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I like clothing stores with no shopping guides, because I am afraid that the clerk will look at me, and I am embarrassed not to buy it.
When you enter the supermarket, you must buy something before you dare to come out, otherwise you will be embarrassed.
I want to buy a special item when I see it, but I am afraid that others will say that I am greedy for cheap, so I hide it and take it home.
A 22-year-old girl broke down after sharing her story of going to the supermarket every day to buy specials.
This girl goes to the supermarket every day after work to buy groceries, and cooks her own healthy and money-saving.
She always goes straight to the specials because the things there are discounted and are much cheaper than the normal prices during the day, and they are basically the dishes of the day, so it's a good deal.
But on this day, she looked at the two corns of 1.95 yuan in her hand and suddenly felt sad, obviously she was in her 20s, and she was also trying to make money, so in order to save money, she specially snapped up special dishes.
A sense of shame surged into the girl's heart, and then the girl shared such a state of mind with netizens, which instantly caused heated discussions:
"Why do you feel ashamed, I just feel that I have earned it."
"Nothing that is not discounted is worthy of me, Baozi, at your age, I will have the same thoughts, I will feel embarrassed, and now I feel that other people's eyes really don't matter, and it is true that I have benefited."
Unexpectedly, today's young people have long rejected the "price shame", not being bound by life, and directly enjoying life.
Some netizens also expressed the real situation of the girl's sense of shame:
Are you embarrassed because the supermarket clerk looks at you very strangely?
The netizen who just fell into the shame of consumption was directly redeemed by a sentence from a netizen:
The supermarket staff doesn't like you to buy a special price because you buy it and she doesn't have to buy it after work.
Although netizens are joking, they have to say that "being true to yourself and rejecting the shame in fantasy" will make it easier to enjoy life.
02
There is a saying that makes perfect sense:
The only thing that can hurt you is yourself, and how you perceive other people's evaluations and eyes, you feel.
Some people are still embarrassed to buy bargains, while some young people have learned how to affirm themselves.
Everyone should have experienced visiting the vegetable market with their mother, and when they were young, they always felt that bargaining with merchants seemed very calculated.
It wasn't until I grew up and started to live alone, making money and spending it myself, that I knew that every cent was hard-won.
The money you earn is spent by yourself, and you can spend it well for money, which can only show that you will live.
It's the people who throw strange eyes that have the problem, not the problem of buying bargains.
I heard a very interesting saying:
What you are ashamed of, you lose control over what you are ashamed of. The thing that makes you feel embarrassed is to deprive you of your rights.
Agreed.
A small life incident shared by a netizen exposed the point that she suffered because of some inexplicable "shame":
This netizen usually likes to go shopping with friends when he is on vacation, and the hobby of the two is to visit trendy stores.
Generally, the things in the trendy store are relatively niche, although they are diverse and beautiful, but the price is also relatively expensive.
Every time netizens visit the trendy store, they are dazzled by the dazzling array of products, but in the end, they don't particularly like it.
But she has a habit of buying a small item before leaving the store to show that she is a customer, otherwise she will feel embarrassed.
In the end, it is also impractical to buy back things, which is equivalent to spending money to pay for your own face, and then silently regretting wasting money at home.
If you care about the eyes of others, you will be bound by the eyes of others, and you will suffer in the end.
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When people live, don't embarrass themselves, they must subtract their lives, as long as they don't do anything bad, they are worthy of anyone.
You are ashamed to buy a bargain, and you give up the pleasure of feeling good for money.
You feel ashamed of being plump, and you give up the confidence to enjoy a healthy body.
No matter what you do or how you live, as long as you care about the opinions of the people around you, there will always be a voice in your ears that makes you unhappy.
Try to accept yourself, praise yourself, approve of your lifestyle, and enjoy life.
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