1. The classic moment of Sun Song and Hou Jilin's first acquaintance
Time returned to that seemingly uneventful afternoon, Hou Jilin hurriedly pushed open a door, his face full of confusion and anxiety. Originally, she planned to meet a well-known director named Zhao Guoquan, but unexpectedly, she accidentally entered a private room.
The room was crowded with more than a dozen people, who were either buried in the script in their hands, or recorded some information in detail, Hou Jilin's sudden visit caused a small commotion, and everyone's eyes focused on her.
Faced with such a dilemma, Hou Jilin's cheeks couldn't help but flush, she felt extremely embarrassed, and was about to turn away. However, at this moment, a young and handsome man broke the silence: "Hello, are you coming for the interview?" Hou Jilin took a closer look, and it turned out that the person who took the initiative to talk was the high-profile actor - Sun Song.
She bowed slightly, though not intentionally.
Sun Song responded with a warm smile and motioned for her to sit down and talk. Although his heart was full of tension and uneasiness, Hou Jilin still sat obediently on the side. Who would have thought that this unintentional encounter would become a prologue to a moving love story.
Sun Song was deeply attracted by Hou Jilin's dazzling beauty and elegant temperament like a pearl, and a strong desire for possession surged in his heart. Since then, he has been steadfast in his belief that no matter what the cost, he will bravely pursue this quiet and generous woman.
This seemingly ordinary episode has actually become an incomparably precious first encounter between Sun Song and Hou Jilin. A chance encounter gave birth to a dazzling love legend, which will undoubtedly be forever engraved in the love history of Sun Song and Hou Jilin.
2. Review Sun Song's past
However, pursuing Hou Jilin is by no means an easy task. Tracing back to the roots, Sun Song's life experience can be described as full of twists and turns.
He was born in an acting family, his father Sun Qingrong was a famous director at that time, and his mother Han Ying was also a popular actress in high profile. Since he was a child, Sun Qingrong has placed high hopes on Sun Song, expecting him to inherit his mantle and become an outstanding actor.
However, Sun Song was never able to concentrate. Sun Qingrong once tried every possible way to train him to become a musician, and specially hired erhu and violin teachers to teach him. However, Sun Song is always distracted and silent, which makes the teachers often unbearable.
Faced with the imminent moment of graduating from high school, Sun Song's academic performance plummeted, and his dream of his first choice university was shattered. Seeing their son wasting their time in such a wasted way, Sun Qingrong and his wife were full of worries, and they tried their best to prevent their son from going astray.
Just when Sun Song was in a confused and helpless situation, Sun Qingrong decided to be honest and encourage his son to try his acting career bravely. Inspired by his father, Sun Song signed up for the exams of the Beijing Film Academy and the Central Academy of Drama with great ambition, however, the cruel reality hit him one after another, consuming all his confidence and courage.
However, at the critical moment when Sun Song almost lost his way forward, Sun Qingrong once again reached out to him and suggested that his son first follow him to learn the field of directing. Under his father's patient and meticulous teaching, Sun Song regained his strength, burned a new fighting spirit, and was finally successfully admitted to Beijing Film Academy.
In college, Sun Song seemed to make up for his past laziness and ignorance, he worked hard and excelled in his studies. After graduating, he successfully entered the Beijing Film Studio.
At this time, Sun Qingrong was preparing to shoot the well-known TV series "Desire", and he did not hesitate to hand over the role of the second male lead to his son Sun Song.
The whole family worked together, and even her mother, Han Ying, joined the crew. Sun Song became famous with this work, and since then he has laid a solid foundation in the entertainment industry and opened a new chapter of his ideal life.
3. The love story of Sun Song and Hou Jilin
After participating in "Desire", Sun Song rose to prominence in the entertainment industry, but he was not complacent. On the contrary, he has always unswervingly pursued the girl who made him fall in love at first sight - Hou Jilin.
With the help of interpersonal relationships in the circle, Sun Song quickly obtained Hou Jilin's contact information. He couldn't wait to invite her to dinner, looking forward to getting to know each other better.
At first, Hou Jilin mistakenly thought that Sun Song was a well-known director, so he did not have any doubts about this invitation and readily agreed.
It wasn't until the moment when the two officially sat down to share the food that Hou Jilin learned Sun Song's true identity. It turned out that he was just a fledgling newcomer to film and television. Despite this, Hou Jilin was not angry or disappointed by this, she was elegant, generous, reasonable, and soon established a deep friendship with Sun Song.
The establishment of a close friendship has paved a brilliant green channel for the love road of the two young people. Sun Song looked at the overall situation and knew that the opportunity was rare, so he decisively launched a passionate pursuit offensive against Hou Jilin.
Hou Jilin's sincere feelings and firm determination for Sun Song deeply attracted her, and after only a few months of getting along, the two have been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people and officially confirmed their lovers.
When love bloomed, Sun Song skillfully concealed his family background without a trace. It wasn't until the moment the parents of the two sides met that Hou Jilin learned that Sun Song was born in a famous family.
In an instant, her heart was full of tension and uneasiness, lest the Sun family dislike her, a woman from an ordinary background, and thus hinder this beautiful marriage.
However, unexpectedly, when Hou Jilin stepped into the door of the Sun family for the first time, Sun Song's mother Han Ying gave her a warm hug without reservation. The warm hospitality of her mother-in-law made Hou Jilin completely let go of the doubts in her heart, and she accepted Sun Song's marriage proposal with joy.
So, one day in 1999, with the blessings of relatives and friends, they concluded an eternal love vow and opened a new chapter in their lives.
Fourth, the sweetness and regret of married life
After marriage, Sun Song and Hou Jilin lived an enviable and happy life. Unlike many men, Sun Song went to great lengths to avoid placing his wife with heavy housework. He never allowed Hou Jilin to go to the kitchen, and rarely let her interfere in trivial matters at home.
Whenever Sun Song went out to work, he would even post sticky notes in a conspicuous place at home to remind Hou Jilin to pay attention to various matters and take care of them.
At the same time, Hou Jilin did not give up his career development because of marriage. On the contrary, she devotes more energy to her work, and has repeatedly shown excellent acting skills in film and television works.
What the audience appreciates is her calm and elegant wonderful performances again and again.
However, after the spotlight went out, she was the virtuous and generous wife in Sun Song's heart. The two are like shadows, and their relationship is getting deeper and deeper. The girl who strayed into the wrong room back then has now become Sun Song's beloved.
Time flies, the years are quiet, and the couple's days are calm and full of happiness. However, the couple, who have been in love for many years, have never been able to have children of their own. The reason is actually very simple - Sun Song loves Hou Jilin deeply and is afraid that she will experience unbearable pain during pregnancy and childbirth.
Some people lament that love often makes people fall into a blind situation and become narrow-minded and selfish. Undoubtedly, Sun Song is like this. He made up his mind not to have children out of his deep affection for his wife, and did not want to see her suffer the pain of childbirth.
Regarding her son's decision, Sun Song's mother Han Ying expressed full understanding and support. However, Sun Song knew deep down that he was destined to not be able to give his mother a child and grandson around his knees and share the joy of family life, which became the biggest regret and lack in his life.
5. Status: The reason for the Dink couple
Why did Sun Song make this decision and be willing to become a "Dink couple"? He admitted frankly that he was just worried about the huge pain that Hou Jilin would have to endure during the production process.
We must admit that childbearing is indeed a difficult and painful task. The pain of childbirth is like physical torture, and many expectant mothers experience unprecedented pain when they are about to give birth.
Some people may even be traumatized by this, fearing and resisting pregnancy and childbirth.
However, Hou Jilin does not seem to have such concerns. This woman from an artistic family has both tenacious willpower and elegant temperament. She has every confidence and ability to bravely meet the challenges of childbirth.
So, is Sun Song overly sensitive to this? Let's look at this from another angle.
Sun Song was born in a powerful family and grew up under the care of his parents. Later, with his own diligence and hard work, he finally achieved brilliant achievements in his acting career.
It can be said that he has created a new world through his own hard work.
Because of this, Sun Song cherishes the happy life in front of him even more. In his eyes, spending the rest of his life with his beloved wife is already the greatest satisfaction and blessing in life.
To be precise, Mr. Sun Song's resolute decision to "Dink" is not only a reflection of his endless love for his beloved wife, but also a reflection of his endless satisfaction and ecstasy about the life he currently has.
It is true that such a life orientation may be considered a deviation, but the thoughtfulness and good intentions behind it cannot help but make people move and feel emotional!