"This chair, I want to grab it, I have to grab it if I don't want to grab it!"
Before mentioning the second prince,
There is one thing to say, and I must explain it to everyone first!
Before breaking the bastard affair of the prince & eldest princess,
Emperor Qing has never touched the heart of "easy storage"!
Emperor Qing said: It's all his sons!
In fact, except for the crown prince, he treats the other children as a pig raised by himself!
Children who are young or not very well aptitude,
Relatively more lucky, because they escaped the "opportunity" to act as a "whetstone" for the crown prince!
It's already a blessing in misfortune!
These children in Emperor Qing's heart were:
Whatever I give you, you will continue, and you will not be allowed to resist!
The truth of the patriarchal society is:
Not all men are in power in a society,
It's a society in which a very small number of men are in power,
Most of the other men were victims,
are deprived of power,
This is the truth of a patriarchal society!
This is also the reason why Emperor Qing had to kill Ye Qingmei,
Because he didn't agree with the "Datong Society" that Ye Qingmei wanted,
Not only does it not agree, but it also deviates from the "absolute power" pursued by Emperor Qingdi!
Fuel his weaknesses, become his strength, and force him to become the prince's strongest "whetstone"
I have to say,
The drama "Celebrating More Than Years" has a collective high score on Douban,
It's not unreasonable, this is a male group drama!
No matter who Emperor Qing pushes to the throne,
No matter whose strength he is supporting on the surface,
To a certain extent, these people are just "a dagger" that he used to inspire the "prince",
He chose the "second prince",
No matter from which point of view, this is a relatively perfect "second son"!
Emperor Qing deliberately pushed this second son to the opposite side of the "prince",
Let the two have the strength to compete evenly and compete,
Let the two constantly "fight" inward,
From the perspective of the king of a country,
Emperor Qing has no big problem cultivating his "heir" in this way,
But the question is, as a person, isn't the second prince his son?
In addition, the second prince is not a straw bag,
Had he never had even the slightest hint of mutual affection? Licking calves?
Yes, he didn't,
Not only for the second prince,
He didn't have any of the other sons!
It's not that he's cold-blooded, it's just that in addition to the "second prince",
He couldn't have a better choice!
Emperor Qing's 5 sons:
The crown prince, the eldest prince, the second prince, the third prince, plus one more Fan Xian!
Because of his mother's bloodline, the eldest prince was born with no relationship with that position.
The three princes are young and do not have the conditions for training,
Fan Xian, for Emperor Qing, is more of a "minister"!
No matter how good Fan Xian is, no matter how good Emperor Qing is to him, he has never had the idea of letting Fan Xian inherit the throne.
Therefore, Fan Xian can neither become a "dagger",
Nor can it be used for itself!
It can only be stocked~
Only the second prince remains,
Just like in the Baoyue Building, Fan Xian directly clicked on the dialogue of the second prince:
Fan Xian:
Is this dragon chair really so easy to sit on? Isn't peace a rare blessing?
The Second Prince:
Everyone knows that the dragon chair is not easy to sit on, but I am in the house of the Son of Heaven, and I can't help myself.
I want to grab this chair, I don't want to grab it, I still have to grab it!
If I had the freedom to choose, I would rather go to Taixue to practice every day than get involved!
Fan Xian:
Is someone forcing you to fail?
The second prince sneered:
Of course, someone forced, from the age of twelve,
At the age of thirteen, he was crowned king,
At the age of fourteen, he ostensibly drove me out of the palace, but in fact gave me the opportunity to freely make friends with courtiers.
At the age of fifteen, let me enter the imperial study to listen to the government!
These are all opportunities that only the prince has.......
I don't want to fight, but one by one, these things put me in this position.
The prince looked at me with such resentment.......
We are brothers~
He wanted to kill me when he was thirteen!
It was he who pushed me into this position,.......
I have to live, what can I do?
Since he wants me to fight,
Then I'll show him it!
Fan Xian:
But have you thought about it, maybe he just used you as a stone,
A piece used to persecute the prince to get a "whetstone"!
The Second Prince:
It's been clear for a long time!
is also the proud son of heaven, who would be willing to be a "whetstone" that will be broken in the future!
If he wins, I can see how happy he regrets it!
Fan Xian:
Why take out your resentment on such a thing?
His Royal Highness is more sober than His Second Highness!
If someone pushes you down the river to swim with a race,
Your best resistance is to fight to the death,
It's a big deal to turn around and fight with the man behind you,
Instead of going down to the river and strangling the opponent you're playing with!
The two talked openly and honestly, and finally,
The second prince let out a long sigh:
"Help me, Fan Xian"
He was pitted by his father, by his aunt, by his father-in-law, and when he was dying, he felt like a joke!
Emperor Qing looked at this chess piece that had been at the mercy of a lifetime,
Finally defeated,
He wanted to spare his life,
I didn't want to kill him originally, he was just a weapon in hand,
But the second prince doesn't want to live like a "dog"!
Suicide by poisoning!
Before he died, his conversation with Fan Xian was also classic:
The Second Prince:
You've been figuring out how to snuff out my ambitions for the past two years.
Looking back, I will thank you!
It's also wonderful!
I thought my aunt would help me,
My father-in-law will help me,
But it looks like you, my biggest enemy in this life, who once had a trace of sincerity for me.
You are really an outlier of our old Li family,
Miss Ye is really as unusual as rumored!
And me? What kind of thing?
I think I am calculating, I have countless help behind me, the throne is just around the corner, my father likes me,
And I, a smart person, am an obedient "chess piece",
I'm just a joke!
In the suicide note of the second prince, he left four words for his high-ranking father:
Widowhood and loneliness!
Old and without a wife is a "widower",
The king of the world is "widow",
If you lose your mother, you are "lonely",
If you are old and have no one to rely on, you are "alone"!
Therefore, Emperor Qing's sons are all tragedies, why is Dudu Fan Xian an exception?
Because, only he has completed the "spiritual father-killing" in the true sense!
"Killing the father" in "Killing the Father",
It's not a physical "kill"!
Instead, spiritually, pull the father off the altar.
The children of the royal family, who live under absolute patriarchy,
Only to escape the father, the emperor, and the absolute authority he symbolizes,
In order to complete the spiritual sense of the "coming-of-age ceremony"!
How can it be regarded as completing the "father-killing" in the true sense?
It starts from no longer seeking the approval of the emperor,
This is the most important step in "killing the father",
Because
If a person puts in the hands of others the authority to judge his abilities and character,
That is tantamount to acquiescing in the other party's plunder and invasion of you,
And, it's what you allow, or warmly invite!
Well, you can't be an "adult" in this life,
No matter how good you are in a secular sense!
This is the reason why Fan Xian told the second prince about swimming in the competition in "Baoyue Building"!
Only do it, no longer seek the approval of the emperor,
no longer obey the rules of the game he set, the playing field,
Expecting no more his praise,
Waiting for his instructions,
In order to truly take absolute responsibility for your own life and every decision!
Although the relationship between "father and son" seems to be formally born strong and weak,
But at the end of the day, everyone is on the chessboard,
It's all in the structure,
As long as, better than him at the rules of the game,
Well, it's not that there is no opportunity to pinch him and use him!
Go and get to your end!
Just like Fan Xian!
Just be the obedient son on the surface,
"Hidden"!
Because, at the level of personality,
This "father" who came out halfway,
He never grew up with him,
And Emperor Qing never considered him into the list of "heirs" for him.
Free-range all the time,
Naturally, for Fan Xian,
Emperor Qing has never been to the altar in his heart!
Therefore, Fan Xian has no internal friction,
There is no need to rationalize some of his actions,
Deify his meanness and mediocrity!
On the contrary, at a glance,
I found that Emperor Qing was also "nothing more than that"!
He is also just an ordinary person full of weaknesses and flaws!
Since it's an ordinary person,
So between ordinary people and ordinary people,
It is possible to disagree,
Fan Xian, has always been an outsider,
He has long seen through this despicable and hypocritical "father" in reality!
also understands that he and Emperor Qing are not in the same way,
Even if there is blood, you don't have to agree with each other,
If you don't agree, you won't have regrets about lack of love,
No attachment, no complaints, and no hate!
But the crown prince and the second prince are different,
Because he can't understand his "father"
So there is no stopping fighting, competition,
Each considers himself to be the "heir to the throne" chosen by his father,
was led by the nose by this father, who seemed to be "like-minded" with them on the surface,
restrain all their joys, sorrows, and the direction of life,
They also have to go along with it!
After all, Emperor Qing did not have the consciousness of letting anyone be his heir at all,
He just wants his sons to fight around,
also provoked the relationship between several people by the way,
He wants to be the first in the world!
The crown prince is just a prince to the emperor,
The second prince is just a "whetstone", a "dagger" against the crown prince.
When they're all dead,
only then did I suddenly realize,
The dead are all their own blood and bones,
has a father like Emperor Qing,
All his sons are tragedies!
But Fan Xian, who has long become a chess player,
jumped out of the whole game of chess,
He is not a pawn in the hands of Emperor Qing,
At the beginning of entering Beijing, in Emperor Qing's heart,
He just wants Fan Xian to be a rich idler!
But after Fan Xian entered Beijing, Emperor Qing's mentality towards him began to change
From "my most doting baby" - "can be used" - "can be used" - "can be used for life"!
This drama, for me who lives in modern times,
A post-90s generation, whose parents are all in the 6 and 70s,
At that time, the vast majority of the parents were NPD,
Since childhood, the growth environment has to bear the "extraordinary" "PUA",
repressive education,
Constantly pounding your soul,
Until a long school career,
Finally dragging the soul that has long been broken,
to achieve economic independence, to experience the destruction and reconstruction of identity,
Renewal and reform of ideas,
But you have to pick up your own weapons that are not hard,
Never enter "his" "game",
Never enter into the rules of the game set by "him"!
Ultimately:
questioning power,
Fear of power,
clinging to power,
Finally become power!
Only absolute strength can allow us to fundamentally escape this tragic fate!
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