Jiang Yafei and Jiang Yaning are biological sisters, and there is no difference in their family backgrounds.
They are all the daughters of Commander Haidao Jiang, but their married lives are very different.
Jiang Yaning is the general's wife.
Jiang Yafei is the stepmother of her second marriage.
Who is happy, everyone knows at a glance.
Why is there such a big difference between the two sisters?
Attitude towards mothers:
1, Jiang Yafei's blind denial.
If you want to talk about the maintenance and care of her mother An Jie, Jiang Yafei is definitely better than Jiang Yaning.
At the beginning, when Jiang Changyi appeared in the Jiang family, Jiang Yafei chose not to eat or drink in order to hug her mother, and she didn't go to take a family photo with everyone.
And Jiang Yaning was heartless at this time, and he and his brothers lined up the rank of brothers in the family.
But Jiang Yafei, who cared so much about her mother, refused the object introduced by her mother An Jie.
In Jiang Yafei's view, finding a partner and getting married are their own affairs, and An Jie has no reason to interfere even if she is her own mother.
Therefore, no matter how much An Jie said about the benefits of marrying Meng Tianzhu, Jiang Yafei put on a deaf attitude.
Even, Jiang Yafei once thought that her mother An Jie's actions were unreasonable and unforgivable, so Jiang Yafei also punished An Jie with a "fake" drink of sleeping pills.
For Jiang Yafei, she rejected Meng Tianzhu, first because she didn't like An Jie meddling in her affairs, and secondly, she didn't like Meng Tianzhu as a person.
2. Jiang Yaning's selective trust.
Jiang Yaning trusts his mother An Jie. Since An Jie took out the box of books, An Jie has occupied an important position in Jiang Yaning's ideological world.
In Jiang Yaning's mind, only An Jie has seen the charm of Anna Karelina, and only An Jie can understand his envy and desire for the characters in the novel.
Therefore, in Jiang Yaning's original worldview, the seeds of identifying with An Jie were planted.
In other words, it is precisely because Meng Tianzhu is the blind date that An Jie introduced to Yafei that Jiang Yaning will care about it until he likes the other party.
For Jiang Yaning, choosing Meng Tianzhu as her husband is first because she likes it, and secondly, because An Jie values it.
This is Jiang Yaning's selective trust.
In short, when it comes to choosing a mate, Jiang Yaning can always choose calmly and treat people wrong. But Jiang Yafei's choice is not the right thing, not the person.
Criteria for choosing a son-in-law:
When they learned that Jiang Defu concealed Jiang Changyi's life experience for the sake of the Jiang family's face, Jiang Yafei and Jiang Yaning both set a goal, that is, to marry a man like Jiang Defu in the future.
Therefore, Jiang Yafei found the secretary general.
At a cold glance, Jiang Yafei's first love is still somewhat similar to Jiang Defu in temperament.
All give people a sense of sturdy and safe.
But in fact, in terms of character, it is far from Jiang Defu.
After talking at Lao Ding's house, and after a paper order, the secretary gave in and left Jiang Yafei directly.
It can be seen that what Jiang Yafei is looking for is only Jiang Defu's appearance.
Jiang Yaning chose Meng Tianzhu, who was "abandoned" by Yafei.
Although, Meng Tianzhu looks dark and thin on the outside, and he speaks with a strong hometown accent.
But I have to admit that Meng Tianzhu is a man with "scheming".
Meng Tianzhu's promotion order and Jiang Yaning's letter were delivered to An Jie almost at the same time, is this an accident?
Of course not!
This is a good show designed by Meng Tianzhu to let himself pass. A good show that can make the Jiang family earthquake, but it can also allow you to pass the test safely.
It can be seen that Jiang Yaning values Meng Tianzhu's mind like Jiang Defu.
In fact, everyone knows that when choosing a mate, you must first choose ability, choose virtue, and look at the inside. But how many people can really go beyond appearances to delve into these qualities?
Attitude towards outsiders:
When Jiang Yafei and Meng Tianzhu went on a blind date, it was when the entire company was laughing at the "hungry" director.
In the eyes of others, "Director Hungry" is just an idle joke. But for Jiang Yafei, who is in it, the "hungry" director is an insurmountable gap.
Therefore, Jiang Yafei didn't even leave Meng Tianzhu a chance to understand each other.
I have to say that when she was young, Jiang Yafei still cared very much about other people's evaluations.
Jiang Yaning is different, Jiang Yaning doesn't take other people's evaluations to heart.
Otherwise, how could Jiang Yaning accept a boyfriend that her sister didn't want?
Just the title of attempted ex-brother-in-law sounds embarrassing enough.
But Jiang Yaning just took a fancy to Meng Tianzhu and had nothing to do with anything else.
Attitude towards loved ones:
Jiang Yafei has a bottomless kindness, but Jiang Yaning has always protected herself first.
Jiang Yafei is sensitive and kind, especially when it comes to her relatives.
When she was a child, Jiang Yafei would fight for her brother, causing her face to be full of scars.
Jiang Yaning when he was a child would hurry up and eat the biscuits in his hands.
After growing up, Jiang Yafei gave up the opportunity to give birth directly for Wang Haiyang's child.
After growing up, Jiang Yaning smoothly arranged his life and returned to the island to become the principal of the primary school.
Good at taking shortcuts and trusting your mother's judgment.
doesn't care about other people's eyes and accepts his "attempted brother-in-law".
No matter what the circumstances, it is not surprising that Jiang Yaning, who pampered himself first, is happier than Jiang Yafei.