In life, we often encounter such a scene: you carefully take care of your own existence, like a docile cat, with your kindness and gentleness to warm others. However, sometimes, no matter how gentle and caring you are, if you lack substantial value, others will still think you are "shedding" and make you feel helpless. This is reality, brutal and real.
Mo Yan once said: "People are not lovely because they are beautiful, but beautiful because they are cute." The same applies to our day-to-day interactions. If you're a "shedding" cat, it's probably because you haven't found your point of light to let others see your value. Just like a cat, people will appreciate its presence only if it has the ability to catch mice, or if it becomes a pet of people.
Remember that story about eggs and stones? When an egg hits a stone, the seemingly weak party always hurts, but if you think about it from another angle, if the egg can be turned into a delicious pancake, then it has another value. In life, we also need to learn to transform, to show our value, even the smallest contribution, to win respect.
Sometimes, we may be misunderstood or even overlooked, but that doesn't mean we don't have value. As Oprah Winfrey said, "You can't let someone define who you are unless you accept it yourself." "We need to have the confidence to discover our potential and let others see your light.
Of course, this is not to say that we have to cater to others, but to find our niche and be the best version of ourselves. After all, "you can't decide the length of life, but you can control its width." This sentence tells us that value does not depend on external evaluation, but comes from inner fulfillment and growth.
Finally, remember that everyone has their own value, just as every cat has its unique charm. When you find your own worth, you will find that no matter how gentle you are, no one will dislike your "shedding" anymore. Because you're no longer the kitten waiting to be accepted, you're a sparkling star.
Life is like this, sometimes we need to find, to prove, to live our own worth. When you do that, you will find that those dislikes are only because you have not been seen. So, let's work together to be a cat that doesn't shed hair, and in our own way, warm the world and win respect.
This is an article of wisdom from the old man in the streets and alleys, I hope to bring you some inspiration, and I look forward to your likes, retweets and comments, let us share this philosophy of life together. Life is not easy, but as long as it is valuable, we will not be easily disliked.