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Adults are tired, children are even more tired! Many people say, why are today's children so fragile? I'm depressed at every turn! Emotional breakdown over a little thing! Whether it's a parent or a teacher.
But is it because children are fragile or are parents expecting too much from them?
Academics, relationships, family expectations, and society, can you not be tired? If you don't do well, you will be said and criticized! Sometimes the expectations are too high, and the child will be more stressed! Moreover, some parents almost do not praise their children, and after a long time, the children may fall into self-doubt and feel that they are not good.
Netizens said that "the grades are better than the good, and the conditions are worse than the poor" alas... It also expresses the helplessness and struggle in the hearts of many children.
Let's take a look at the comments of netizens!
It's a pity that today's children express anxiety, and parents often refute it, and we only complained at that time, and now we are still anxious about everything.
In the final analysis, modern society is almost leapfrogging, and the life experience of most of the elders is no longer applicable, but a large part of them stubbornly like to point fingers......
My parents can accept the depression of other people's children, but they can't accept the depression of their own children.
Because no one was in charge before, now everything has to be managed.
I'm 35 years old, my mom has always been strong, pinching me, and barking at me on the street, I don't know what's going on, she will put on a face for me no matter the occasion. She said me, I have to go and apologize to her, and she will still think it is my fault. I also go to my neighbors to show off.
Now children's minds awaken too early, and there is no way to change it will be desperate, you see that those who wake up late have grown up in a daze, and they feel that it is good to be confused, at least they can have the ability to change when they grow up and awaken.
Why do you only see my shortcomings and never care about my strengths? Why do I have to compare myself to someone better than me? I'm working hard! Why don't you listen to my explanation? Why can't you give me a chance?
I think the reason why the older generation can accept it and bear it well is because his cognitive scope is relatively narrow, in their cognition, although I am very bitter, but everyone is like this, so I accept it, the younger generation is because of the wide range of knowledge, and I see the big picture of the world, but I still can't get rid of the positive control, that is, I can see it, but you can never get in touch with it, it will be very painful, and you will feel very annoying in comparison, of course, this is only one aspect.
I was actually scared of my parents saying, "I've been working for years since I'm your age," but I'm a freshman now... I don't know why I feel inexplicably anxious when I hear this sentence, and sadness...
To be honest, I think today's children are very tired, they go to make-up classes every day, and there are more double reductions that are good, and junior high school children say that they are now leaving two homework, one is normal and one is double minus homework, so it is difficult to evaluate.
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