When we hear the name "Wang Nan", the first word that comes to mind is undoubtedly "legend". This female table tennis player from Shandong, with the brilliant achievements of 24 world championships, has forever put her name into the history of the sports world.
However, just recently, we saw an astonishing piece of news: Wang Nan's husband Guo Bin was invited to dance with a beautiful woman while traveling with his wife! What is the situation? Is there something wrong with this pair of seemingly golden boys and girls? There will always be such and such stormy waves during the run-in period of marriage, has their emotional boat also encountered a reef? Or is it just a small episode on the road of life? We have to ask the cause and effect of this story in order to have a more three-dimensional understanding of Wang Nan and her marriage.
Of course, we should not jump to conclusions, but need to think from many aspects. Behind this incident, there may be hidden information that we do not yet understand. Therefore, let's put aside our prejudices and re-examine the marriage process of this golden boy and girl in the table tennis world with a peaceful heart.
This strong woman Wang Nan has been invincible at the table, and we will wait and see if she can also use her wisdom to solve the problems in front of her.
Speaking of Wang Nan, the first thing to mention is her legendary table tennis career. This female table tennis player is from Yantai, an important table tennis town, and has shown extraordinary talent since she was a child.
He began to focus on training at the age of 7 and was awarded to the national team at the age of 14, which made people look at the young general.
Wang Nan's growth trajectory can be described as singing all the way, winning many battles on the international stage, making the banner of "Chinese table tennis" flutter all over the world. She has won 24 world championships, such as the World Table Tennis Championships Women's Singles Championship, World Cup Championship and other important events.
competed with Wang Nan on the same stage, and everyone was afraid. The racket in her hand is like a sharp sword that pierces the opponent's defense.
Later, people learned that during the high-intensity training before the Olympics, Wang Nan was diagnosed with thyroid cancer. In order to be healthy, she had to choose to leave the arena she loved.
What a difficult decision that must have been! Wang Nan tearfully bid farewell to her second hometown, the blue table tennis table. Although she said goodbye, she still decisively chose to fight the disease, and this courage is really admirable.
When Wang Nan announced his retirement, the wealthy businessman Guo Bin proposed to her and prepared a luxurious wedding at sea for the two. I saw a yacht docked in Yantai Port, which was resplendent with gold, embroidered with a pattern of a hundred birds and a phoenix on the red carpet, and pearls scattered all over the venue.
Wang Nan put on a trailing pure white wedding dress with a crown on her head, beautiful like a real princess.
When Guo Bin knelt down on one knee and put on a diamond ring for Wang Nan, everyone was overjoyed by their fairytale love. It turned out that Guo Bin had a secret affection as early as the time of Wang Nan, and he had always taken care of her and encouraged her.
Wang Nan also chose to entrust Guo Bin, a confidant, with his life. After marriage, Wang Nan officially hung up the housewife's apron. She put all her heart and soul into taking care of Guo Bin and maintaining this small family. And Guo Bin also took care of his wife wholeheartedly, making Wang Nan feel the warmth from the other half.
More than ten years have passed, Guo Bin's smile on Wang Nan has never changed, and he gives his wife a hug every day when he goes home. They would go to the supermarket to buy together, and Guo Bin pushed the cart behind Wang Nan, putting his favorite food into the car from time to time.
The aunt in the neighborhood would look at them and smile and say, "How can there be such a good husband now?" Just when everyone thought that Wang Nan and Guo Bin would grow old, a recent picture of their trip spread on the Internet, which made people worry and look sideways.
It turned out that when Wang Nan and Guo Bin were traveling in Mongolia, the local Mongolian beauties warmly invited Guo Bin to dance together. Guo Bin's face was embarrassed, obviously overwhelmed by the sudden invitation.
He neither decisively refused, nor directly agreed, so he let the beautiful woman's hand on his shoulder.
Fortunately, just when the situation was about to become more embarrassing, Wang Nan stepped forward quickly and separated the two to avoid continuing to lose his temper. But this scene was secretly photographed by netizens, and as soon as the photo was released, it immediately caused an uproar on the Internet.
"Is this what Guo Bin is like?" After all these years, he still has a heart!" After netizens saw this photo, they were all upset about Wang Nan and questioned whether Guo Bin was unfaithful in marriage.
In fact, we should not make conclusions based on the momentary picture. This trip may have caught him off guard, we need to listen to Guo Bin's own explanation, and we also need to believe that Wang Nan is capable of handling this turmoil.
When this photo was exposed, many people immediately felt unworthy for Wang Nan, thinking that it was evidence of Guo Bin's disloyalty. However, we need to calmly analyze the whole incident, and we can't just take it personally.
First of all, Guo Bin may not have any ill thoughts in his heart when he suddenly invited, but he refused directly out of politeness, so he could only awkwardly let the other party put on his shoulder.
Secondly, we need to see that over the years, Guo Bin has always been in love with Wang Nan, and he has taken care of his wife in every way after marriage, which is enough to show his sincerity.
Moreover, Wang Nan's choice to marry Guo Bin was also deliberate. She judged that this man could be entrusted with life. If Guo Bin had been disloyal for a long time, with Wang Nan's cleverness, he would have been able to detect it a long time ago.
Therefore, we cannot negate the feelings of this man for many years just based on this moment. This may just be a temporary embarrassment, we need to give Guo Bin and Wang Nan a certain amount of space, and believe that they have the ability to resolve this turmoil and continue to walk.
In fact, when we look back at Wang Nan's life, we will find that she is a strong woman with great emotional intelligence and judgment.
On the table tennis court, Wang Nan repeatedly defeated strong opponents and won numerous gold medals. This is not only because of her fitness and skill, but also because she can stay calm and make good judgments in high-pressure situations.
After being diagnosed with cancer in 2008, she was not discouraged, but decisively chose to retire with a sword. After that, Wang Nan chose to marry Guo Bin and became a virtuous helper. This also shows her wisdom. She gave up her career and focused more on her family, but that didn't mean she was retiring.
Instead, she continues to shine in another field. Seeing Guo Bin's embarrassing picture this time, Wang Nan also stepped forward wittily to resolve it, without intensifying the conflict, allowing us to see her steady side. Therefore, we must have a comprehensive evaluation of Wang Nan.
She first won glory for the country, and after retiring, she paid attention to her family, and at the same time had good emotional intelligence, she was a real strong woman.
Wang Nan's life is not only a legend, but also a microcosm. She has made great contributions to the cause of Chinese table tennis, and her record of 24 world championships is difficult for future generations to match. After retiring from the army, she became a good wife and mother, and handled family relationships with great wisdom.
The episode in this trip may become a new beginning in the couple's life. Just like the outcome of victory or defeat on the court, it does not represent a person's life. Guo Bin and Wang Nan will use wisdom to resolve this matter and start again.
Life is like a table tennis game, where both success and failure will come and go. The important thing is to stay calm and courageous and make the smartest choices. I believe that Wang Nan and Guo Bin both have this power.
The legend of the table tennis queen will continue to be written, and she will continue to live a beautiful life with a new attitude.