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Yi Nengjing didn't get her father's love when she was a child. Her father is a very conservative person, obsessed with having a son to inherit the family's incense, and Yi Nengjing's mother's fate is quite bumpy, she keeps giving birth to daughters, and her status in her in-law's family is very low.
Yi Nengjing's father became more and more disgusted with her because of this, and finally left the house altogether, looking for a woman who could give birth to a son.
My mother raised several sisters alone, and the family became poorer and poorer. In order to support her family, her mother was forced to travel to Japan to make ends meet. There, the mother married a wealthy man, and the sisters' living conditions improved.
However, Yi Nengjing's childhood was full of hardships, and her mother was very disgusted with her as a daughter, and often reprimanded and punished her. Fortunately, Yi Nengjing's stepfather is a person who loves to read, and the family has a rich collection of books, which has become her only spiritual sustenance.
Yi Nengjing was sent by her mother to live at her sister's house when she was young, and although her sister took good care of her, her brother-in-law treated her very coldly, and every time she ate a second bowl of rice, she would be treated with white eyes.
Yi Nengjing recalled that difficult teenage time, and burst into tears uncontrollably. Until she was 15 years old, she resolutely gave up her studies, left her sister's house with tears in her eyes, and began a wandering career to earn a living.
When she first arrived in Taiwan, Yi Nengjing could not find a decent job and could only wash dishes in a restaurant. Despite this, she never gave up singing. By chance, the famous Taiwanese singer Liu Wenzheng heard her touching singing voice and was deeply moved.
Liu Wenzheng suggested that she might be successful in the field of music, which made Yi Nengjing feel like a new life, and she immediately established a deep friendship with Liu Wenzheng and successfully signed a contract with his company.
In the entertainment industry, Yi Nengjing amazed everyone with her unique charm when she first appeared on stage, and her musical talent was soon revealed. She believes that she can make a difference in the industry in her own right, proving to her father that her daughter can do the same.
Standing on the shining stage, Yi Nengjing is full of expectations and yearning for the future.
Just when Yi Nengjing's career was at its peak, she met Yu Chengqing, who had already become famous. Yu Chengqing was born in a famous family, excellent in character and learning, and can be called a contemporary rich son.
The acquaintance of Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing is like the encounter between the prince and Cinderella in a fairy tale. Yi Nengjing was born poor, like a Cinderella struggling at the bottom of society, while Yu Chengqing is a prince in the eyes of people.
At the beginning of the relationship, Yu Chengqing foresaw that his parents would strongly oppose his cross-class relationship with Yi Nengjing. So, he was not afraid of difficulties and took the initiative to reveal to Yi Nengjing that they needed to have a secret relationship.
Yu Chengqing thought to herself that although Yi Nengjing is only a fledgling newcomer now, she may become a radiant superstar in the future. By then, when the relationship is made public, the gap in their identities will be less pronounced, and their families may no longer object.
As expected, the Yu family found out about Yi Nengjing's existence and had a so-called "conversation" with her, which was nothing more than asking her to leave Yu Chengqing. In the face of the huge pressure of the family, Yu Chengqing was unswerving, determined to be with Yi Nengjing for life.
At the age of 30, Yi Nengjing's abdomen was constantly in pain, and she was devastated by the doctor's diagnosis, which thought she was unable to have children. However, the first thing she thought of was not her physical condition, but that Yu Chengqing might leave her after knowing about it.
Fortunately, Yu Chengqing did not waver in his love for Yi Nengjing because of these negative information, and he still swore to marry her. Perhaps God was moved by this persistent love, and in the second year after marriage, Yi Nengjing gave birth to the eldest grandson of the Yu family.
Yi Nengjing thought that after having a child, she could be recognized and liked by her mother-in-law. But her mother-in-law's attitude towards her did not change, but called her "Little Song Girl" in public, which made Yi Nengjing feel very embarrassed and embarrassed.
The mother-in-law's words and deeds made Yi Nengjing feel inferior and afraid, as if she had returned to the difficult years under the fence, and she could only act by looking at other people's faces.
As a well-known singer, Yi Nengjing really can't stand such an insult. Every time I see my wedding photo with Yu Chengqing, my heart is full of helplessness.
Occasionally, she would confide in her husband about the injustices she had suffered at home, but Yu Chengqing took it for granted that due to the huge disparity between the two identities, the elders would inevitably have some trouble.
As Yi Nengjing said in her book, "You have given me love, but you have failed to reach the deep needs of my soul. It can be seen from this that Yu Chengqing has never really felt the pain in her heart.
Although Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing's marriage lasted for 7 years, due to the long-term neglect of her mother-in-law and Yi Nengjing's unbearable inferiority complex, the relationship between the two gradually became estranged.
Misfortune is not a one-way street, in the atmosphere of marital tension, Yi Nengjing was exposed to photos of intimate contact with others.
Although the authenticity of the photos needs to be further verified, for a wealthy lady, the act of intimacy with others during her marriage will undoubtedly put her on the cusp of public opinion.
A large number of netizens have come forward to question Yi Nengjing, who believes that Yi Nengjing has lost the qualification to maintain this marriage.
Just when the storm of public opinion has not subsided, the news of Yi Nengjing and Yu Chengqing's divorce has once again sparked heated discussions. The two have had a deep relationship for more than 20 years, but the once sweet love has now come to naught and is coming to an end of falling apart.
However, what is ironic is that when Yi Nengjing was caught in the heavy exposure and criticism of public opinion, the original intimate man chose to avoid it, neither giving any explanation nor publicly spreading rumors.
As for whether Yi Nengjing and a certain man have the emotion of true love, it is still difficult for the outside world to determine. No matter who is on the road of affection, he will encounter a trough, maybe he, at that particular stage, just became an object for Yi Nengjing to find emotional comfort.
For a celebrity like Yi Nengjing, who has experienced ups and downs in life before reaching the top, divorce is undoubtedly a very difficult thing. Physically and mentally exhausted, she rejected all the efforts of relatives and friends to find a new partner for her, solemnly stated that she had no intention of getting involved in marriage again in this life, and implored everyone not to worry about her life's affairs.
Yi Nengjing, who has been single for many years, met a young and handsome young man - Qin Hao at a public event. At that time, Qin Hao was 10 years younger than Yi Nengjing, and he was still a newcomer in the entertainment industry.
However, the meeting between the two was not accidental, Qin Hao had been a loyal admirer of Yi Nengjing many years ago.
It turned out that when Qin Hao was still a teenager, he was already a die-hard fan of Yi Nengjing. At that time, he, like countless teenagers, was deeply attracted by Yi Nengjing's glittering heroism on the stage, so much so that he had a deep admiration for her.
A few years later, when Qin Hao learned that Yi Nengjing had been alone since the divorce, he made up his mind to pursue the idol he once had in his heart. As a result, his crush on the older artist began to emerge gradually.
The reunion of the two was on the stage of a public event. When the young and handsome Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing met for the first time, he generously expressed his love to Yi Nengjing, although the age gap between the two was large, he firmly believed that one day he could make Yi Nengjing fall in love with him.
In the face of the other party's passionate pursuit, Yi Nengjing's heart was shaken, but as a woman who had experienced a painful marriage, she still maintained her sanity and vigilance.
So at that moment, she politely declined Qin Hao's confession, and told him frankly that she had had a divorce experience, and now she is also a mother.
Qin Hao was not discouraged and discouraged by Yi Nengjing's opposition, he responded in a firm and gentle tone: "I will prove that we are suitable with practical actions." ”
Since then, Qin Hao has appeared in Yi Nengjing's life in a surprising way, and his sincere words and deeds finally slowly touched Yi Nengjing's heart.
As the relationship between the two deepened, the relationship between the two became more and more intimate, but problems also arose - Qin Hao's parents were adamantly opposed to Qin Hao being with Yi Nengjing, who was 10 years older than him and a divorced single mother.
In the face of his family's opposition, Qin Hao did not comply, but patiently explained to his parents Yi Nengjing's advantages and her love for herself. After some hard work, Qin Hao finally got the support of his parents and was allowed to take Yi Nengjing back to his hometown in the Northeast and officially meet the elders in the family.
Before Yi Nengjing went to the Northeast, she was worried that she would be snubbed by her mother-in-law again as before, and be looked down upon and discriminated against by strangers.
Unexpectedly, the moment she stepped into the door of the Qin family, reality gave her a completely unexpected surprise.
The moment the Qin family welcomed Yi Nengjing's arrival, she did not feel cold or discriminatory, but endless intimacy and warmth. Qin Hao's mother (Yi Nengjing's mother-in-law) treated her like her own daughter, cooked all kinds of delicious dishes for her to replenish her strength, and was worried that the nanny would not take good care of her, so she personally came from her hometown in the northeast and guarded Yi Nengjing at all times during the confinement period.
In order to prevent Yi Nengjing from postpartum depression, her mother-in-law will share Qin Hao's interesting stories when she was a child every day and accompany her. Seeing that her daughter-in-law is eating heartlessly, her mother-in-law will be more attentive to make some dishes she likes to eat, and try her best to supplement her nutrition.
What deeply touched Yi Nengjing was that in order to ensure the health of her and her children, Qin Hao resolutely quit his addiction to smoking for many years.
She was touched by the thoughtfulness and care of her mother-in-law, whom Yi Nengjing had never experienced in her previous mother-in-law's house. The way this virtuous mother-in-law loved her even made her feel like a "little lucky star in the family".
Yi Nengjing stepped on the peak of her life again at the age of 48, she resolutely took the risk of giving birth, and successfully added a new member to the Qin family - an innocent little daughter.
The child thrives under the care of his parents, and Yi Nengjing also feels the joy of being a mother, and is always surrounded by strong family affection.
In this family, Qin Hao is very considerate and a good husband with a strong sense of responsibility. Whenever Yi Nengjing complained that she was too tired from work in a variety show, Qin Hao would not simply comfort her, but frankly told her that if it was too hard, she could choose to quit at any time, because family is the most important thing.
With such a caring husband by her side, Yi Nengjing felt surrounded by warmth.
Yi Nengjing is bathed in the love of the whole family, and she also wholeheartedly repays the same care of her in-laws. In the reality show "Mother-in-law and Mother", Yi Nengjing and her mother-in-law get along naturally and well, just like a biological mother and daughter.
This is something she has never experienced in her previous marriage.
After experiencing the seven-year itch of marriage, Qin Hao and Yi Nengjing got along more and more harmoniously, and their relationship gradually deepened. Even for Qin Hao, who is known as "Brother Calm", Yi Nengjing occasionally makes some small actions that are "traceless and small", but he can accept and tolerate it calmly.
Perhaps, this is the essence of true love - in your eyes, no matter what your partner is, it is a matter of course and a matter of course.
After going through a lot, 54-year-old Yi Nengjing finally understood the true meaning of marriage - marriage needs both parties to work together and maintain it in order to go long-term.
But the premise of everything is that you need to find someone who truly loves you, understands you, and knows how to cherish you. Only when the heart is satisfied and comforted, can the relationship last and life will be full of meaning.
Yi Nengjing's original family and former marriage brought her a lot of grievances and hurts. The departure of her father made her lose the fatherly love she deserved since she was a child; The mother's disgust for her daughter's identity often leads her to reprimand; The cold reception of her sister's family made her destitute; As a bride, the discrimination and humiliation of her ex-in-law's family are everywhere, leaving her without a place to be ashamed.
Along the way, Yi Nengjing has paid too much, but she still hasn't gained inner peace. What Yu Chengqing gave her was a superficial love, but it failed to touch the comfort needs that she longed for most in her heart.
Qin Hao and his family's tolerance and care brought Yi Nengjing today's happy life, Qin Hao moved a little bit with his actions and won the recognition of Yi Nengjing's heart and family; Her mother-in-law treats her like her own daughter, considerate and meticulous; Qin Hao quit smoking for the sake of her and her child's health.
In this loving family, Yi Nengjing found the person who could really understand her, love her, and love her, as if she had been reborn.
The maintenance and management of a marriage is not a one-time thing, and requires long-term efforts from both parties. But more importantly, in the process, we must first find the person who is worth our efforts.
Only when our hearts are fully comforted can our feelings last and life be meaningful.
Yi Nengjing proves this with her own personal experience.
In the past, her life was full of gloom; And now she is like a blooming flower, exuding the fragrance of happiness. A kind marriage has brought her a new life experience and allowed her to rediscover herself.
Yi Nengjing finally found the long-awaited peace and happiness in this loving family.
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