At the end of the college entrance examination, children will usher in an important turning point, and 6 things must be done in time

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2024-06-19 17:04Posted in Zhejiang Parenting Creators

After a long and intense preparation, the college entrance examination has finally ended, which means that the children have ended the battle in their lives and are about to usher in an important turning point in their lives. For parents, the end of their children's college entrance examination not only means the end of a hard time, but also marks that their beloved children are about to enter a new stage of adulthood.

In the new stage of life, parents can no longer treat this group of prospective adults like children. Instead, we should encourage and guide them to do something meaningful in this summer after the college entrance examination to help them better transition to the next stage of their lives.

First things first: relax

The long preparation for the competition has kept the children's body and mind in a state of extreme fatigue. The first thing to do after the college entrance examination is to have a good rest, forget about the exam, sleep for three days and three nights, and recover your strength and spirit.

In the following time, don't stay at home all day playing with your mobile phone and watching videos, but encourage your child to choose their favorite sports, such as swimming, yoga, cycling, etc., exercise can help relieve stress, help children regulate their emotions at the same time, and also strengthen their bodies.

The second thing: to confess, to fall in love, even if it fails, it doesn't matter

An interesting incident happened outside an examination room in Sichuan, where the parents of a candidate held a banner to greet their children. The banner itself is not unusual, and what is interesting is the words on it: The college entrance examination is over, you can fall in love! Here's support for the whole family.

The candidate's mother said that her son has studied hard for so many years, and it is very hard, and after the college entrance examination, the child is also an adult, and he can try to fall in love. For children, this is undoubtedly a special coming-of-age ceremony, as well as an affirmation and support.

In fact, in high school, many boys and girls have their favorite people, just for the college entrance examination, and silently hide this simple love in their hearts. Now that the college entrance examination is over, we must encourage children to boldly confess and fall in love, even if they fail, it doesn't matter.

Such a special coming-of-age ceremony allows children to enjoy every possibility in life, which will make them more courageous and confident. Life experiences are more colorful, and youth should have the appearance of youth.

The third thing: do a good job of filling in the college volunteer application and life planning

After the college entrance examination, in fact, for parents and children, there is another important thing, which is to fill in the volunteers. Because this is not only a problem at this stage, but also will affect the child's life.

As a parent, you can't make decisions for your children, but it can help them understand themselves better, prepare for the application and future life planning.

First, understand your child's interests and strengths.

Parents should not judge their children by what they think they think, but really understand their children's interests and what they are good at.

Only in this way can they choose a major that matches their interests and talents, so that they can stimulate their enthusiasm for learning and gain a sense of satisfaction and accomplishment in their future careers.

Secondly, study the needs of the market and make a reasonable career plan.

Every year in the college entrance examination, there are always many parents who ask the aunt who teaches at the university what school their children should apply for. This phenomenon makes the aunt very troubled, she said: the child has become an adult, in fact, parents can discuss with the child about the future vision, what kind of career, working environment, etc., so that they can be more clear about what they want to report.

In fact, instead of asking questions, it is better to really understand the child's future ideals. Then work with your child to study the job market now and in the next few years to see which industries are on the rise and easier to employ.

For example, computer science will still be a sunrise industry in the next few years; With the improvement of people's awareness of oral health, dentists are also a profession that belongs to the rising period.

Finally, reasonable positioning and seeking truth from facts.

No matter what industry you want to do in the future, you still have to realistically assess your child's academic level and potential. Avoid blindly following some popular majors and prestigious schools, but your own strength is not up to it, even if you have the opportunity to study in these majors, you may be troubled in the future.

The fourth thing: learn a skill

Because of the preparation for the college entrance examination, my cousin gave up her hobby of dance. In the vacation after the college entrance examination, she picked up dancing again, and later participated in campus activities in the university many times, not only often won awards, but also made the university life rich and fulfilling.

In fact, before the college entrance examination, many students focus on studying and ignore their personal interests and hobbies. Now that the college entrance examination is over, parents should encourage them to explore and develop their own hobbies, such as dancing, painting, photography, swimming, ...... Anything goes! This not only enriches children's spare time, but also helps children discover their potential and provide clues for future career planning.

The fifth thing: take a free trip

After the child's college entrance examination, some families will choose to take their baby on a trip. As a mother, I actually prefer to put the initiative in the hands of my children, so that she can travel with three or five friends in the way she likes.

Go to their favorite places, eat local food, learn about local customs, and have a short chat with strangers on the trip. This is a special coming-of-age ceremony for them, so that they can go to the world independently, get in touch with people and things outside, increase their knowledge, discover beauty, and enjoy freedom.

Sixth: Take a summer job

A few years ago, I met a boy who was admitted to Beijing University of Posts and Telecommunications in a hotel. I asked him why he didn't go on a trip?

He said: "I have been growing up under the protection of my parents, and I have to spend their money on travel, I want to earn some money by myself, on the one hand, I can get a salary to reduce the cost of college, and on the other hand, I also want to get in touch with the society, after all, since the end of the college entrance examination, we have become an independent social person." ”

Since then, every time before and after the college entrance examination, I can always think of that assertive and courageous boy. In fact, it is also a good choice to encourage them to take a summer job, they can learn about all walks of life, have one more choice for filling in the volunteers, and can also get in touch with the society to cultivate their problem-solving skills and sense of responsibility.

In the early morning, my mother came to chatter:

There are many things that can be done for children in the period after the college entrance examination, but at this critical point, the correct guidance of parents is very important. Through the above six things, we can not only help children decompress from the college entrance examination, but also help children prepare to fill in the volunteer form, and lay a solid foundation for their future development!

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