The quality of things depends on the quality, how to look at the character of a person, so how to judge the quality of a person's character?
The ancestors told us in "Caigen Tan" that people have three precious qualities, with these three qualities, you can establish a heart for heaven and earth, a life for the people's livelihood, and a benefit for future generations.
First, don't be self-conscious
What does that mean? We just can't blind our true hearts, but what is it that blinds our hearts? Often blinded by selfishness, greed, jealousy, etc., no gratitude, do not remember the good of others, Lu Qian is such a person in the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Lin Chong once saved him, and Lin Chong was righteous, because of greed for wealth and wealth, he maliciously slandered and framed Lin Chong in front of Gao Yu, causing Lin Chong to be assigned to Cangzhou, and he didn't let it go, and he wanted Lin Chong's life in the forage field. In real life, there are also such people, those who are not filial to their parents, those who betray relatives and friends, those who cross rivers and demolish bridges, those who fall into the well, etc., there are really many such people, they have forgotten their original intentions, forgotten what they were originally doing, and forgot how many catties and taels they are, purely ruthless and unrighteous people.
Second, it is not personal
What does that mean? It is not to say absolute words, not to do absolute things, to leave room for everything, to leave space, that is, everyone often says to be humane, humane people, always consider whether others can accept what they say and do? Will it hurt others? Will it embarrass others? On the contrary, some people only want to be happy for themselves for a while, and only consider their own interests, and some people will even use unscrupulous means to swear not to give up until the goal is achieved, which is likely to push others into a desperate situation, and it is very likely that others will not be able to get off the stage on the spot, and they will have no face on the spot, so that others have no way out.
Third, we must not exhaust material resources
Inexhaustible material resources means not to waste too much financial and material resources, "Zhu Zi's family motto" said, a porridge and a meal when thinking about hard-won, half a thread and half a thread of perseverance and material resources are difficult, we must develop a good habit of thrift and thrift, cherish their own good fortune, do not wait until the fortune is exhausted to regret the late, material resources are limited, there was a report that a few young people in a restaurant abroad, in order to show that they have money, ordered a lot of meals, but did not eat, do not pack, the hotel to fine them when checkout, They all looked at each other, feeling very puzzled, do we have to pay for the meals we spend money to buy? The hotel staff told them that human resources belong to all human beings, and they can't squander them as much as you want, and they suddenly realized after listening to them.
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