Text丨Junjun
Editor丨Small town gossip king
In 2000, when Sun Nan was recording a variety show, he met the host Mai Hongmei for the first time, and expressed his admiration for many years.
In less than 24 hours, Sun Nan directly proposed to buy a red girl:
"Can you marry me?"
"Okay"
Unexpectedly, Mai Hongmei agreed without the slightest hesitation, she said:
"That's how my husband from my previous life came to me."
At that time, Sun Nan had no money for a wedding, so he promised to buy a red girl:
"Give me two more years, and then I will marry you."
Mai Hongmei hit the straight ball again, waved her big hand and said:
"I have money, don't wait."
In this way, the two entered the palace of marriage in May 2000.
Unexpectedly, Sun Nan only showed one side at the wedding and left in a hurry to participate in the event, leaving Mai Hongmei alone to face all the guests.
However, Mai Hongmei also understands Sun Nan very well in this regard, and she is not unhappy about it.
It's just that this marriage only lasted for 9 years, and Sun Nan filed for divorce due to the appearance of another woman.
Now that 15 years have passed, what happened to buying Hongmei? Has Sun Nan ever regretted it?
01
Although Sun Nan is now recognized as a powerful singer in the music industry, his status was very different from Mai Hongmei back then.
Mai Hongmei was born in a family rich in literature and art, and entered the army at the age of 14.
By chance, Mai Hongmei was pulled on stage to star in a sketch and was appreciated by the leader.
In 1993, she made her debut on the CCTV stage as a sketch actor.
Just two years later, Mai Hongmei appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, and "You Speak Something" with Guo Donglin became an instant hit.
At that time, Sun Nan fell at a glance after seeing Mai Hongmei on TV, pointed to Mai Hongmei on TV and said to her parents:
"This is the girl I like, and I'm going to marry a wife like that."
Mai Hongmei became more and more famous after this, and accepted the invitation of CCTV's major variety shows and film and television.
participated in "Quyi Miscellaneous Garden", launched the "Maimaiti" series, and performed comedy with Pan Changjiang and Guo Dong.
After that, she turned her attention to the main drama, and she was even competent for the work of the host.
At this time, Sun Nan became famous in the music world with "Red Flag Fluttering".
The person who has been by Sun Nan's side at that time is his girlfriend Xin Xin, in order to support Sun Nan, Xin Xin did not hesitate to fall out with his family and give up his music career.
has been a woman behind Sun Nan for 10 years, and finally survived until the day when Sun Nan became popular.
Unexpectedly, after Sun Nan became popular, because he had nothing to say to Xin Xin, he finally proposed to break up.
Until 2000, Sun Nan participated in a variety show hosted by Mai Hongmei.
After the recording, Mai Hongmei also invited Sun Nan to have a meal.
This was the first time the two had eaten, but they didn't expect Sun Nan to propose to her directly.
After learning that Sun Nan liked her for five years, Mai Hongmei agreed without the slightest hesitation.
It took less than 24 hours from acquaintance and marriage proposal, and less than a year from marriage to giving birth to their eldest daughter.
At that time, Mai Hongmei was in the golden period of her career, but for the sake of her family, she resolutely "disappeared" on the screen.
02
In the eyes of Mai Hongmei at that time, all the things she paid for Sun Nan were worth it.
After marriage, Sun Nan respects the living habits and customs of Mai Hongmei very much, although she doesn't earn much, she will also carefully prepare gifts to make her happy.
treats his father-in-law and mother-in-law even more than his own parents, causing his father-in-law to praise him again and again.
When she gave birth to her eldest daughter, Sun Nan directly asked her to take her mother's surname, giving her a sense of security when buying a red girl.
With the solid backing of Mai Hongmei to take care of the family, Sun Nan began to devote himself to his career, and finally became a first-line singer in the music world.
In the eyes of the outside world, the relationship between the two at that time was simply an enviable model couple.
Perhaps it is precisely because of Sun Nan's affairs that Mai Hongmei is more willing to pay Sun Nan.
When the two quarreled, Sun Nan never took the initiative to admit his mistakes, and every time he bought a red girl to coax him.
blindly accommodating, and finally there was still a problem in the relationship between the two people.
After gaining fame and fortune, Sun Nan became obsessed with golf, and it is said that the two quarreled many times because of this.
Therefore, Sun Nan often reduces the company of his family in order to play, which causes Mai Hongmei to complain all the time.
It wasn't until Mai Hongmei became pregnant with her second child in 2007 that the trivial matters at home and the physical discomfort made Mai Hongmei emotionally unstable.
But at this time, Sun Nan was busy with work, and he cared less and less about buying Hongmei, and he was obsessed with golf, and the conflict between the two was about to erupt.
Just at this time, another woman appeared.
Pan Wei has a temperament, loves sports, and has strong personal ability, and is quite popular with the bigwigs.
Before meeting Sun Nan, Pan Wei had also experienced two marriages and had a daughter about 10 years old.
The two have similar interests, appreciate each other, and soon become confidants.
In 2009, Mai Hongmei also found out that the relationship between the two was very close, so she took the initiative to tell Sun Nan to pay attention to the distance.
What she didn't expect was that Sun Nan not only did not listen to persuasion, but instead proposed the idea of divorce to Mai Hongmei.
According to Sun Nan's sister, at that time, Sun Nan gave 5 properties and tens of millions of deposits to Mai Hongmei.
In addition, the custody of the two children was also given to Mai Hongmei, and a living allowance will be paid every month.
Mai Hongmei knew that she could not save Sun Nan's heart, so she signed the divorce agreement with tears.
After the divorce, Mai Hongmei returned to the screen, but she didn't expect another "accident".
03
After Mai Hongmei became a single mother, when she returned to the stage, she cried about her past in an interview, and even bluntly said that she almost committed suicide due to depression.
So in order to help Mai Hongmei seek justice, netizens complained and abused Sun Nan and Pan Wei.
Sun Nan was furious when he learned about this, and directly angrily scolded Mai Hongmei for reversing black and white.
In a fit of anger, he even sued Mai Hongmei in court for custody of the child.
In the past, husband and wife are now in court, and the major media don't think it's a big deal to see the excitement, and they start to spread rumors to buy red girls to cheat.
It is said that the person who spread the rumors is still Sun Nan's friend Haitian, but the rumors that came out of nothing were finally self-defeating.
Netizens prefer to believe that Sun Nan cheated in marriage, after all, on the timeline, Sun Nan divorced on the front foot, and received a certificate with Pan Wei on the back foot.
After some tossing, Mai Hongmei finally chose to reconcile, and the child was raised by the two of them.
I thought that the child's matter would be settled, but I didn't expect that Sun Nan later caused controversy by sending Bao Yao to the Women's Moral School.
In this regard, Sun Nan explained:
"It's just because she doesn't study that she was sent to learn traditional culture and accept the influence of culture."
On the other hand, the daughter brought by Pan Wei was sent abroad for further study and was proud, and this contrast once again made netizens look at him with admiration.
Even if it gets to this point, Pan Wei basically hasn't shown up in these things.
In recent years, Sun Nan has always had a very stable position in the music industry, and in recent years, he has successfully become popular with several music comprehensives.
Pan Wei spent most of her time at home and even wrote a novel.
When asked about Sun Nan in an interview, she said:
"Sun Nan is energetic, sunny, and loves sports, and he was worried about the relationship between the two at first, but later found out that it was redundant, because I gave him the life he wanted, and gave him a flowing and warm home, which is what he wanted."
It can be seen that their family of four is now living very happily.
For this marriage with Sun Nan, Mai Hongmei was completely heartbroken, and many years later, Mai Hongmei once revealed on the show:
"I haven't seen a friend or answered a phone call for four whole years since the divorce."
But fortunately, she came out, and she returned to the stage after 9 years, and her golden age has long ended.
But she didn't give up, but re-entered the showbiz step by step, from the host to the sketch to the comedy and the drama.
has acted a lot, and the roles are not big, but they don't seem to have made much waves.
When she participated in a variety show last year, an artist sang Sun Nan's famous song, Mai Hongmei choked up for a while, and Guan Xiaotong comforted her:
"It's over, sister, you're over."
In fact, it can be seen from the fact that she returned to the family when she bought a red girl when she became popular, she is not so ambitious, and prefers a stable life.
And Sun Nan can get rid of his girlfriend who has been struggling with him for 10 years, which shows that Sun Nan and Mai Hongmei are not all the way.
In this way, why is divorce not a good option?
Now Sun Nan has found someone who resonates with him at the same frequency, buys Hongmei to regain her career, and is beautiful alone with her children.
At the age of 54, her mental state and figure are very well maintained, and she looks full of vitality.
Whatever they've been through, the results seem to be good now, so let it all be relieved......
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