Good communication can solve many contradictions and problems in life. Many parents know this truth and can communicate well at work, but they are at a loss when it comes to communicating with their children.
In this book published by Jiangsu Phoenix Science and Technology Publishing House and written by Luo Minchang, "Parents Will Communicate, Children Are Better (Hanzhu)", the author pointed out that talking well with children is an important responsibility of parents before their children form communication boundaries.
In the book, the author proposes four major communication methods that can allow parents to build a bridge of good communication with their children.
The four major communication methods are: small talk communication, co-frequency communication, game communication and story communication.
Small talk actually occupies a considerable proportion in our daily life, parents need to listen carefully to what their children say, and give timely feedback information, so that children will be more willing to observe the outside world and be more willing to talk because they have an audience, are understood, and their expressions are responded.
It should be noted that when children talk to parents, parents should not focus on work and mobile phones, but should look into the eyes of children, listen carefully and answer carefully, so that children will feel cared for.
Reading is also an important part of our daily lives. When there is an atmosphere of reading and learning in a home, children will follow their parents to develop the habit of reading, and everyone can exchange books they have read and recommend books to each other. In this way, you can discuss things in common with your child, and this kind of discussion of the content in the book is not directed and easier to communicate.
Games are a spice for life, an attempt and a way to discover new things. Games can de-stress children and relieve inner pressure, just like adults play games. At the same time, play can also build children's self-confidence.
No child doesn't like to listen to stories, and there must be a reason why stories have been passed down. Because there is philosophy in the story, children can see themselves, express themselves, and comfort themselves.
Repeating stories and telling stories allows children to express their inner thoughts and parents to understand their children.
No matter what kind of education it is, it must be built on effective communication, and these four communication methods can allow parents to build a bridge of good communication with their children. #春日暖心语录 ##记录我的2024##春日生活打卡##春日扭蛋机#