#头条创作挑战赛#
"I can't help what I can do, lose and have."
This annual tear-jerking sentence comes from the pen of Yiling's father. After accompanying his daughter to fight cancer failed, the 27-year-old man turned white overnight and became the object of heartache for countless people.
Yiling's father became a single-parent child at the age of 2, and finally got married and had a daughter, thinking that a family of 3 could live a happy life, but when Yiling was 1 year old, Yiling's father divorced his wife and became a single father ever since.
In 2022, Yiling was diagnosed with severe liver fibrosis, Yiling's father cut his liver to save his daughter, and only a few months after the transplant, Yiling was diagnosed with hemophagocytic syndrome and finally left this world.
After Yi Ling's death, Yi Ling's father completely collapsed, and he was immersed in the pain of missing his daughter every day. He returned all the donations made by well-wishers, and he also contacted many anti-cancer families and took the initiative to donate the income from copyright.
A netizen posted a chat record with Yiling's father, in which Yiling's father took the initiative to contact the netizen, saying that he earned some copyright income after his video became popular, and it didn't make much sense to keep the money, so he had to leave the money to the children in need.
Because after Yiling's father cut Yiling's liver, she was not in good health and could not do heavy work. Netizens asked him, "You can't do heavy work now, what do you use to live." Yiling's father said, "I can go to work, it's not so pretentious", which made people cry.
In addition, Yiling's father also said that he would give traffic to seriously ill children, and the income earned by everyone's traffic would also support seriously ill families.
Previously, after Yi Ling's death, Yi Ling's father posted a video every day to remember Yi Ling, and asked netizens to send flowers to Yi Ling, saying that they would not let everyone forget Yi Ling, but now it seems that Yi Ling's father's thoughts have been sublimated. He is no longer obsessed with his reluctance to Yiling, and has begun to pay attention to more seriously ill children, which is admirable.
However, the more great Yiling's father is, the more angry netizens are at the cold-blooded ruthlessness of Yiling's mother. It is rumored on the Internet that Yiling's mother cheated on Yiling when she was 1 year old, and Yiling's father divorced her. After Yiling fell ill, Yiling's mother only gave 5,000 yuan and disappeared, and even Yiling's funeral did not appear.
It was rumored on the Internet that Yiling's mother was so indifferent, which also made her criticized. However, in the boiling condemnation, Yiling's father responded for the first time to something related to Yiling's mother, which reversed things.
On January 6, Yiling's father denied that Yiling's mother died, cheated, and committed suicide by jumping into the river. said, "I didn't attack my mother, my mother didn't attack me all the time, why do you want to spread rumors"?
Yiling's father also replied to the words of netizens, saying: "I'm afraid she won't be able to think about it, she has a small heart."
Some netizens found that the mosaics that Yiling's father gave to Yiling's mother were all love, and questioned his unforgettable love for Yiling's mother. Of course, some people said that Yiling's mother did not show up from beginning to end, and Yiling's father still defended Yiling's mother so much, which was too "love brain".
In fact, it is not so much that Yiling's father is in love with the brain, but that he is atmospheric. Yiling's mother is the child's mother no matter what, if she really loves her child, how can she resent her mother?
Now Yiling's father refuses to set up the Yiling Fund because he knows how capable he is and does not want to have a negative impact on Yiling. However, Yi Ling's story is expected to be made into a movie, and Yi Ling's father also expressed his support.
The TV series "Police Flower and Police Dog: The Journey Again" also said that it had contacted Zhang Yi, hoping that Zhang Yi could play Yiling's father. If we can really reach cooperation, I believe that more people can know Yiling, and it can also make the seriously ill group be paid attention to by more people.
Neither loss nor possession is up to anyone, but Yiling's father can live with Yiling's unfinished future and warm more people with her residual warmth.