I have been with my boyfriend for more than a year, and my parents at home told me dozens of times not to let me live with my boyfriend, saying that when the time comes, I will find my boyfriend's family to ask for a bride price of 180,000, because the first two brothers-in-law married two sisters also took a bride price of 180,000, and I should be the same as them.
And my boyfriend's family also heard that my two sisters were married, and they asked the man's family for a bride price of 180,000, so they asked me to get pregnant before marriage, saying that what if I took the bride price and I didn't get pregnant?
Am I easy, and what the hell am I going to do?
I am 31 years old this year, graduated from 985, work in the tax bureau, 172 tall, weigh 95 pounds, and look very beautiful, just because my conditions are good, as soon as I graduated from college, I began to look for a boyfriend, looking for it, my eyes are high, as if no one in the world can be worthy of me, just like that, I delayed my marriage.
Last year, I played a boyfriend, 27 years old, teaching junior high school physics, I like him very much, sunny and handsome, gentle and considerate, he likes me very much, saying that I have connotation, unlike some girls who are crazy all day.
My family runs a pharmacy, there are two older sisters at home, I just graduated from college, and my parents bought a house for each of our three sisters in Country Garden, which cost almost 1 million yuan.
My boyfriend's family conditions are better, the family is an only child, four facades, three houses, I think I will marry in this life, I will definitely not worry about food, do not worry about clothing!
When I was playing with my boyfriend, my parents began to advise: "Don't live with your boyfriend, girls will drop the price as long as they live together, and we will ask for a bride price of 180,000 8 at that time."
This bride price will not return a penny to my boyfriend's house, let alone save my card, this bride price money Mom and Dad want to save their own card for the elderly, because they bought a house for each of our three sisters, and it is the full amount, and they have spent all their savings, and the two sisters are married like this, and I am the same.
I didn't dare to tell my boyfriend about my parents' request, and I was afraid that they would be angry and say that my family was selling women.
But my parents think that I gave a house, obviously I bought it for 1 million, and the invoices are available, so I can't let my boyfriend's family take 180,000 8?
Later, my boyfriend's parents heard about my family's request, so they let me get pregnant unmarried, as long as I was pregnant, I could say anything.
Because her boyfriend's cousin is unmarried and pregnant, and his aunt is an obstetrician and gynecologist, she said that her cousin was pregnant with a boy in her belly.
After telling her cousin's boyfriend the news, her boyfriend's family was very happy and also took a bride price of 180,000 8, but his aunt added another 10,000, a total of 190,000, all of which were deposited on his cousin's head, and the cousin's boyfriend's family felt that the boy she was pregnant with in her belly agreed to any request.
My boyfriend's mother told me: "His cousin's family is better than mine, and now he is married to a girl, who doesn't have a house? It's not unusual for my family to have a house, and it's still written in my name, in case of divorce one day, who will go to his family for the 180,000 8?"
But my family's 180,000 8 is not given to me, the requirement of being pregnant before marriage is not too much, and I am afraid that I am 31 years old, what if I am sick and do not get pregnant?
The boyfriend's father said: "His family's conditions are not bad, if you want a bride price, you must also be unmarried and pregnant, his family is 180,000, and it is not too much to want a grandson or granddaughter!"
If you don't get pregnant before marriage, you should go to the public administration office for all the previous property of his family, including four facades and three houses, because it is premarital property, thinking that it must belong to his son or grandson, and it has nothing to do with me!
What the hell should I do? The public says that the public is reasonable, and the mother-in-law says that the mother-in-law is reasonable, but I really like my boyfriend and really plan to live with him for the rest of my life.
Text: Feng Ling, (Narrator/Li Na)
Looking at the warmth and coldness of the world, tasting the hundred flavors of life, this is a true story, what should Li Na do now?
I hope that our love will be simpler, happier and not tied up by material things......