Huang Yimei's second child
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I am a human being first, and then a mother
Huang Yimei, just hearing this name, feels like an assertive person, so it is not surprising that she refused to have a second child. A woman is herself first, then her mother, she has her own career and dreams, and it is impossible to sacrifice herself because of other people's expectations. Fang Xiewen's sentence "You have the energy to work, but you don't have the energy to have a son?" "It's really speechless. This sentence not only ignores Huang Yimei's personal feelings, but also treats her as a fertility tool. Does Fang Xiewen feel that work doesn't require energy? Or does he find it easier to take care of children than to work? This is really a philosophical question worth exploring.
Imagine that Huang Yimei struggles in the workplace every day, and when she returns home, she has to face Fang Xiewen's unreasonable demands. Who can stand this kind of life? Working hard enough and having another child can be a huge stress for anyone. Fang Xiewen's request was not only unreasonable, but also showed that he had no understanding of Huang Yimei's hardships. Needless to say, this way of life is an oppression for Huang Yimei's freedom and happiness.
Fang Xiewen's "Rose Dilemma"
Fang Xiewen is obsessed with trapping Huang Yimei in a world, this behavior simply annihilates Rose's nature. Huang Yimei is an independent person by nature, and she is unwilling to be bound by anything. Fang Xiewen's behavior not only makes people feel depressed, but also makes people feel that he doesn't understand what respect and love mean at all. Love is mutual respect, not coercion and control. Fang Xiewen's macho attitude is really unacceptable.
Not only that, Fang Xiewen's mother also played an inglorious role in it. Her attitude exacerbated the tensions in the family. Huang Yimei has been working hard in the workplace, and she has to face her mother-in-law's unreasonable demands, and under this double pressure, her quality of life can be imagined. Netizens have said that if they have the opportunity, they really want to straighten out Fang Xiewen and his mother's brains, so that they can understand what respect and understanding are.
The irrational contrast between "energy" and "work".
Fang Xiewen's sentence "Do you have the energy to work, but you don't have the energy to have a son?" "It's amazing. Netizens have expressed that they want to kick him, which sounds like old men from ancient times. Working and having children are two different things altogether and cannot be compared. Work requires both intellectual and physical investment, and having a child is a great test of the body. This kind of unreasonable comparison will only make people feel that Fang Xiewen doesn't understand what understanding and care are.
Huang Yimei chose not to have a second child because she knew where her limits were. She is unwilling to experience the discomfort of pregnancy and the pain of childbirth again, and she is even more unwilling to let her life be completely occupied by children again. She has her own career and dreams and doesn't want to give up everything she has because of other people's expectations. This choice is her mastery of her life, not a betrayal of her family.
Fang Xiewen with his "great" mother
Fang Xiewen not only doesn't understand Huang Yimei, but also has a "great" mother to help. His mother is also constantly putting pressure on Huang Yimei, hoping that she can have a second child. This situation makes people feel that Fang Xiewen and his mother are completely living in their own world, and they have no understanding of Huang Yimei's feelings.
Netizens have said that if they have the opportunity, they really want to reach out and straighten Fang Xiewen's mother's curly hair, so that she can understand what understanding and respect are. Huang Yimei's choice not to have a second child is her choice, and this choice should be respected, not endless pressure and demand. The attitude of Fang Xiewen and his mother not only makes people feel that they don't know how to respect, but also makes people feel that they are completely living in their own little world, and they have no understanding of everything in the outside world.
Can the "Divine Monarch of Action" save you?
Lin Gou, when he heard this name, he felt a little funny, but I have to say that he may be the only person who can understand Huang Yimei. Can the Divine Monarch save you? This sentence not only reflects the helplessness of netizens, but also carries a hint of ridicule. After all, in this family environment, who can save Huang Yimei?
Fang Xiewen's attitude makes people feel that he doesn't understand what respect and understanding are at all, and his mother makes people feel helpless. In this environment, Huang Yimei's choice not to have a second child is a control of her life, not a betrayal of her family. Netizens said that when they met a husband and mother-in-law like Fang Xiewen, they were simply depressed to death, and they raised their hands and feet in favor of not having a second child.
The machismo "Fang Xiewen"
Fang Xiewen's behavior is really a typical representative of machismo. He not only ignored Huang Yimei's feelings, but also used her as a fertility tool. This attitude is unacceptable. Netizens have said that Fang Xiewen has taken you into account for machismo, and what modern society needs is mutual respect and understanding, not coercion and control.
Huang Yimei's choice is to take control of her life, not to betray her family. She has her own career and dreams, and she is not willing to give up everything she has because of the expectations of others. Fang Xiewen's attitude not only makes people feel that he doesn't understand what understanding and care are at all, but also makes people feel that he lives in his own small world and has no understanding of everything in the outside world.
Controversial summary
Huang Yimei's refusal to have a second child has sparked widespread discussion. Some people feel that she is in control of her own life and an affirmation of her self-worth; Some people feel that she is a sign of irresponsibility and a betrayal of the family. This controversy reflects the different understandings and expectations of women's roles in modern society. In any case, Huang Yimei's choice is her own, and she has the right to decide her own lifestyle.
Netizens are ridiculing and pondering, in such a family environment, who can save Huang Yimei? Can the Divine Monarch save you? Fang Xiewen's attitude makes people have to reflect on the fact that what modern society needs is mutual understanding and respect, not endless pressure and demand. Huang Yimei's choice is to take control of her life, not to betray her family. I hope that everyone can find their own happiness and not be bound by the expectations of others.
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