No one is perfect, and no one will inevitably make mistakes. Too often, we focus too much on the faults of others and neglect the great wisdom of forgiveness. Mr. Hu Xijin's insight when talking about the Yu Qi incident is like a clear spring, giving us an opportunity to re-examine this matter.
Time flies, and it was a sunny day in June. An accidental video went viral of a woman in professional attire parked in the middle of the road, rightfully obstructing traffic. What's even more ironic is that when she was dissuaded by other drivers, she arrogantly demanded that the other party stop filming on the grounds of "diplomatic immunity". This scene is like a heavy punch, hitting people's trust in public power.
What kind of mentality is this that makes a person in a high position so arrogant? Can leaders be above the law? The invective of netizens rose one after another in the field of public opinion, pressing the mysterious lady to the point of self-esteem. Just when people almost classified her as "heinous", some netizens further traced her identity, and it turned out that she was Ms. Yu Qi, Secretary General of the Asia-Pacific Space Cooperation Organization.
In the face of such a strong impact of public opinion, Yu Qi did not rest on his laurels and remained indifferent. On the contrary, she chose to face it squarely and make corrections with an open mind. Under the expectation of the majority of netizens and all walks of life, she released a formal apology video. In the video, she humbly admitted her mistakes, sincerely accepted the criticism of the public, and said that she would take responsibility for her inappropriate words and deeds, and she was deeply inspired.
The apology video for Yu Qi has received mixed reviews. It is undeniable that her apology does have some stiff and official traces, and simply repeating the questioned words will not help dispel the public's doubts. But looking back on the whole course of events, she went from hubris and humility to repentance, and this transformation deserves to be appreciated. As Mr. Hu Xijin said, "Anyone who makes a mistake of general rather than principle, as long as he apologizes, whether it is because of the pressure of public opinion or whatever, he can be forgiven and forgiving."
Leaving a step for others is not only a manifestation of human empathy, but also a wise insight. We are often accustomed to mercilessly spitting and blaming others for their faults, as if this is the only way to demonstrate our sense of justice and noble qualities. However, behind this seemingly righteous act, we ignore the great wisdom that lies in tolerance.
Tolerance is not a connivance at mistakes, but a noble quality and a way of life. It represents a realm that transcends personal emotions and prejudices, allowing us to view the mistakes of others in a more objective and rational manner. In the lens of tolerance, we no longer see mistakes as unforgivable crimes, but as opportunities to correct and learn.
The power of tolerance lies in its ability to resolve conflicts and promote harmony. When we are confronted with the faults of others, if we can abandon prejudices and emotions, and understand and accept them with a tolerant attitude, then we can break down barriers and build closer and more trusting relationships. This kind of relationship not only makes us more comfortable in interpersonal interactions, but also stimulates the goodness and beauty in our hearts.
At the same time, tolerance is also a process of self-improvement. When we learn to be tolerant of others, we are also able to become more aware of our own shortcomings and mistakes. This process of self-reflection and self-correction enables us to grow and improve and become more mature and excellent people.
Therefore, we should learn to be tolerant and practice it as a way of doing things. When facing the faults of others, we should understand and accept them with a calm mind, instead of blindly blaming and attacking. Only in this way can we truly appreciate the great wisdom contained in tolerance, and enable ourselves and others to continue to grow and progress in this wisdom.
It is undeniable that power can easily lead people into a spiral of arrogance. However, if a person is not a sage, who can be without fault? Although Yu Qi was once arrogant, under the strong pressure of public opinion, she finally repented sincerely, and this sincerity should be recognized. Now that a person has been reformed, we should be tolerant instead of resting on our laurels and pointing the finger at her forever.
In fact, how many people in this world can hide their mistakes and be honest? In the face of the huge pressure of public opinion, how many people will be like Yu Qi, humbly review and face up to mistakes? Should we also reflect on ourselves while insulting others?
In life, who can be 100% faultless? What matters is how to face up to mistakes and correct them with courage and wisdom. It is better to give others a chance to forgive and leave room for reflection for yourself. As Mr. Hu Xijin said, "Even if the secretary general pulls out the nails in the plank, he will still leave a hole there." The consequences of one's words and deeds naturally have to be borne by oneself. "
No one is perfect, and we should give everyone who has reformed a new leaf a chance to start over, rather than imprisoning them forever in the mistakes of the past. At the same time, it also reminds us that no matter where we are, we should be cautious in our words and actions, so as not to cause irreparable deep regrets.
The road is long, and only with a tolerant heart can we make this road more broad. If we know how to give people a glimmer of life and heal each other's wounds with empathy, the world will be a better place. Let's start learning from this to give forgiveness, love, and kindness.