#头条创作挑战赛#
"Ten thousand flowers have passed, and the leaves do not stick to the body."
This sentence is perfect to describe Xu Jinglei.
She is recognized as a "romantic and talented woman" in the circle, and there are too many men behind her to count.
It wasn't until the appearance of a person that she changed the idea of "merry" in her heart.
In April this year, she just celebrated her 50th birthday.
The photos she shared on social platforms are also reminiscent of Pian, which looks like she is pregnant.
So who can make her "wash her hands and make soup"?
And who are the men behind her?
The repressive education method is the seed of "rebellion" in her heart
She has been a "child of other people's families" since she was a child, and she is always regarded as an object of comparison, because she is too well-behaved and sensible.
But all this is because her father is too controlling.
Under her father's control, she didn't have time to play at all, and she completed her father's arrangement every day as if she were completing a task.
Her father wanted her to become a painter, and she worked in that direction.
At that time, her heart was already numb, and she didn't have any preferences at all.
She did whatever her father told her to do.
But she failed to pass the painting-related majors and schools.
But without any acting foundation, he was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy.
Maybe it's because of her talent, or maybe it's all about acting.
After being admitted to the film school, the biggest feeling in her heart was that she had finally escaped from her father's control.
Maybe it's because she's been suppressed for too long, and she's like a different person in college.
Smoking, drinking, skipping classes and other bad girls' hobbies, she is more or less involved.
Although she was not the most beautiful at that time, with the blessing of the characteristic of "bohemianism", she was very attractive.
Many guys have taken her as their crush.
But she didn't take a fancy to any of them, thinking that she was too visionary, or didn't want to fall in love.
But when the news of her relationship with Wang Shuo came out, many people were shocked.
I have to sigh that her vision is indeed "high".
That year, she was a sophomore and was still at the age of flowers, while Wang Shuo was already middle-aged and completely an uncle.
For some reason, after the two of them met once, Xu Jinglei never forgot him, and Wang Shuo did the same.
But at that time, Wang Shuo already had a family, which was something that everyone in the circle knew, and Xu Jinglei was no exception.
But "married" has not become a problem that prevents the two from falling in love.
I don't know which of the two of them took the "taboo" step first, and the relationship became wonderful.
And the reason why Xu Jinglei can become popular now is inseparable from Wang Shuo's great help at the beginning.
A "You at the Same Table" made her famous in the circle and became a hot new star.
The big heroine's dramas are coming one after another.
While her fame is rising, the relationship between the two has also attracted attention from the outside world.
Wang Shuo's wife knew the relationship between the two even better, but she just endured it and didn't say it.
At that time, she believed that Wang Shuo was just stunned by the young Xu Jinglei for a while, and it would not be long before she lost her way.
But I didn't expect that Wang Shuo didn't like Xu Jinglei on a whim, but really liked it.
For her sake, he was willing to give up his marriage to his wife.
In 1996, he announced his divorce.
Hong Huang also once posted an article on social platforms, hinting between the lines how explosive the forbidden love between Wang Shuo and Xu Jinglei was.
After Wang Shuo returned to being single, the two became more blatant.
But for some reason, the two didn't come together logically, and they still claimed to the outside world that they were just "friends".
Presumably Xu Jinglei is also a little unwilling in her heart, is she just marrying an "old man" herself?
And Wang Shuo's position in the circle has also become precarious because of a turmoil.
"Merry Path"
That year, Wang Shuo pulled a lot of hatred because of his "fast mouth", and was even crowned with the title of "scolding saint".
For a time, he became the target of public criticism and the object of all the people's criticism.
He "couldn't stay" in China, so he could only clamp his tail and go abroad for a "vacation".
When the turmoil passed, the first thing he did when he returned to China was to help Xu Jinglei "transform".
At that time, Xu Jinglei was not willing to be just an actress, and wanted to turn behind the scenes.
Just when she was distressed, her strong backing Wang Shuo coincidentally returned to China.
And these two have really become close friends because of the ups and downs of the past few years.
Now that they are friends, the position of lovers is vacant again.
So, Xu Jinglei began to look for new candidates.
The first "lucky male guest" was Li Yapeng, and at that time he also had a real girlfriend, Ke Lan.
But Xu Jinglei doesn't care whether he is single or not, she is still "ambiguous" with him.
The scandal about the two was also full of rumors for a while, and they "successfully" forced Ke Lan away.
Do you think that after Li Yapeng is single, Xu Jinglei will be with him? Of course not.
In a blink of an eye, she found the "next home" Zhang Yadong again.
At that time, Zhang Yadong and Gao Yuanyuan were boyfriend and girlfriend.
It is precisely because of repeated scandals with people with "families" that she was labeled as a "junior professional household".
So do you think this label is exaggerated?
At that time, she had an idea about the music industry again, and coincidentally, she had an unclear relationship with the music master Sambao.
Sanbao is also very powerful, with his help, Xu Jinglei's single got good results as soon as it was released.
Now that the "goal" has been achieved, it is time for the Three Jewels to be "dumped".
So Xu Jinglei returned to her free body.
There is a good saying, "The wicked are rewarded with evil."
So Xu Jinglei is suspected of destroying other people's feelings three times and twice, should she get retribution?
But unexpectedly, not only did there be no so-called retribution, but she also met her true love.
When filming a drama, she and Huang Lixing became friends and often corresponded in private.
After going back and forth, the two came together.
And Huang Lixing also used his charm to impress Xu Jinglei and make her take her heart.
After being with Huang Lixing, she began to cultivate her self-cultivation and fell in love with painting and calligraphy.
Now the two have also faded out of the entertainment industry and live a low-key life abroad.
epilogue
Now the two of them have been in love for more than ten years, but they still haven't gotten married.
However, Xu Jinglei's recent photos give people a feeling of "good things are coming".
As can be seen from the photo, her belly is slightly bulging, and she gently puts her hand on her stomach, and her smile also makes people feel very warm, with a kind of "maternal love" brilliance.
But she may just be "happy fat".
I also hope that the two of them can go to the end hand in hand!
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Information sources:
Sohu.com ""Talented Girl" Xu Jinglei's Several Chaotic Loves Used Her Thirty Years"
Sohu Entertainment "Rich in love history, maverick personality, Xu Jinglei is a talented woman or a witch"
China Net News "Gao Yuanyuan once resisted being said to be beautiful because of Xu Jinglei's involvement in the relationship"