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After marriage, Huang Yimei seems to have changed into a different person.
Before marriage, she was a blooming rose. Warm, fragrant, and breathing like sunshine.
After marriage, she has always had the most ideas, but there is only confusion in her eyes.
The light in Huang Yimei's eyes was extinguished by the chicken feathers in her married life.
Born in a scholarly family, her parents are university professors, and her brother is an architect, Yimei, who studied art, has always had a sense of ritual in her life.
But after getting married, the books she liked were used by her mother-in-law to pad things, and they were all oily.
bought a bouquet of flowers for 10 yuan, and was counted by the mother-in-law's yin and yang weirdness;
When I saw the painting I liked, I took out my wallet and found that I couldn't even take out 50 yuan.
Huang Yimei, who was once the "princess" of the whole family, grew up in the palm of her hand since she was a child, her parents hurt her, and her brother spoiled her.
She has always lived a prosperous life, how could she ever be embarrassed by financial constraints?
Now, Yimei looks at her mother-in-law's face everywhere, and she can't take out money in her pocket, all because of one person.
Her husband, Fang Xiewen.
Marriage may not be the grave of love, but the marriage with Fang Xiewen almost ruined Huang Yimei.
There was no wedding, no wedding dress, and a marriage certificate of 9 yuan, Yimei and Fang Xiewen became a legal husband and wife.
Although the two of them were tightly linked, Yimei broke off her ex-boyfriend Zhuang Guodong's last fantasy in front of Fang Xiewen.
Fang Xiewen, who has low self-esteem, has since had Zhuang Guodong, a specific imaginary enemy.
Soon after the marriage, Yimei became pregnant.
Fang Xiewen quit her favorite job without consulting her on the pretext of letting Yimei have a good rest.
Fortunately, Yimei, who has no income from work, still has a little savings of her own.
But when the mother-in-law saw that Yimei bought the money and topped her week's vegetable money, she put on a face on the spot, and counted her daughter-in-law in front of her son.
Although Fang Xiewen defended Yimei in front of his mother, he turned around and took Yimei's remaining 20,000 yuan in savings under the pretext that the house had to pay a down payment and the money was not enough.
There is no job, and now even the savings have been taken away, and Yimei has become the person who reaches out to Fang Xiewen to ask for money.
Fang Xiewen began to keep Yimei as a private property.
Since then, the mother-in-law has put on a disgusted appearance from time to time, nagging her son at every turn to work alone to make money to support the family, and how hard it is to repay the mortgage.
is obviously a family, but in front of the mother and son, Huang Yimei is clearly an outsider.
Mother-in-law is not easy to get along with, and her husband sets restrictions on herself everywhere on the grounds of pregnant women.
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The relationship with Zhuang Guodong is the breakup of Yimeiti.
Tina said that the one who brings up the breakup in a relationship is often the one who is most disappointed. Huang Yimei loved too deeply in her first love and hurt too deeply.
After the breakup, she realized that because she was angry and disappointed in Zhuang Guodong's selfishness, she proposed to break up, but she was actually selfish.
He is the kind of satisfaction that pursues career success, so I just want to pursue emotional desires.
The problem with both of us is that we both put our own desires first.
Everyone has a different point of highest need, which Huang Yimei realized from her failed first love.
Su Gengsheng once said that the people of the Huang family have self-healing functions, self-reflection, and self-correction.
This first love, Huang Yimei is mindful.
At the same time, she will feel that in the next relationship, she should make corrections.
First love failed because of selfishness.
Then, when she was in love with Fang Xiewen, Yimei subconsciously stopped being selfish.
Fang Xiewen lost his job, and she took out her savings to start a company for him;
understands that his economic conditions are limited, so Huang Yimei, who pays attention to the sense of ceremony, can even marry herself without a wedding, without wearing a wedding dress, and only 9 yuan.
In the past, I went my own way and let myself go; Nowadays, every time she hears her mother-in-law's words, Huang Yimei chooses to listen and turn a blind eye.
She thought that what she didn't do in her first love, now she works hard to do it, and she can manage her marriage well.
But she doesn't understand that excessive selflessness will only allow herself to be squeezed into a corner.
Because, too much!
The Fang family's mother and son's outlook on life is very different from her, living under the same roof, and wanting family harmony, Yimei can only change herself.
can blindly obey, which will make Huang Yimei no longer Huang Yimei.
It is impossible for a person who has lost himself to be happy.
Phoenix man and a scathing mother-in-law, Huang Yimei wants to be herself, and the only way out is divorce.
ended her impulsive marriage with Fang Xiewen, and Huang Yimei had the opportunity to turn back into a blooming rose.