Now in this world, the way of managing things is getting narrower and narrower, and the management of people is getting wider and wider.
The management is getting narrower and narrower, not that things don't need to be managed, but there are more and more things that need to be managed.
Because there are many, you have to be clear about the responsibility, because of the clear responsibility, you need to put the back on the back, the one that should be carried resisted,
So who wants to carry things and pressure? Naturally, no one wants to do that.
Therefore, we have to "take the narrow road",
The narrow-path effect tells us that some things can become slow enough as long as they are narrow enough.
Slow, things are easy to do,
Then these problems are like these narrow paths, which are becoming more and more simplified and detailed.
At least, it does look like it's getting thinner.
Some people have less burden and less responsibility, and others have to increase their burden.
But no one wants to increase the weight, no one wants to carry so many burdens that shouldn't be carried,
So what to do?
If the stewardship is getting narrower and narrower, it is to "reduce the burden",
Then the purpose of managing people is obvious as it becomes wider and wider.
People have to be confident, and self-confident people will have a better life.
People can't have low self-esteem, and people with low self-esteem will have a miserable life.
The above two sentences, called "nonsense based on good intentions", are not an excessive evaluation in today's era of developed Internet and rapid information interaction.
Everyone knows what it means to be confident and what low self-esteem can lead to.
So, why are there still people who have low self-esteem, and there are still people who are constantly self-confident,
Defeat after defeat, defeat after defeat?
Even if the ideal is mediocre, it will seem "out of place" because of the fiasco of reality, for most ordinary people, self-confidence is a high value-added spiritual commodity, everyone wants to have, but everyone knows what the price of owning is.
On the other hand, low self-esteem actually has the meaning of different paths to the same end.
As a result, more and more people give up the pursuit of self-confidence because of disappointment, and accept the process of inferiority, which is more like finding their "non-perceptual positioning" in today's world.
This world teaches people how to live, and people are also choosing to accept, choose to compromise, and choose the "only answer" according to the stimulation that this world feeds back to them.
However, some people are not happy.
These unhappy people are originally happy, they are happy because they are confident, they are extraordinarily happy because they don't need to have low self-esteem, they are happy to the point of madness, they are happy to the point of contempt for others.
The reason why these originally happy people became unhappy is actually very simple.
Because they need the concept of "pursuing self-confidence" to be accepted by those who are unhappy.
There must always be motivation in life, and the immediate benefit is the clearest hope, and the value of this hope and motivation seems to be real, but it is illusory.
Like a carrot tied to a stick, it is not false to put it in front of the mouth, and it can not be eaten in the mouth,
The one who puts the carrot knows best.
At this moment, we replace this thing with "self-confidence",
It seems that everything is much easier to understand.
Why should self-confidence be taught, and why should inferiority be taught?
In the final analysis, it's because people who have been happy for too long are starting to be unhappy.
Teach self-confidence, will have the motivation to achieve happiness, discipline inferiority, in order to avoid more opportunities to be happy,
It ended up in a bad mood.
The overwhelming guidance is coming, the mask with a sad face is flickering, and the originally unhappy people will not change anything because of the arrival of all this,
Because their faces gradually lost their expression,
Indifference is not their mask,
It's their "frozen life".