Severe burns, refusal of treatment
When a grandmother was bathing her two-year-old grandson, she didn't know whether she forgot it, or how, she directly poured two scoops of hot water on the child's body, and her entire back was burned.
It just so happened that the child was wearing warm clothes, which were highly absorbent, which aggravated the degree of burns.
After the parents sent the child to the county hospital for examination, they found that the condition was not good, and immediately transferred them to the hospital for treatment, and then the child was sent to the city hospital.
After an examination, the doctor found that the child not only suffered third-degree severe burns, but also had a creatinine index of more than 900, which was not even so high for uremia patients.
The doctor was also very surprised, it is impossible for the burn to cause kidney insufficiency so quickly. Unexpectedly, after a series of communications, the truth "came out".
It turned out that the child had been burned for 9 days, and the child's grandmother had just been sent to the village doctor for treatment during these 9 days.
It uses folk remedies that have no scientific basis, uses vegetables bought at home, mashes them into water, spreads them on the children, and finally uses tea oil. As a result, the condition is now more serious.
The doctor was stunned by such a miraculous operation, and the doctor also took the time to explain the child's condition to the child's parents.
Unexpectedly, the child's father is most concerned about the cost, perhaps this is the reason why he has not been sent to the hospital and treated with folk remedies.
In their opinion, it was just an ordinary burn, not as serious as the doctor said. The doctor also patiently explained the next treatment process to them.
Because the child's wound area is relatively large, and some of the burned areas are very deep, the wound can only be reduced by artificial skin, and then repaired with scalp skin grafting, so the approximate cost is about 25,000.
When the operation was about to be performed, the words of the child's father made netizens sigh: How terrible are ignorant people.
The child's father said to the child's mother: "Don't listen to the doctor, the child's condition is not very serious, the doctor just wants you to do it." ”
He thinks that the doctor's words are just to make money for the surgery. What is even more unexpected is that the child's mother also recognized the child's father's words, gave up, and told the doctor not to do this operation.
The doctor was directly dumbfounded, and for the sake of the child's future, he still patiently persuaded the child's father, "The child may have a raised scar without surgery, and it will itch and hurt." ”
Dad's sentence "scars are normal" and the excuse that anesthesia has side effects, the doctor was speechless.
The doctor's good words did not move the child's father in the end, and the child's mother was discharged from the hospital with the child the next day.
Sometimes, the future of a child is in the mind of his parents, and he can't imagine whether the child will hate his parents in the future.
Regarding this matter, netizens commented:
"My son's heel was hot and hot, I was so scared that I rushed to the hospital, I didn't have a scald department in the hospital here, I was in a hurry, the family was really angry. ”
It is estimated that when the child saw this video, his parents would be hospitalized and extubated directly without treatment. ”
"Nine days, how ignorant this parent is, and how much time has been missed for the best treatment. It's speechless. ”
"The iPhone used by the child's mother is reluctant to spend money on the child's treatment. ”
The low cognitive level of parents not only affects themselves, but also hurts their children, and if they come directly for treatment on the day of the child's burn, it may not lead to such a serious situation now.
Due to parental negligence, the child is catheterized for life
This one thing reminds me of another thing.
It's a six-year-old boy, but he's still wearing diapers, what's going on?
The little boy was born different, with a small hole in his buttocks, and the midwife told him that there was nothing wrong with it, it was just a small birthmark.
The mother listened to it, and then directly ignored the child's problem, and did not take it to the hospital for examination.
However, what I never expected was that the child had reached the age when he should go to primary school, and the mother found that her child was different from ordinary people.
For three consecutive years of incontinence, I pulled directly to my pants, so over the years, the child's mother still let the child wear diapers. The child's mother may have realized the seriousness of the problem last year, so she went to the hospital for a check-up, only to find out that the child had hydronephrosis and lipoma.
But the mother did not have surgery for the child for some reason.
Now I found that the problem seemed to be more serious, so I came to the doctor. After the doctor understood the situation, he quickly examined the child.
It is found that the child's symptoms are the latent sinuses, and the best age for surgery is between 1 and 2 years old. But because of the mother's negligence, the child missed the best time for treatment.
And now the long-term non-intervention has also led to abnormalities in the child's lower limbs, and the condition has also worsened, and the mother who knows the child now knows how much her negligence has affected the child.
The doctor's words in the back made the child's mother collapse instantly, "After the operation, the child must be catheterized for life." ”
What a terrible thing to say, the child's mother can't accept it at all. The doctor explained to her, "It is very difficult for a child to live to be 20 years old without surgery. ”
This is the indifference when I was a child, delaying the child's life! I can't control my urine and urine for 3 years, what have my parents done in these three years?
Ignorance is the scariest thing
Socrates once said, "Knowledge is virtue, ignorance is sin". Poor parents are not terrible, ignorant parents are the most terrible!
In today's society, there are still many ignorant parents, and the personal experiences of netizens make me sad for a long time.
Holding his own child to drive, showing me a smile, if you love your daughter, please buy her a safety seat, because of his own whim, an unexpected accident happened.
Knowing that his child is allergic to peaches, he still has to put peaches in the fruit juice, and he still thinks that his child is hypocritical, is this his own child or an enemy?
Hahahaha forgive me for not smiling kindly, and the dog bitten grandma took dried chili peppers to soak in water and wiped them on the wound, is this still too big a wound? What kind of folk "home remedies" is this, no wonder the child screams in pain.
This dad is also big-hearted, the child coughed, in the middle of the night the dark light blinded out two pills and fed to the child, I didn't expect the child to wake up the next day, only to find out that the father fed sleeping pills.
Hahaha, your parents are too funny, one is sick and asks God to worship the Buddha, boils water to drink with rune paper, and writes the word "tiger" on the child's face with a brush, and then you can wash it off hahaha.
I don't understand this, because there is no shortage of money at home, why should the child wear inappropriate shoes? As a result, the child is now five years old, and his feet are no longer shaped, and they are very crooked.
Mom, whose mother feeds popcorn and drinks green tea when the child is coughing on a drip, for fear that the child will not get better.
Good guys, spray insecticide into your nose? Fortunately, your nose is still there, it's not easy to live this big.
epilogue
In the process of children's growth, the family is undoubtedly their cradle, and parents are their closest people.
However, if parents are blinded by ignorance, it can cause indelible trauma to their children. When we meet such parents, we should also understand.
They may be limited by their own knowledge and experience, and they may have little understanding or misunderstanding of certain things, so we need to communicate and communicate better with them.
Of course, most parents are dedicated to their children, give their children more freedom and support, and respect their children's personality and needs, so that parents can often raise a sunny and cheerful child.
We should respect and tolerate different parenting styles and work together to create a positive, healthy and nurturing environment for children to grow up in the interests of their children.
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Source: Twinkle's Pediatrician