Hi guys! I'm Xiao Ming, and I'm going to talk to you today: Why do you say that beautiful women, ugly women, are the same when the lights are turned off? You may wonder about this sentence, but please be patient with me.
My name is Xiao Ming, and I am an ordinary office worker, 26 years old. My family background is very ordinary, nothing special, I'm just an ordinary person. I don't have anything outstanding at work, but I have my own unique perspective.
I often hear people say that in love, the appearance is not important, the important thing is the inner beauty. However, when we are in real life, we are inevitably affected by our appearance. That's why we have the saying that "beautiful women, ugly women, it's the same when the lights are turned off".
The story begins with an experience a few years ago. At that time, I went to a blind date event with a group of friends. This is a new attempt to get to know each other through pure dialogue without seeing each other. I believe that friends who have seen blind date shows should be familiar with this method.
The evening event began, and everyone wore blindfolds and couldn't see each other's faces clearly. At first, we were a little inhibited, but as the conversation progressed, we gradually immersed ourselves in the invisible world.
During the chat, I got acquainted with a girl who called herself Xiaofang. Her voice is gentle and moving, and her speech and demeanor are full of wisdom and humor. I was so fascinated by her inside that I seemed to have forgotten what she looked like.
When the event was over, we took off our blindfolds and when we met, I was instantly overwhelmed by her charming smile. She is not a beauty in the traditional sense, but she has a unique charm, an indescribable beauty.
We quickly got into a relationship, and time proved my instincts. Xiao Fang doesn't need the ornate decoration of the exterior to attract my attention, she brings me endless joy with her inner beauty.
This experience changed my perception. I've come to realize that true beauty doesn't depend on appearances. Everyone has their own unique charm, both outwardly and inwardly. Beauty should not be confined to superficial appearances, but should encompass a broader definition.
Later, Xiaofang and I entered the palace of marriage, and we spent many wonderful times together. Whenever I think back to the blind date event, I find that on that night when the lights were off, we paid more attention to each other's inner qualities and souls.
So, what I want to tell you is that in love, appearance is really not the most important factor. When we are able to truly understand and appreciate one's inner beauty, then appearance is just a façade. Not all beautiful women lose their light when the lights are turned off, and in the same way, ugly women can also have inner charm! Feel free to leave your insights in the comment section