marry his youngest daughter with a gift of 5,000 silver dollars, and the word "marry" sounds good, but in fact, the husband is greedy for money and wants to sell his youngest daughter to others as a child bride.
Ge Jianhao absolutely couldn't agree to this matter, so Ge Jianhao made a bold decision - to escape from marriage.
Before gathering all the children around him, Ge Jianhao had already sent his youngest son to study in the county seat, and this escape from marriage was the result of his inner and outer cooperation with his youngest son, and it was also the fuse for Ge Jianhao's complete determination to leave this home.
Late at night, Ge Jianhao fled from home with his youngest daughter Cai Chang, and his sons Cai and Sen answered the two, plus the eldest daughter Cai Qingxi and the little granddaughter, just like that, a family of five came to the county seat.
Ge Jianhao has only one purpose, and that is to study. is not only his own children and granddaughters, but also a person, that is, himself, even though he is 50 years old, but Ge Jianhao feels that as long as people recognize learning, they are not afraid of being late.
Reality is not a fairy tale, and escaping from home is not Ge Jianhao's final ending, after coming to the county seat, the situation has not improved.
In order to find a school that can accept this family of five, Ge Jianhao ran into walls everywhere, and many schools disliked Ge Jianhao's age, thinking that she was no longer suitable for school, and dragged her family with her, and let Ge Jianhao eat the closed door.
Ge Jianhao was not discouraged, but sued the government with a complaint!
I sued the official because I didn't go to school, I'm afraid this is the first time I've seen it, but the county official also officially accepted Ge Jianhao's complaint, and above the court, the county official couldn't help but sigh, this is really a strange woman!
Speaking of which, there may be many people who are curious about why Ge Jianhao has such a neutral name, in fact, Ge Jianhao's original name was Ge Lanying, and the reason why she changed her name was also to prove herself and express her ambitions.
In the society at that time, there were several women who dared to do Ge Jianhao's feat, and there were even many people who did not have Ge Jianhao's ambitions at all, and under the pressure of society and family, they did not dare to think about it.
Therefore, the county officials felt that Ge Jianhao and her family should be given a chance.
After the court ended, the county official left the words "Qizhi Kejia", acquiescing to Ge Jianhao's ability to go to school, and now, Ge Jianhao finally walked into the door of the school and started his own Xi, and the four juniors were also arranged to go to a place, and the family became students.
Ge Jianhao's feat caused a huge sensation in the county seat at that time, and became a topic of conversation after dinner, and people who talked about it were amazed.
Ge Jianhao completely changed his fate because of Qiu Jin's sacrifice, and the power of his predecessors and idols gave Ge Jianhao the motivation to continue to move forward.
Now that he was only able to enter the academy and completed his first goal, Ge Jianhao knew that his ambition was far more than that.
Go abroad
It was during Ge Jianhao's son Cai Hesen's study that he met a special person - Chairman Mao.
The tiger mother has no dogs, Cai Hesen is influenced by his mother, his mind is naturally very open-minded, and he can talk to Chairman Mao very well, and the two of them have been back and forth, and the relationship has become more and more familiar.
Sometimes, Ge Jianhao would also be by the side of the two, doing nothing, just listening to the conversation between the two silently. Just the content of the chat between the two has benefited Ge Jianhao a lot.
In Chairman Mao's conversation, Ge Jianhao received the baptism of many emerging ideas, and imperceptibly, her thinking has also undergone a lot of changes.
If they can get out of the family and realize their ideals, what about those people who are like themselves? Do they have to be stuck in one place for the rest of their lives, as they thought before? Is there any way to educate these people and realize their ambitions?
Only when people accept new knowledge and see a broader world can they have the impulse to make progress and the possibility of change. Ge Jianhao looked at the book in front of her, she thought of it!
Why not create a school for girls so that all girls can be educated?
After graduating, Ge Jianhao fulfilled his promise to himself and founded a girls' school.
In the first two years of the establishment of the girls' school, the student population was very prosperous, and for those girls who grew up in feudal families, the girls' school was simply a new world.
Many students at the girls' school said that they would be very happy and happy when they came to the girls' school.
Here, Ge Jianhao's girls' school was in full swing, but the crisis soon came, and some people couldn't get used to Ge Jianhao's approach, so they used their connections to directly stop Ge Jianhao's girls' school.
Once a new idea is generated, even if it is temporarily extinguished, it will be endless, and it cannot be broken, although the girls' school can no longer be run, but Ge Jianhao is not discouraged at all, but has a bigger idea.
At that time, Ge Jianhao's daughter was founding an association to help women study in France, and Ge Jianhao saw hope in it and actively participated in the affairs of studying abroad.
Whether it was in the past or now, for us, studying abroad is a considerable expense, and many women's families simply cannot afford this huge amount of money.
As mentioned before, Ge Jianhao was born in a famous family, and such a background not only made her deeply influenced by Qiu Jin, but also brought her a lot of help to a certain extent.
Ge Jianhao asked Zeng Guofan's descendants for help, and with the help of the relationship between the three families, he received a few hundred silver dollars, which she used to help those difficult girls to study in France.
On this trip to France, Ge Jianhao also participated in it. At first, Ge Jianhao's daughter was worried that her mother was so old that she would be able to endure the bumps and bumps of the long distance and adapt to life in France.
Facts have proved that Ge Jianhao not only adapted to life in a foreign country, and even lived like a fish in water, but also started a side business in France. Decades later, recalling Ge Jianhao, her daughter couldn't help but sigh that a decision made by her mother completely changed her children's lives.
After the end of her stay in France, Ge Jianhao returned to her hometown, and her physical condition no longer allowed her to develop her career drastically, but her careful teaching of her children has allowed her children to inherit the spirit of their mother.
Cai Hesen, who once talked with Chairman Mao, eventually became one of the founders of the Communist Party of China, and several other sons and daughters also made great achievements in their careers, and all four sons and daughters became members of the Central Committee.
Ge Jianhao knew that he could no longer do anything, so he told his children that he might not be able to wait for the day when he succeeded, but she believed that the revolution would be victorious!
In 1943, Ge Jianhao closed his eyes and passed away in anticipation. In fact, her children did not bear to tell her that her son Cai Hesen and youngest daughter Cai Chang had died in the revolution, and Ge Jianhao often missed her children, she didn't know that the farewell to the world was a reunion with her children.
Ge Jianhao's life is full of legends, she is a pioneer of the women's liberation movement, a good mother, and a rare woman.
Feudal etiquette has not restrained Ge Jianhao's footsteps, and even today, Ms. Ge Jianhao is a role model for our young people in the new era.
Ge Jianhao told us with actions: be brave to chase your dreams, in the end, life will give you a reward, a trip to life, try your best to have fun, in order to have no regrets.