The son was turned around by his daughter-in-law, and my wife did something that made me sober up instantly!
Recently, I found out that my son was being commanded by his daughter-in-law, and I was very distressed. In this family, the son seems to have become a puppet of the daughter-in-law, and she lets her son do this and that, without any regard for his feelings and needs. As a mother, I see it in my eyes and hurt in my heart.
One day, my wife saw my worried look and asked me what had happened. I confided my troubles to him, and he was silent for a moment, then said, "We can't let our son go on like this, we need to find a way." ”
My wife's words made me ponder. Indeed, we cannot sit idly by and do something for our son. So, we discussed a plan.
The wife first found her son and talked to him once. He told his son to learn to refuse, to have his own opinions, and not to always be led by the nose by his daughter-in-law. At the same time, he also reminded his son to cherish his time and energy and not to put all his energy on his daughter-in-law.
With the encouragement of his wife, the son began to try to refuse his daughter-in-law's unreasonable demands. At first, the daughter-in-law was very unhappy, and the family atmosphere became tense. But his wife has always supported his son and told him to stand his ground.
As time passed, the son became more and more confident and was no longer commanded by his daughter-in-law. He began to think independently and take responsibility for his own life. My wife and I are very relieved to see the changes in our son.
This experience made me deeply realize that as parents, we need to pay attention to the growth of our children and help them establish a correct outlook on life and values. At the same time, we must also learn to let go and let our children face the challenges of life on their own. Only then can they truly grow and become independent.