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I took a deep breath and decided to face the problem head-on. Walking into the living room, I saw my mother-in-law sitting on the sofa with an unhappy expression. I sat across from her and said in a calm tone, "Mom, we need to have a good talk." "
The mother-in-law snorted coldly, "What did you say? Did I say something wrong? I patiently explained: "Mom, we appreciate your kindness. But you have been interfering in our lives, which has caused a lot of stress in our relationship as a couple. Can you give us some space to be alone?"
The mother-in-law said in an unkind tone: "Hmph, I just can't get used to seeing the two of you, and what you do is not pleasing to the eye! You said that you want to give space, then I will go back and let you live by yourself!"
I sighed and tried to convince her, "Mom, you're a big burden for us to live here. We also have to take care of your daily life and food, and you can't devote yourself to your work. It would be great if you could take care of yourself. "
My mother-in-law looked at me coldly, "You think I'm an eyesore, don't you?" I knew you two looked down on me from the beginning. Okay, then I'll go back to my hometown and don't delay the world of the two of you!" With that, she went back to her bedroom in a rage and began to pack her luggage.
I looked at her back helplessly, and my heart was mixed. On the one hand, I really hope that my mother-in-law will be considerate of our situation; On the other hand, I couldn't bear to drive away my loved ones. I walked to the bedroom door, hesitating to persuade her to stay.
At this moment, my wife hurried out of the kitchen, "Mom, don't be angry, don't go! Looking at my wife's pleading eyes, I felt even more sad.
The mother-in-law snorted coldly, "You two just don't want me here, I'm in the way of your eyes, okay, then I'll go, let you two live by yourself!" With that, she pulled her suitcase and walked straight to the door.
I hurriedly stopped her, "Mom, don't be angry, we just want to give you and ourselves some time alone, not without you." We're worried about you if you're gone. "
My mother-in-law glared at me coldly, "You still have the face to say! If it weren't for you, I wouldn't be living here and being angry." I can see you two being selfish!"
I looked at her with a smile and a smile, "Mom, can you listen to me?" We don't want you, we just want you to give us some space." You have been interfering in our lives and have also put a lot of burden on us. We really appreciate the care you have always taken care of, but hope you understand our situation. "
The mother-in-law snorted coldly, "Hmph, I just can't get used to you selfish people! Forget it, I'll go back by myself, I'm a burden here anyway." With that, she strode out with her suitcase in her hand.
I stood at the door and watched my mother-in-law's back, with mixed feelings. I know she must be sad and angry, but I really can't continue to tolerate her interference in our lives. We also need some alone time as a couple to maintain our relationship.
I turned around and saw my wife standing in the living room with red eyes. I walked over and hugged her gently, "Don't be sad, baby. I know it must be sad for you, but we have to think about ourselves and our families. We will spend more time with my mother-in-law in the future, and she will understand us when she calms down. "
The wife sobbed and nodded, "I know, but I'm still worried that if my mother will go back alone, something will happen." What are we going to do if she's gone?"
I comforted her and said, "It's okay, I'll ask her friend to pick her up." When she gets back, we'll talk slowly. Now let's take a good rest and think about what comes next. "
Sending off my emotional mother-in-law, my wife and I hugged each other and fell silent. I could feel the worry and sadness of my wife, who had always been a dutiful daughter. I gently patted her on the back, trying to soothe her emotions.
After a long time, his wife finally calmed down. She looked up at me, "Husband, I really don't know what to do. Mom went back angry, and I was worried that something would happen to her when she was out alone. Shall we call her friends and ask them to pick her up?"
I pondered for a moment, "I've asked her friend to pick her up." We can't force her to stay here now, so we can only wait for her to calm down and then communicate slowly. Don't worry, I will always be by your side and take care of your mother-daughter relationship. "
The wife nodded, "I know, husband." I'm just too worried about my mother, and it's not convenient for her to live alone. Shall we give her a call later and see how she is doing?"
I called my mom's friend and made sure she had arrived safely. A friend told me that my mother-in-law had been complaining about us along the way, but nothing had happened. I hung up the phone and gently told my wife the news.
The wife breathed a sigh of relief, "That's good, at least mom went back safely." We must care more about her in the future, and we must not let her feel left out. "
I nodded, "Well, I thought so too. We must spend more time with her and communicate more in the future. I know it's hard for you, but we have to think about the family. "
My wife held my hand, "Husband, I understand your consideration. I'll try my best to cooperate with you, after all, we are family. It's just that I'm so worried about my mom and hope she understands our situation. "
"I hope so, too. Either way, we are all responsible for our own lives. We will try to accommodate our mother-in-law's requests, but also allow ourselves time to be alone. I believe that as long as we communicate properly, everything will be fine. I comforted gently.
After discussing it with my wife, we decided to take advantage of the weekend to drive to my mother-in-law's house to see her. We brought some fruits and snacks that my mother-in-law likes to eat, hoping to resolve the previous conflict.
When we arrived at my mother-in-law's house, when we rang the doorbell, my mother-in-law did not open the door immediately. It was a moment before she opened the door, with a palpable look of displeasure on her face.
"Mom, it's us. We've come to see you and hope you're okay. I said earnestly.
My mother-in-law glanced at us coldly, "Oh, it's you." I'm fine, you guys go back. "
We looked at each other, and my wife said solemnly, "Mom, we really think about you. It's not convenient for you to be out there alone, do you want to move back and live with us?"
The mother-in-law snorted coldly, "Move back?" Hmph, if you hadn't driven me away, I wouldn't have come back to suffer." You two just don't want me to be an eyesore there!"
"That's enough, I don't want to listen to your explanation! You two are selfish and not filial at all! I'll just go back and not delay you living in a two-person world!" After the mother-in-law finished speaking, she wanted to close the door.
I hurriedly reached out to block the door, "Mom, please listen to us." We're not asking for you, we just want you to give us some space to be alone. You have been interfering in our lives and have also put a lot of burden on us. We really appreciate the care you have taken care of, but hope you understand our situation. "
My mother-in-law looked at me coldly, "Hmph, you still have the face to say! If it weren't for you, I wouldn't have lived there and been bored." Do you think I don't know that you two are talking bad about me behind my back? I just can't get used to you selfish people!"
The wife hurriedly stepped forward and held her mother-in-law's hand, "Mom, we really didn't mean that." We just hope you'll give us some alone time to repair our relationship. If you are not comfortable living alone outside the home, you can always come back and live with us. We will do our best to take care of you. "
The mother-in-law stared at her wife, and her eyes finally eased a little, "You are a filial daughter." But your husband's selfish guy, I really can't get used to it!"
I hurriedly explained, "Mom, I really didn't mean that. I'm just trying to get the three of us to communicate well and find a lifestyle that will both make you comfortable and give us space to be alone. If you move back, we'll take good care of you. "
The mother-in-law was silent for a while, and finally sighed, "Forget it, I'll give you another chance." But you have to treat me well, and don't let me be wronged in your house!"
My wife and I looked at each other and smiled and breathed a sigh of relief. We rushed to welcome my mother-in-law into our house and prepared a hearty dinner for her. Looking at my mother-in-law's expression as she gradually relaxed, my heart was filled with gratitude. We will definitely treat her well and make her feel at home here.
After my mother-in-law moved back into our house, my wife and I did our best to take care of her. We reached out to ask her about her needs, prepared a nutritious diet for her, and helped her with her daily routine. My mother-in-law's mood gradually eased and she no longer pointed fingers at us like before.
One weekend afternoon, I was watching TV in the living room when my mother-in-law came over and said, "Son, I want to go out for a walk, can you come with me?"
I quickly put down the remote control, "Okay, Mom." I'll go out for a walk with you. "
We walked together to a nearby park and paced slowly along the boulevard. The mother-in-law was silent for a while, and then suddenly spoke: "Son, I know that I was too strict with you some time ago. I just hope to see you live happily ever after in my lifetime. "
I smiled slightly, "Mom, you don't have to blame yourself too much. I fully understand your worries and painstaking efforts. My wife and I also know that you have been thinking about us, and we appreciate your kindness. "
"I know, Mom. We have always tried our best to maintain family harmony, but there will inevitably be some conflicts and disagreements. We really appreciate your understanding and accommodating attitude. I say sincerely.
My mother-in-law stopped and looked at me seriously, "Son, in fact, I want to have a good talk with you when I come back this time." I know that my behavior at home may have caused you trouble, and I will definitely correct it in the future. But I also hope that you can understand my feelings and spend more time with me. "
"You're right, Mom. We really need to communicate more as a family and understand each other. We will try our best to cooperate with you, but we also hope that you will give us some alone time to maintain our relationship as a couple. I said sincerely.
The mother-in-law pondered for a moment, and finally nodded, "Okay, I see." I will be careful to interfere in your lives in the future, and I will give you more space to be alone. But you also have to remember to always accompany me, an old woman, and don't make me feel left out. "
"Mom, don't worry, we will definitely come to accompany you often. You can enjoy your life here and don't worry too much about us. I laughed.
The mother-in-law also smiled slightly, "Then it's decided." Let's go, let's go again. "
We paced around the park for a while, talking and laughing, and the atmosphere was much more harmonious. Looking at my mother-in-law with a smile on her face, I was sincerely grateful. I know that as long as we understand and tolerate each other, we will be able to maintain this family together.
Back at home, my wife and I exchanged information about the conversation. The wife said happily: "Husband, it seems that this conversation has touched my mother a lot. She finally understood our situation. "
I nodded, "yes, we should also cherish this opportunity." In the future, we must accompany our mother-in-law more so that she can feel the warmth of home here. "
My wife hugged me tightly, "Husband, thank you so much." It was you who resolved this family conflict with patience and love, and I am truly grateful to you. "
I hugged her tenderly, "Baby, we are a family, and we should help each other." We will definitely work together to make this family more harmonious and happy. "
At this moment, the mother-in-law came over with a plate of fruit, "You two are sneaking around there, and you don't call me to come along." "
We hurriedly greeted my mother-in-law, "Mom, you're back." We are just discussing how we can take better care of you in the future. "
The mother-in-law smiled, "Oh, yes? That's good, you have to take good care of me, an old woman." I don't want to be wronged anymore. "
The three of us chatted together in the living room, and the atmosphere was harmonious. I looked at the scene in front of me, and my heart was filled with gratitude and happiness. This family has finally come out of the predicament and ushered in a new dawn.
However, the good times were short-lived. Just when we thought everything was going well, suddenly something happened that put our family in crisis.
That night, I went home as usual. On this day, I came home early from work to surprise my wife and mother-in-law. But when I opened the door, I heard a fierce quarrel coming from inside.
I walked quickly into the living room and saw my wife and mother-in-law facing each other in tension. When they saw me come back, they both stopped talking for a moment. I asked, confused, "What's going on, what are you two arguing about?"
The wife gritted her teeth and said, "It's nothing, it's just some family trivialities." But the mother-in-law sneered: "Hmph, isn't it your husband who doesn't want to make progress, which causes our family to be in trouble?"
I frowned and said, "Mom, what do you mean by that? My job has always been stable and my income is not low. "
My mother-in-law glared at me coldly: "Stable, not low? Heh, look at your family's bills." I spend a lot of money every month, and I live without moderation. If I hadn't paid for the maintenance of this family, you would have gone bankrupt a long time ago!"
I was stunned for a moment, and then retorted, "Mom, you know about our expenses. We will reimburse you in detail every month. If you feel something is wrong, feel free to point it out. "
The mother-in-law snorted disdainfully: "Point it out? You still have the face to say! Your husband and wife are nothing more than a pair of losers who spend money like water." Look at your monthly credit card bills, which are all about luxuries and entertainment. Do you think I don't know you guys are secretly buying expensive electronics and lavish vacation packages?"
I was speechless for a moment, not knowing how to refute it. I've been a bit indulgent in this regard, but I've never spent more than we can afford.
The wife quickly interjected: "Mom, it's not fair for you to say that. We do indulge a little bit in some of our consumption, but we don't get to the point of losing money. You only have to take a closer look at our income and expenditure bills to see that we still have some savings. "
The mother-in-law sneered: "Heh, the income and expenditure bills? Do you think I haven't read it? Every time you show it to me, isn't it just made up in advance? I'm not blind, I've seen through your tricks a long time ago!"
I hurriedly defended: "Mom, you misunderstood. We have never made up any accounts, and they have always been truthful. If you have any complaints, we can communicate and solve them. "
My mother-in-law glared at us coldly, "Solve it, what qualifications do you two have to solve it with me? If it weren't for the fact that you are my relatives, I would have bankrupted you a long time ago!"
My wife was anxious, grabbed my arm and said, "Mom, how can you say that? We are just a little relaxed in life, but definitely not to the point of insolvency. If you have any comments on our spending, we can discuss how to control your spending. "
The mother-in-law sneered and shook her head, "Discuss, heh, you think I don't know what you're discussing? You just want to find a way to cheat me out of my money so that you can live your luxurious life!"
I was speechless for a moment, unable to refute my mother-in-law's accusations. It is true that my wife and I may have some loss of control in some consumption, but it is definitely not to the point of dragging down the family. But now, my mother-in-law's suspicions and accusations make me feel very uneasy.
My wife grabbed my hand tightly, "Husband, we must explain clearly, we can't let my mother misunderstand us like this all the time." "
I nodded, "Okay, let's communicate with Mom together and make everything clear." "
But just then, a cell phone rang. I picked up the phone and heard that it was the bank staff, "Hello sir, your credit card bill is two months overdue, please make up the payment as soon as possible." If we do not pay in time, we will take legal measures to recover. "
I was stunned, and then quickly replied, "Ah, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'll deal with it." "
Hanging up the phone, my hands trembled uncontrollably slightly. My mother-in-law looked at me coldly, "What, I didn't expect my consumption to be exposed, right?"
Everything in front of me made me feel at a loss. Our family conflicts, my mother-in-law's accusations, and the impending credit card collection all made me feel helpless and hopeless. How do I face the coming crisis?
After receiving the call from the bank, my heart suddenly fell into a huge anxiety and helplessness. I didn't know how to deal with the family crisis in front of me, let alone explain my actions to my wife and mother-in-law.
I looked at the two women nervously, "I, I'm going to take care of my credit card." With that, he hurried to the bedroom.
The wife hurriedly followed, "Husband, wait for me to go with you!" And the mother-in-law sneered coldly in the living room, "Hmph, it seems that you couple are really losers!"
My wife and I hurried into the bedroom and closed the door. My wife anxiously asked me, "Husband, what the hell is going on, why does the bank call to collect the credit card bill?"
I took a deep breath and explained, "I, I don't know what to say. In the past few months, I have really lost control of some of my consumption. I've been covering up these bills and not telling you and my mom. As a result, the bank has now found that it is overdue, and they ask me to make up the payment as soon as possible. "
The wife's eyes widened, "What? You actually hid it from me and my mother? Husband, do you know what you did? What a crisis this will put our whole family in!"
My wife grabbed my arm tightly, "Husband, how much do we owe?
I stammered, "Big, maybe a hundred thousand." The bank gave me two weeks to make a catch-up payment, otherwise they would have to take legal action. "
The wife's face turned pale in an instant, "Ten, hundreds of thousands, husband, where did we get so much money? Are we really going to go bankrupt as my mother said?"
My heart sank, "I, I don't know what to do." We don't have enough money to pay off this big debt. I, I was so bad that my family got into such a situation. "
Tears welled up in his wife's eyes, "Husband, what should we do? How should we face our mother? If we really want to go bankrupt, what will she think of us?"
I hugged my wife tightly, "I'm sorry, it's all my fault." I'm going to find a way to solve this problem, and it won't hurt our whole family. "
At this moment, the bedroom door was suddenly pushed open, and my mother-in-law stood at the door and glared at us, "What are you two discussing inside?
My wife and I looked at each other, not knowing how to explain it. After a long time, I plucked up the courage and said, "Mom, this matter is really complicated. We need your understanding and help, and we hope that you will support us through this difficult time. "
The mother-in-law sneered, "Support, you owe so much money to the bank, and you dare to count on me to support it? I think your husband and wife are completely finished!"
The wife looked at her mother-in-law pleadingly, "Mom, please help us." We were at a loss for what to do. If we really want to go bankrupt, our whole family will be in a desperate situation. "
My mother-in-law stared at us coldly, "Hmph, why should I clean up your own mistakes?" I think you better hurry up and find a way, don't expect me to help you!"
With that, she turned to leave. I hurriedly stopped her, "Mom, please, just think about your daughter and grandson, please lend a hand." We're really at our bottom. "
My mother-in-law glared at me fiercely, "Desperate, heh, this is all your own fruit! Since you two are such losers, then figure it out yourself, don't expect me to use my hard-earned money to save you!"
With that, she left the bedroom without looking back. Looking at my mother-in-law's angry back, my wife and I looked at each other, our eyes full of despair.
My heart was like a drumstick, "What should I do, what should I do?" Mom won't help us at all, what should we do?"
The two of us just hugged each other and wept sadly. The situation was so desperate that we didn't know how to save this family who was about to go bankrupt.
I don't know how long it took for us to finally calm down. I looked at my wife with red eyes, "Baby, we have to find a way to get through this." I'm not going to let our family go ruined like that. "
I was silent for a moment, "I'll find a way to raise money." I will do my best to pay off the bank's arrears and never let our family go bankrupt. Trust me, I'll find a way to fix this. "
My wife held my hand, "I believe in you, husband." Just, what exactly are you going to do?"
I took a deep breath, "I'll go and ask the bank for a moratorium." At the same time, I will find a side hustle as soon as possible and make money as quickly as possible to pay off the arrears. Although the outlook looks bleak at the moment, as long as we work together, we will be able to overcome this difficult time. "
The wife nodded, "Okay, then I will fully cooperate with you." Together, we will find a way out of this predicament and make sure that our family is happy and healthy again. "
Just then, the bedroom door was pushed open again. My mother-in-law stood at the door, looking at us with a complicated expression, "You two, I've thought about it." If you really need money, I can lend you some temporarily. However, you have to spend it well, and you don't lose like you did before!"
My wife and I looked at each other for a while. We quickly got up, turned around and hugged our mother-in-law tightly, "Mom, thank you so much! With your support, we will definitely be able to get through this difficult time!"
My mother-in-law patted me lightly on the back, "Okay, don't cry." Although I am very strict, after all, I am your relative. As long as you can save well in the future, I will always be here to support you. "
The three of us hugged each other tightly and finally ushered in the dawn. Despite the difficult situation, with the support of our families, I believe that we will be able to overcome this difficult time and embrace a better life again.