Teacher Guo Degang once said: "If you are stuck in a dung heap, you must remember to shut up!" ”
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However, it is easier said than done, and in the whirlpool of reality, there are very few people who can really do this.
When the storm of life suddenly hits and sweeps people into the abyss of despair, many people lose their reason and calm in an instant. They are either blindly hysterical and hoarse in the dirty "dung pit", in a vain attempt to vent their inner pain and helplessness; Or they are desperate to see friends and relatives as a lifesaver, desperately trying to grasp this fragile rope and drag themselves out of the predicament. But they have not clearly realized that in the highlight moments of life, the smiling faces and clusters around them are often deceptive, and it is difficult for us to accurately judge whether the people around us are sincere or suspicious.
As stated in "Zengguang Xianwen": "There are many brothers with tea and wine, and there is no one in emergency." Human feelings are like thin paper, and the world is like a new chess game. ”
When it is bustling and lively, full of wine and food, it seems that there are many good friends who call each other brothers. However, when the real crisis came, most of the "brothers" who had sworn to do so disappeared without a trace. The human feelings in this world are like thin pieces of paper, which cannot withstand the baptism of wind and rain; The changes in the world are just like a new chess game, which is elusive!
However, what is even more distressing is that the saddest thing in this world is not that people go to tea and cool, but that when you are in a difficult situation, someone not only ignores you, but even falls into the well and stomps on your back.
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I once saw a cruel and realistic sentence: "If you are shy in the market, you will live in the world." ”
When a person's economy is in trouble and their pockets are empty, dignity seems to be gone, and even the most basic decency can be left behind. At such times, what we experience and feel often completely subverts our previous cognitions and concepts, and this is precisely the most common scene in the world.
But Venerable Hongyi once told us, "When you reach a certain age, you will sadly find that your relatives are not close. If you can't bring them benefits, then you are nothing in the eyes of your loved ones, and they bring you nothing but indifference, distancing, calculation, and all kinds of pain. ”
This is not a slander and blasphemy of family affection, but a true portrayal of a helpless phenomenon in real life.
On the road of life, many things have changed imperceptibly as the years go by. The family relationship that was once thought to be indestructible sometimes seems fragile in the face of the test of interests.
Therefore, in the long journey of life, we must clearly realize that the only thing we can really rely on from beginning to end is ourselves.
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Remember: life is never a smooth road, but a rough road full of bumps and thorns. Wind and rain and setbacks are the normal state of life, and every fall and failure is the grinding of growth. Because after the wind and rain, we can usher in a gorgeous rainbow; Only by experiencing the pain of Nirvana can we gain hope of rebirth.
Remember, too, that when difficulties hit us like a storm, we may be knocked down in an instant, but as long as we have the courage and determination to get back on our feet, we will be able to rise again.
The mountains will fall, everyone will run, only by relying on oneself is stable happiness!
I hope that in the days to come, no matter what difficulties and obstacles we encounter, we can maintain the belief of self-reliance and self-reliance. Do not rely on the mercy and help of others, and do not fear the difficulties and setbacks in front of you. With perseverance and a positive and optimistic attitude, we bravely face the challenges of life.
I hope that we can all believe in ourselves, rely on ourselves, and strive to let our lives shine brightest, and live a wonderful life!
You and I encourage each other!