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85-year-old "Lin Daojing" Xie Fang, married to her husband for 65 years, is as loving as ever, and her love is enviable

author:Meng Meng chats about the past and the present

The love story of Ms. Xie Fang, who is 85 years old, and her husband Mr. Zhang Mu is a legend in the world, and has become a model that many couples envy and yearn for.

However, behind this enviable marriage, fate unveiled the cruel prelude with its coldness in 2022 - Mr. Zhang Mu unfortunately passed away at the age of ninety-two.

85-year-old "Lin Daojing" Xie Fang, married to her husband for 65 years, is as loving as ever, and her love is enviable

At the last moment of his life, Mr. Zhang Mu held Ms. Xie Fang's hand tightly, and his eyes showed endless attachment and reluctance. In the end, he closed his eyes forever with tears in his eyes and said goodbye to this lover he had cared for all his life.

Ms. Xie Fang lost her loved ones, and her whole person seemed to be hollowed out, facing the last journey of her life alone.

Recalling the good times spent with Mr. Zhang Mu, those laughter and laughter that used to be echoed in the empty room now made Ms. Xie Fang's heart feel painful.

Although she had been mentally prepared, when the moment of losing her husband came, the deep longing was still unbearable for her.

She remembered how Mr. Zhang Mu supported and took care of her wholeheartedly. They are like conjoined babies, no matter when and where, Mr. Zhang Mu is always by Ms. Xie Fang's side, never leaving her.

Even in that sudden traffic accident, Ms. Xie Fang's first concern was not her own safety, but Mr. Zhang Mu's safety, which undoubtedly proved the deep affection between them.

85-year-old "Lin Daojing" Xie Fang, married to her husband for 65 years, is as loving as ever, and her love is enviable

Now, the husband she has spent her life caring for has left her forever, and Ms. Xie Fang walks alone in the world with endless thoughts about Mr. Zhang Mu.

She couldn't imagine how she would continue to walk through the last chapter of this life without Mr. Zhang Mu's company, no one could empathize with the pain, Ms. Xie Fang was full of grief in the face of this cruel reality.

Looking back on Ms. Xie Fang's youth, her whole life was closely connected with her husband, Mr. Zhang Mu. In 1957, Ms. Xie Fang, who was only 22 years old, met Mr. Zhang Mu, who was also in the spotlight, in the art troupe, with a vision and expectation for her future life.

At that time, Mr. Zhang Mu was also a dazzling star in the group, and the love letters written by the girls for him were enough to fill the entire drawer. However, in the face of these fiery pursuits, Ms. Xie Fang has always remained calm and rational, because her heart has long been deeply attracted by the handsome and dashing man in front of her.

85-year-old "Lin Daojing" Xie Fang, married to her husband for 65 years, is as loving as ever, and her love is enviable

At the moment of their first encounter, Xie Fang was deeply attracted by Zhang Mu. Although Zhang Mu was a full five years older than her, he decided to take care of the young girl with the care of a brother because of the potential for trouble.

Xie Fang was also moved by Zhang Mu's carefulness and thoughtfulness, and an indescribable emotion gradually developed between the two.

In the daily life of the art troupe, Xie Fang and Zhang Mu often perform on the same stage intimately, and perform touching love stories on the stage.

The warm emotions hidden in the bottom of my heart are inadvertently revealed through my eyes and body language.

85-year-old "Lin Daojing" Xie Fang, married to her husband for 65 years, is as loving as ever, and her love is enviable

I still remember one time, when Xie Fang participated in the "land reform" movement, she generously lent her father's new sweater to Zhang Mu, who was in the bitter cold. When they returned to the regiment headquarters from the village, the organization held a symposium to recognize Xie Fang's outstanding performance.

However, Xie Fang bravely revealed his special feelings for Zhang Mu to everyone under the watchful eye. This is undoubtedly an admirable feat, and it further deepens Zhang Mu's admiration for her.

After the symposium, Zhang Mu couldn't wait to pull Xie Fang aside and ask her why she said those words in public. Xie Fang replied calmly, "I miss you, don't you want me?" Hearing this, Zhang Mu's face suddenly turned red, and he was speechless for a while.

It turned out that he loved the girl equally deeply, but he was ashamed to express it all the time. This candid meeting finally made the hearts of the two closely connected.

85-year-old "Lin Daojing" Xie Fang, married to her husband for 65 years, is as loving as ever, and her love is enviable

Since then, Xie Fang and Zhang Mu have started their life journey of supporting each other, and the relationship between them is like a light that will never be extinguished.

Xie Fang's life trajectory was dramatically changed by an unexpected opportunity. The famous director Cui Wei is preparing to shoot the movie "Song of Youth", but he is in a dilemma on the selection of the heroine.

Just as he was racking his brains, Xie Fang's figure suddenly jumped into his mind. So, he decided to let the young stage actor play this key role.

For Xie Fang, who never imagined that he would one day be able to stand in front of the dazzling big screen, this is undoubtedly a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity given by God.

85-year-old "Lin Daojing" Xie Fang, married to her husband for 65 years, is as loving as ever, and her love is enviable

However, others also have deep doubts about whether this young woman, who has no acting experience, can take on this important role.

However, Xie Fang firmly adhered to the belief of "not steaming steamed buns to fight for breath", and under the director's patient and meticulous guidance, she was finally able to stay in the crew and continue to go all out.

When the husband learned that his beloved wife had obtained this rare opportunity, his heart was full of ecstatic excitement. He affectionately told Xie Fang to feel at ease to shoot in Beijing, and promised to visit her in person whenever he had free time.

Xie Fangnai is a woman who is extremely attached to her family, so when the movie was successfully completed, she did not hesitate to politely refuse the director's kind invitation, and set out on her way home overnight, returning to the warm and sweet little home she created with her husband.

85-year-old "Lin Daojing" Xie Fang, married to her husband for 65 years, is as loving as ever, and her love is enviable

Although the environment is simple and cramped, it has a strong family atmosphere.

Even in a foreign country, Zhang Mu never forgot to go to Beijing to visit his beloved wife. However, due to the tight schedule of filming, they were often urgently recalled to the set by the director before they could have a few in-depth conversations, and continued to devote themselves to their work.

Despite this, Zhang Mu still gave Xie Fang endless understanding and support, and he was extremely proud to have such a persevering wife.

After half a year of hard work, the film finally achieved the brilliant success expected. In 1959, "Song of Youth" set off a nationwide craze, and on the day of its release, the ticket window was crowded, and many audiences were willing to give up lunch money to enter the theater again to enjoy this masterpiece.

85-year-old "Lin Daojing" Xie Fang, married to her husband for 65 years, is as loving as ever, and her love is enviable

Xie Fang's first screen appearance was a big success, and there was an endless stream of directors who came to invite her to star in the new film, and all kinds of scripts flew like snowflakes. She is no longer the obscure stage actress, but has become a high-profile star.

However, at this moment, her husband Zhang Mu is still an ordinary drama actor, working diligently and dedicatedly in the team, and the gap between the two is like a chasm, which is difficult to overcome.

In the entertainment industry, the marriage model of "strong women and weak men" is not uncommon, such as Zhao Liying and Feng Shaofeng, Yang Mi and Hawick Lau and other celebrity couples have broken up their marriages one after another.

In the face of her husband Zhang Mu, who was hand-selected and pursued by herself, the determined Xie Fang never harbored any suspicion and estrangement because of those gossips spread by the outside world.

85-year-old "Lin Daojing" Xie Fang, married to her husband for 65 years, is as loving as ever, and her love is enviable

In that challenging year of 1961, the crystallization of their love, the birth of their son Zhang Jing, is undoubtedly the most powerful response to these rumors, showing that their relationship is still the same and indestructible.

The arrival of her son did not stop Xie Fang from moving forward, but made her devote herself more fully to her career and entrust the child to the care of her parents.

She firmly believes that as long as she has faith in her heart, she can find her own happiness no matter where she is.

During the long journey of marriage, Xie Fang became more and more dependent on the company and support of her husband Zhang Mu. They are like a pair of conjoined babies who are closely connected, snuggling up to each other, regardless of you and me.

85-year-old "Lin Daojing" Xie Fang, married to her husband for 65 years, is as loving as ever, and her love is enviable

No matter what kind of profession Xie Fang is engaged in, she always hopes to integrate Zhang Mu into it, and Zhang Mu, a husband who is like a "spoiled wife", always unconditionally satisfies his wife's wishes and always accompanies her.

Zhang Mu is not only Xie Fang's full-time driver, but also her right-hand man, and can even be said to be her personal nanny. He is meticulous, whether it is the exquisite costumes required for each performance, or other tedious and small affairs, he will dutifully take care of Xie Fang.

Whenever he needs to go to a different place for shooting, he will patiently and meticulously arrange all his clothes, and he can leave with peace of mind until the vehicle starts to drive into the distance.

After countless hard work, Xie Fang was finally transferred to Beijing with Zhang Mu. This allowed her heart that had been hanging to finally let go of peace, and sharing good times with her husband became the most precious happiness in her life.

85-year-old "Lin Daojing" Xie Fang, married to her husband for 65 years, is as loving as ever, and her love is enviable

With her husband by her side, she seemed to have a solid backing, so she began to devote herself wholeheartedly, emerged in the film and television industry, won warm praise from the audience, and truly became an outstanding artist with both virtue and art.

In this marriage, Xie Fang is responsible for working hard outside, and Zhang Mu is responsible for housework at home, this life pattern has been deeply imprinted in their bones, even if time flies, they are still happy to do it.

Zhang Mu bought a tricycle, taking Xie Fang every day to play in the mountains and rivers, once almost encountered an accident, the traffic police helped the panicked Xie Fang up, her first reaction was not to check whether she was injured, but to ask about the situation of her wife.

Luckily, both of them were unscathed, and they ended up smiling at each other like two carefree children.

85-year-old "Lin Daojing" Xie Fang, married to her husband for 65 years, is as loving as ever, and her love is enviable

For Xie Fang and Zhang Mu, who are emotionally prepared and have a sweet and poetic life, their happy marriage can be called a fairyland on earth, which is enviable! Even in the face of a significant gap in professional achievement and social status, they can still stick to their true love, and their love is stronger than gold.

They are dependent on each other, affectionate and affectionate, and they can't wait to hug each other tightly at all times. It is this kind of innocent and firm love that makes their marriage stronger and stronger through ups and downs, and has become a legendary story of the times.

Xie Fang said frankly in an interview that the decision to marry Zhang Mu was mainly because he valued his status and superior living environment.

However, this is nothing more than a light-hearted and humorous sentence, and the emotional bond between them stems from sincere love.

85-year-old "Lin Daojing" Xie Fang, married to her husband for 65 years, is as loving as ever, and her love is enviable

Xie Fang's eyes are always filled with endless love, and their marriage can be described as a match made in heaven.

In this relationship, Xie Fang is responsible for working outside the home, while Zhang Mu is responsible for the housework, and this lifestyle has been deeply integrated into their daily lives.

Even though time flies, they are still happy to show their eyes, not only Xie Fang's exclusive driver, but also her right-hand man, and even her personal nanny.

He is considerate and takes care of his wife's daily life.

85-year-old "Lin Daojing" Xie Fang, married to her husband for 65 years, is as loving as ever, and her love is enviable

However, in 2022, all this beautiful picture of life was ruthlessly torn apart by fate. At the age of 92, Zhang Mu left us, leaving the grief-stricken Xie Fang alone to face the last chapter of his life.

lost her beloved, she seemed to have lost the direction of her life, and the whole person seemed to be hollowed out.

Recalling the good times spent with Zhang Mu, those laughter and laughter now echoed in the empty room, making Xie Fang's heart feel painful.

I am afraid that only those who have experienced it can understand it.

85-year-old "Lin Daojing" Xie Fang, married to her husband for 65 years, is as loving as ever, and her love is enviable

She couldn't imagine how she would complete the last journey of this life without Zhang Mu's company.

Although she had been mentally prepared, when she really lost her husband, the pain of losing her beloved was still unbearable for Xie Fang.

Zhang Mu held Xie Fang's hands tightly before he died, his heart was full of reluctance, but in the end he could only close his eyes forever.

The husband she had cared for all her life left her forever, and Xie Fang walked alone in the world with endless thoughts of Zhang Mu.

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