Ding Ling's daughter Jiang Zuhui: Her mother was married several times and grew up in a lack of love, but she was very grateful to her after she came out. Ding Ling, this name is extremely loud in the Chinese literary world, and her works are popular and loud. However, behind the bright aura of this literary giant, there is a little-known family story. Daughter Jiang Zuhui is like a mirror, a true reflection of Ding Ling's life as a great mother. A mother has to give up the right to accompany her children for the sake of her ideals and career, which makes people sigh. But it is such a mother who seems to be "lacking love", but with her tenacity and pursuit, she has influenced her daughter's life and achieved her proud career today.
Speaking of the past of Ding Ling and her daughter Jiang Zuhui, it is enough to poke people's hearts. This has to start with the birth of Jiang Zuhui. When Ding Ling gave birth to her, she was still in prison, and she was imprisoned with her husband Feng Da. After being released from prison, the couple parted ways, Feng Da followed his path, and Ding Ling resolutely went to Yan'an to join the revolutionary ranks of the Communist Party.
Don't look at Ding Ling's outstanding talent, but she is also a full heroine. I saw that she was willing to send her newly born daughter Jiang Zuhui back to her hometown, and she went to the front line alone. Hey, her own daughter can be given up, which shows her persistent pursuit of the revolutionary cause!
When she arrived in Yan'an, Ding Ling quickly became famous with her talent and diligence. However, her daughter Jiang Zuhui could only spend a motherless life in Yan'an Nursery School. Despite living close to her mother, Ding Ling was so busy with work that she almost never visited her. Poor little Zuhui is very unfamiliar with the word "mother".
Until one year, Xiao Zuhui suffered from scarlet fever. Ding Ling was like a man on her back, and hurriedly took her daughter back to take care of her. finally survived this catastrophe, Ding Ling seemed to realize something, and she was finally willing to take time out to spend with her daughter. Despite the pain, Ms. Jiang said it was the happiest time of her childhood. Leaning on her mother's warm body and listening to her powerful heartbeat, Xiao Zuhui felt unprecedented pride and satisfaction. Savor this scene, which is cold and sad.
Unexpectedly, the good times did not last long, and Jiang Zuhui returned to the nursery as soon as he recovered. The life of the mother and daughter has returned to its original "old state". Jiang Zuhui, who grew up slowly, began to have her own ideas. Seeing that her mother and her new husband were in love, she wondered if her mother doted on her husband more and left out her own daughter. As a result, she no longer took the initiative to go home to visit.
In the blink of an eye, as Ding Ling's fame in Yan'an became more and more famous, Jiang Zuhui also got a glimpse of her mother's extraordinary. This talented woman lived in her daughter's adolescence in this way, but she never deliberately understood her daughter's inner world. is still the same old-fashioned, Ding Ling, who is busy with work, completely left Jiang Zuhui behind.
In this situation of estrangement between mother and daughter, Ding Ling once again made a "domineering" decision for her daughter. Jiang Zuhui loves science and engineering, and has no intention of learning dance. But Ding Ling forced her to change her career to learn ballet playwright, on the grounds that "my Ding Ling's daughter should do this". Although Jiang Zuhui was furious at the time, asking her mother, "You haven't taken care of me since I was a child", but Ding Ling stubbornly insisted on sending her to a foreign country.
In the years in North Korea and the Soviet Union, Jiang Zuhui not only gradually fell in love with ballet, but also had a lot of achievements in this field. Although Ding Ling's approach seems a bit arbitrary, it opens another door to her daughter's life. Since then, Jiang Zuhui has embarked on the road of no return in the pursuit of stage art.
Looking back on the past, Ding Ling's "mental abuse" of her daughter is indeed staggering. But you think, it was this mother who "lacked love" in the eyes of outsiders who used her unique way to let her daughter find her talent, and finally achieved today's career giant.
During the Cultural Revolution, Jiang Zuhui suffered the same shocks and blows as her mother. But both mother and daughter showed great tenacity, and there was no anxiety like ordinary people. Even if Ding Ling is old and frail, she must write diligently to express her aspirations; Jiang Zuhui is also high-spirited and wants to recover all the lost time. It seems that the mother's never-admitting strength has deeply infected her daughter!
After those difficult years passed, Jiang Zuhui really got his wish and became famous in one fell swoop. She has choreographed and directed many ballet works that have been acclaimed. Every time she mentioned her mother, she gushed and was full of gratitude. Not only did she not blame her mother for what she did, but she sincerely praised her mother as a mirror and shadow of herself, a model and example for her life.
A mother who is strong and self-disciplined and pursues ideals is far more beneficial to the growth of her children than a comfortable mother who only knows how to take care of her children. Jiang Zuhui thinks so. She believes that although her mother has rarely accompanied her, she has influenced and inspired her throughout her life with her own personality strength.
Life often blooms the most gorgeous flowers on the thorny road. The mother-daughter relationship between Ding Ling and her daughter Jiang Zuhui is deep, although it is tortuous and bizarre, and there is quite an inexhaustible taste. But in the end, they used struggle and pursuit to write a touching family story. This is probably also a common truth in life: there is a fate