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In the early summer of 2003, Li Yan returned to her homeland at the invitation of the Chinese Speed Skating Association and served as the head coach of the national women's speed skating team.
The legendary athlete, who won two Winter Olympics in Calgary 1988 and Albertville 1992, will face a new challenge.
Wang Meng's appearance was something Li Yan never expected, and this young girl left a bad impression on Li Yan at first sight.
Wang Meng's words and deeds appear to be bohemian, his attitude is arrogant and arrogant, and he has no reverence for the coach at all.
However, Ms. Wang doesn't have a high opinion of Ms. Li, who thinks the new coach wears a heavy folder and often speaks with stilted English words, giving the impression that he is not proficient in his native Chinese language and does not have the ability to coach the national team, a team of top athletes.
Many years ago, when Wang Meng first joined the national team, she has been under the careful guidance and meticulous care of her mentor Coach Yimin. Coach Yi Min carefully guided Wang Meng to help her realize her potential, and at the same time gave her meticulous care in life.
A deep teacher-student friendship has been established between the two.
Therefore, when Coach Yimin left the team, Wang Meng was full of loss and confusion.
The reason why Wang Meng showed strong resistance to Li Yan's arrival was precisely because she was deeply attached to Coach Yimin and could not let go. In her heart, Li Yan simply cannot replace the important position of Coach Yi Min.
For Wang Meng, Li Yan's first impression was also not very friendly. She thinks that although Wang Meng is talented, she is arrogant and willful, and she is simply a "wild child", difficult to be tamed by her new coach.
They began this teacher-student relationship that was destined to be full of strife with each other's prejudices. At first, they both thought that the other would not stay here for long, thinking that it was just a brief episode.
This relationship eventually lasted for many years, full of love and hatred, and the process was full of ups and downs, which can be called a poignant teacher-student love story.
As time passed, the contradictions between Li Yan and Wang Meng deepened. As a senior coach, Li Yan understands that in order to truly shape athletes with great potential into top champions, in addition to rigorous physical training, it is more important to forge their personality and psychological quality.
Therefore, she once spoke out, deliberately using an indifferent and ignorant words and deeds to "stimulate" Wang Meng, hoping to stimulate the greater potential of this "genius girl".
She believes that only through this method can Wang Meng's conceit and arrogance be truly polished away.
However, Wang Meng, who is young and has a bold character in the Northeast, obviously can't stand Li Yan's behavior of "hurting" his self-esteem. When Li Yan coldly spat out a word or two at her, she would burst into a rage and roar at Li Yan, asking her why she was so harsh.
Once, Wang Meng asked Li Yan to take a day off due to the recurrence of an old waist injury, but Li Yan refused. She replied with a simple "No".
In daily life, Li Yan is very caring for the other team members, but he is only cold to Wang Meng, a "special molecule". She thinks that Wang Meng is outstanding enough, so she doesn't need to worry too much, on the contrary, she has to sharpen her character.
This deliberate alienation and neglect, coupled with Li Yan's indifferent attitude towards Wang Meng's training, finally lit a real "fuse" after the 2007 Changchun Asian Winter Games.
After the game, Wang Meng publicly "bombarded" Li Yan in front of the media, accusing Li Yan of never making any strategies and plans for himself, which directly indicated the breakdown of the relationship between the two.
Due to the wide dissemination and hype of the media, the impact of this turmoil has expanded rapidly, exacerbating the contradictions between master and apprentice. Under the tremendous pressure of public opinion, the superior leaders had to take action and intervene in the coordination of the master-apprentice relationship.
It is widely speculated that the master-apprentice relationship between Li Yan and Wang Meng has been irreparable, but something interesting happened at this moment.
After the impact of the "bombardment of the teacher" incident and the criticism and education of her superiors, Li Yan began to reflect on whether her treatment of Wang Meng was too harsh, and she realized that her training method was too conservative and stubborn, and there were some mistakes and improprieties.
So when Wang Meng returned to the national team, Li Yan's attitude and training methods completely changed. She began to care more about Wang Meng's physical and mental health, and tailored a scientific and reasonable training plan for her according to Wang Meng's actual situation.
Li Yan's caring and highly valued approach made Wang Meng's doubts and dissatisfaction with her disappear, and she saw that her strong personality was rekindled, replaced by sincere admiration and gratitude for this once strict teacher.
"If you treat me like a guest, I will repay me like a spring, this is the bold character of our Northeast people." Wang Meng said to Li Yan sincerely. The two gradually established a deep teacher-student tacit understanding.
It is with this tacit understanding that Wang Meng created an impressive record at the 2010 Vancouver Winter Olympics. In this competition, she successfully won gold medals in the 500m, 1000m and 3000m events, creating three consecutive championships for the Chinese team.
In the 1000m final, Wang Meng already had a very serious cold, but she fought tenaciously and finally fought back to win the championship.
This moment is undoubtedly the most brilliant brilliance of her personal career, showing Li Yan's excellent performance in teaching.
After the game, Wang Meng was carried away by this honor and focused his attention on himself. Under the attention of everyone, she suddenly knelt on the field and respectfully made a big bow to Li Yan to express her supreme gratitude to her teacher.
At that moment, countless viewers at the scene were moved to tears and couldn't cry. And Li Yan was even more tearful and hugged Wang Meng deeply. This shows that the emotional bond between them has reached an unprecedented height.
From the contradictions and conflicts in the past to the sympathy for each other today, their story has become a good story.
However, the victory in the war did not last long, and in 2011, Wang Meng was embroiled in an unexpected violent incident.
There is news that she attacked others for no reason on a certain occasion, with an extremely arrogant attitude, and even threatened that she was a champion and unbeatable. This explosive news immediately aroused strong public attention.
Wang Meng was once again caught in a turmoil, this time during a training camp in Qingdao, where she and the team leader broke out in a physical altercation.
Some media even found photos of Wang Meng wrapped in gauze on his hands, so they questioned whether he used violent means.
In the face of overwhelming doubts, although Wang Meng defended that he was only passively fighting back, he still couldn't get rid of the fate of being expelled from the national team in the end. In just a few months, she fell from the former Huayi Dragon to the altar in an instant, and became a "violent element" that everyone spurned.
All this is undoubtedly a heavy blow to Wang Meng, which makes her feel extremely sad and difficult to let go of many years later.
She once admitted that the so-called "beating incident" was actually just a misunderstanding, and she was not at the scene at all. However, at that time, she could not change the status quo, so she could only silently leave the national team and fall into a low point in her life.
Although Li Yan regretted what happened to Wang Meng in her heart, she also felt that there was nothing she could do. In fact, in this turmoil, Li Yan could have stood up to support Wang Meng, but for some reason, she chose to remain silent.
The media, which has always been sensitive, quickly sensed the news of this turmoil. Some people pointed out that Li Yan tried to squeeze out Wang Meng from the beginning, carefully planning a series of actions, which led to her eventually losing control of her emotions; Some people also believe that as a coach, Li Yan improperly controlled Wang Meng's physical and psychological state, which caused her to be too conceited and empty-sighted.
Li Yan was caught up in the stormy impact of all kinds of doubts, and he couldn't escape on his own. Since then, she has been entangled by negative comments such as "scheming" and "conspiracy to exclude", and it is difficult to get rid of it.
Although there were more careful investigation results later, which proved that Wang Meng was not at the scene all along, that "stain" had been deeply imprinted on her body and could not be easily erased.
Time flies, a few years have passed, and with his tenacious perseverance, Wang Meng won the quadathlon crown at the World Championships in Hungary. When Li Yan saw Wang Meng return to the top again, the relief and pride in his heart were beyond words.
But fate is sometimes so ruthless, when Wang Meng was preparing for the Sochi Winter Olympics and wanted to atone for her past mistakes, a sudden accident made her fall into the trough of her life again.
This cruel reality is undoubtedly a heavy blow to Wang Meng, which makes her suffer a lot. Recalling the arduous journey of fighting alone in her hometown of Qingdao to return to the national team, how eager she was to be able to raise her eyebrows and prove her strength to everyone.
Now, this dream has been shattered, and she has once again fallen into the dark abyss of life, unable to extricate herself.
For Li Yan, seeing his past protégé suffer such a misfortune, his heart was extremely painful, but he was helpless. Recalling the ups and downs of their fate over the years, that sense of bitterness and helplessness arises spontaneously.
If when Wang Meng was involved in a violent storm before, Li Yan's silence only brought a rift to the friendship between the two, then this time, it is undoubtedly completely broken and irreparable.
After all, during Wang Meng's punishment, Li Yan did not pay attention to what happened to her and maintained an unpleasant silence; Now that Wang Meng is in trouble again, Li Yan has chosen to remain silent again, which can easily make the outside world have all kinds of speculation and criticism about her.
As a result, invish and accusations surrounded Li Yan again. Some people claim that she was selfish, out of a distorted revenge mentality, and deliberately ignored Wang Meng when she needed help the most; Some people believe that as a qualified coach, Li Yan really did not pay enough attention to the psychological counseling of athletes, which caused Wang Meng to lose control of his emotions outside the arena.
In the face of the pressure of public opinion, Li Yan felt extremely bitter. She had to look back on the past to see if she was prejudiced against Wang Meng, or whether she was "scheming" as the media said.
However, she knew that she had never had the intention of treating Wang Meng differently, on the contrary, this former genius girl had always been the student she valued and expected the most.
It is because of this that she takes every task so rigorously and seriously in her training.
Although Wang Meng has now regained the respect of the public, she still struggles to shake a deep sense of guilt deep inside. She also has to admit that she is also to blame for the mistakes she has made and the setbacks she has experienced in the past.
Looking back on everything back then, she may have thought that maybe she should have cared more about her mental health and guided her in a more humane way, rather than treating her as a "top athlete" hastily.
Indeed, on the field, Wang Meng is undoubtedly a "genius girl" who has been amazingly admired by countless people, and a dragon of Huayi who is full of admiration. But off the field, she is also an ordinary life form, full of emotions of human beings, and she needs the care and care of the coach more.
And I feel that I have been negligent in this regard.
It wasn't until a long, long time later, when Wang Meng broke free from the haze of that shocking "unjust case" and won the title of the world championship with his own strength, that Li Yan got rid of the endless pressure in his heart and smiled with relief.
She is very relieved and proud to see that the "talented girl" she once considered a top athlete has grown into a real "top talent".
Fate always plays tricks on people. Wang Meng and himself moved forward step by step on that love road full of frustration and doubts.
She never thought that one day she would become a "stain" on Wang Meng's life, and Wang Meng would also become a "regret" in her life.
However, everything will dissipate, and only the pace of moving forward will never stop. Looking back on the past, perhaps there are indeed many regrets and shortcomings in their lives, but they have also experienced a lot of glory and pride.
That's enough.
In life, after all, we must learn to look at the past from a different perspective. Let go of resentment, and this love road will no longer be so tortuous and difficult.
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