It was common for men to marry and women to get married; For people born in the sixties and seventies, when they reach the legal age, they are basically married, but for young people in their twenties and thirties now, they don't think so, some of them either can't find a partner, or they just don't want to get married, of course, this also has something to do with their requirements for marriage. The following is a 28-year-old female graduate student's three criteria for finding a partner, after reading it, you can see the thoughts of young people now.
Xiao Wu was born in an ordinary family in the county, his father worked in a government unit, and his mother was a teacher. Xiao Wu has been smart and clever since he was a child, and his academic performance is very good, from elementary school to university, and then to graduate school, Xiao Wu has never left a grade, nor has he tutored, so he has come all the way.
Xiao Wu's excellent academic performance makes Xiao Wu's parents very proud, but what worries Xiao Wu's parents is that although Xiao Wu has achieved good results in her studies and her work is smooth, she seems to have been reluctant to find a partner, and at the age of 28, she has not seen her have a partner, which makes Xiao Wu's parents feel at ease.
Xiao Wu's parents also talked to Xiao Wu privately and asked her about finding a partner, but Xiao Wu told her parents that they didn't need to worry about it, and Xiao Wu's parents wanted to talk about it again, so Xiao Wu was a little unhappy, closed the door and went to do his own thing. Xiao Wu's parents had no choice but to give up when they saw Xiao Wu like this.
The daughter is 28 years old and has no object, and the parents are not in a hurry, but considering Xiao Wu's personality, Xiao Wu's parents have to be patient, but in private, Xiao Wu's parents are enthusiastic about the people who come to introduce Xiao Wu.
One day, another person came to talk to Xiao Wu for the matchmaker, Xiao Wu's parents listened to the matchmaker's story, and felt that the conditions of the young man were very suitable for Xiao Wu, who also graduated from a university and had a bachelor's degree, and had a staff, and worked in the county. Xiao Wu's parents were very satisfied with the young man in the matchmaker's mouth, so they told Xiao Wu and asked Xiao Wu's opinion.
Xiao Wu saw that her parents always asked her about her opinion on finding a partner, so she told her parents that she had three requirements for choosing a mate, and there were no other conditions.
Xiao Wu's three requirements for choosing a mate are:
First, the man must work in a big city, have a house and a car, and have an annual salary of not less than 200,000 yuan
Xiao Wu said that the working environment in the big city is good, the conditions are superior, she does not want to get married and the children live in the small city, the quality of teaching in the small city, the starting point of the child's reading is lower than that in the big city, and if you want to live in the big city, you must have a car and a house, and the annual salary is not less than 200,000 yuan, in order to ensure the needs of life.
Second, the man's parents must have a pension
Xiao Wu said that the man's parents must have a pension for her partner, which is enough for their own retirement.
Xiao Wu said that the man's parents have pensions, which can reduce the pressure of young people's life after marriage.
3. Do not live with the man's parents after marriage
For this requirement, Xiao Wu said this, she said that young people do not live with the man's parents after marriage, because of their respective growth environment, life experience is different, living together will inevitably have a collision of ideas, living separately, you can avoid a lot of contradictions, everyone lives happily and freely.
Xiao Wu's parents listened to Xiao Wu's three requests, and they didn't know what to say. Is it that young people are too assertive about choosing a mate, or that young people are too demanding nowadays?