Why don't you go back to your own house and find your own mother?
If I get married in the future, I will learn Xi model of that Internet celebrity papi sauce, marriage is a matter of two people, why do the two families have to get together.
You have to spend 20,000 or 30,000 yuan for the New Year
Just now, I was talking to my husband about who to go back to for the New Year
I was almost 14 weeks pregnant during the Chinese New Year, I didn't want to go back to my hometown, my hometown was cold, and it was inconvenient to wash and go to the toilet, I wanted him to go back by himself, he said that I hadn't seen his relatives since I got married, and wanted me to go back together. It's really difficult, can't you just live your own little life after getting married?
It's really a burden, and it's very casual for my own family to celebrate the New Year
It's good for everyone to eat and drink at the dinner table, his family is not only for the New Year, as long as a group of people sit at the dinner table, they must take turns to raise the toast, and this person is annoyed.
I do whatever I want, I can go as I want, and I don't leave his relatives, no matter what they say, I haven't been in contact with them
You're definitely not alone, I know you
I've been married for more than ten years, and I still don't like to go back to his house. I grew up living as a family of three with my parents. When I went back to his hometown, there were six of his aunts, and I was really under great pressure, but the child wanted to go back to see his grandparents, there was no way, the year was just like that, and it was over if he insisted on it.
After reading the comments
I firmly believe that the concept of the new generation is indeed different. After work, many relatives can only see once a year, and they cherish the opportunity of the New Year, and the whole family can get together, and then go their separate ways to start another year of moving bricks.
Me too!!
My side is very simple, my husband and parents each have seven brothers and sisters, and each family can eat for more than half a month, and I don't understand the language with them, anyway, it is very embarrassing. So it's been a long time since I've been to his place for the New Year.
Since my mom bought a house in Hainan
I celebrate the New Year in Hainan every year, no matter how expensive the ticket is, I have to go, my husband loves to go wherever he goes, anyway, I don't go back, the first year let me kneel to his friend's house to pay New Year's greetings, I went crazy directly.
You're like me
After getting married, the most feared thing is the New Year, that is, I feel a lot of pressure and there are many things, although my husband is greeting me...... But I would rather go back to my own house to sleep (I don't have any relatives at home, so the Chinese New Year is as comfortable as a holiday).