1. Meng Fei and Le Jia became famous for starring in the popular variety show "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb".
A unique blind date variety show called "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" is popular all over the country, not only because of the unprecedented novelty and uniqueness of the program form, but also because the guest array is too strong.
The addition of two bald men, Meng Fei and Le Jia, as well as psychology expert Huang Han, completely subverted the audience's inherent perception of traditional variety show guests.
It is with this show that Meng Fei has successfully become a well-known host, and Le Jia is also affectionately called "life coach" by the audience. They talked happily in the show, creating a lot of fun and fun program effects.
At that time, they were like a pair of golden partners who complemented each other and left a deep impression on the hearts of the audience.
However, if you look back deeply into the past of the two, you will find that the reason why they were able to become such a fit of fate is that their unique growth experiences have created them today.
Le Jia's extreme personality stems from the turmoil of his childhood family and the hardships of his later struggles in school. He was born in Shanghai, his family was not well-off, and his parents had to leave his hometown with him to Shaanxi to work hard in order to make ends meet.
The poor living environment often caused parents to quarrel over money, and even fists and kicks at every turn. Le Jia, who grew up in such a chaotic environment, naturally moved towards a certain degree of extremeism.
In contrast, Meng Fei, who was born in Chongqing in 1971, has a much more bland trajectory in his life. Meng Fei has been an obedient and sensible child since he was a child, and he loves to learn, although his academic performance has been hovering at the average level due to serious subject deviations, but he has always maintained a positive and optimistic attitude towards life.
It was due to the positive energy created by his family environment - although his family background was average, his parents' education methods were correct, which made him develop an optimistic and sunny personality.
2. With the passage of time, the contradictions and disputes between the two on the show have become increasingly intensified
In the process of recording many programs, Le Jia unreservedly questioned Meng Fei's hosting skills and style in front of everyone.
The most impressive scene happened in one of the episodes. At that time, Meng Fei asked a male guest how to deal with some fans who were eager to take a group photo if he was in a state of extreme exhaustion from work.
This dispute did not stop there, but was like a fuse, which finally detonated Le Jia's decision to leave "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb". And the famous "hugging incident" was the beginning of the rupture.
At that time, when a female guest who successfully left the venue holding hands took the initiative to express her hope to hug Meng Fei to show her gratitude, Meng Fei just responded lightly and gently patted her back with her hand.
But at this moment, Le Jia suddenly stepped forward, hugged the female guest tightly, and began to question her: "Do you think there is any difference between me and his hug?" Seeing this harassing behavior, the female guest was obviously embarrassed, but Le Jia pressed forward step by step and insisted on asking her to make a comparison.
It wasn't until the female guest reluctantly answered that Le Jia reluctantly gave up. After the male and female guests left the stage, Meng Fei said meaningfully that his way of hugging "should be out of etiquette considerations".
As early as 2011, there were already rumors about the tension between the two in the outside world. After Le Jia was temporarily absent from the recording of the show for several episodes due to vocal cord damage, he soon officially announced his retirement from the production team of "If You Are the One, Do Not Disturb".
The industry has been speculating that this is inseparable from the contradiction between him and Meng Fei.
3. After parting ways, Lejia's career has experienced ups and downs
Since Lejia said goodbye to the high-profile stage of "Do Not Disturb", his life seems to have changed dramatically. He constantly challenges himself to release his innermost passions, but this behavior makes those around him confused and even a little frightened.
Just after leaving "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", Le Jia once relied on his charm and topic popularity to serve as the host of programs such as "Chief Night Talk" and "Night Question".
But the unique style he showed when hosting also made the direction of the show full of controversy and conflict.
For example, when interviewing Dong Mingzhu of Gree Electric Appliances, Le Jia suddenly threw out a very tricky question: "Which do you think is more important, the interests of the company or the family?" When Dong Mingzhu frankly replied that family affection was more important, Le Jia immediately changed the topic and began to aggressively criticize Dong Mingzhu's views for not being rational.
In the end, the two fell into a kind of sabre-rattling embarrassment at the scene.
During the recording of "Mr. Super", when Tranquility tried to comfort an athlete who failed to win the championship, Lejia suddenly stood up excitedly, pointed his finger at Tranquility and shouted, "You're hurting him by doing this!" When Tranquility recalled this scene afterwards, she still lamented that the pressure of the scene was too great.
In addition, Le Jia also forcibly hugged Xie Na on the show, and ambiguously said that Xie Na was his "dream lover", and everyone at the scene was taken aback by this move.
Even though the relationship between the two parties eased afterwards, Lejia then took the initiative to approach tranquility and tried to renew the old relationship.
In the program "I Am a Speaker", Le Jia pointed fingers at Hua Shao, implying that he was playing favoritism. Hua Shao shot back unceremoniously: "If you want to accuse me, please come up with conclusive evidence, otherwise with such words, how can you be qualified to be a mentor?" Le Jia could only apologize to Hua Shao in embarrassment.
In another program, when Venus bluntly pointed out that "Le Jia, you should listen carefully, the content of this performance is really terrible, it is all false", Le Jia in turn ridiculed Jin Xing, saying: "In the face of emotional temptation, even a great sage cannot compare to a eunuch."
The craziest was the live recording of the "Super Speaker" program in 2015. In front of the audience, Le Jia proudly picked up the wine glass and drank the spirits! Then he lost control of his emotions, staggered to the center of the stage, and shouted hoarse insults at the host Lu Yu and the other mentors, and even belittled them in shocking terms.
The scene fell into an extremely chaotic situation for a while, and in the end, the instructors could not continue and had to leave the scene one after another.
Fourth, at the same time, Meng Fei's hosting career is becoming more and more smooth
Unlike Le Jia's ups and downs in his career and his troubled life, Meng Fei's hosting career was smooth sailing, and finally took root in Jiangsu Satellite TV. In addition to sticking to the hosting position of the program "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", he also had the courage to try a new career direction, and boldly opened a noodle restaurant called "Meng Fei's Small Noodles" as his side business.
In 2014, he was listed on the Forbes China Celebrity List, and his career is on the rise.
In terms of family life, Meng Fei also lives a happy life. He and his wife and daughter are happy and respectful, and they can be described as having a successful career and a happy family, and they are at the peak of their lives.
In the face of the previous contradictions and entanglements with Le Jia, Meng Fei has always maintained a humble, polite, open-minded and cheerful attitude. Shortly after Le Jia left the show, he posted a video on social media in which he greeted the guests at the door.
Seeing the camera, Meng Fei immediately smiled kindly, and then he turned around and made a gesture of "please" elegantly, as if he was intentionally inviting Le Jia to make a comeback.