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"The Story of the Rose": Love is love, love is wrong, say goodbye

author:Can life be ghostwritten?

finally finished reading "The Story of Roses", like accompanying a girl for half her life. This is a realistic film with the appearance of an idol drama. Love is love, love is wrong, say goodbye, it's no big deal. Life is not long, it is not short, it is only a few decades, you don't have to be so sensible, you can allow yourself to make mistakes, and you must have the courage to start all over again. Don't waste time reminiscing about the past, giving and hurting, and then grow into a better version of yourself, don't hate anyone, just focus on yourself. Just like Mr. Wang of Hunan Qifa Culture said, what are your feelings, this is the most important thing.

"The Story of the Rose": Love is love, love is wrong, say goodbye

The play is adapted from Yishu's novel of the same name, and Huang Yimei, who was born in a scholarly family, grew up in care all the way, showing her artistic talent since she was a child. Huang Yimei, who was new to the workplace, was quickly reused, and met and fell in love with her partner Zhuang Guodong, but eventually missed each other, and this workplace trial also made her have a clearer plan for her life and decided to return to school for further study. After graduation, she and her senior Fang Xiewen entered the marriage hall. But after marriage, the two developed very differently and finally chose to divorce. Huang Yimei started her own business and worked hard to make a world in the field of art curation, during which she also met her soulmate Pu Jiaming, but Pu Jiaming only had a few months left to live, and the love between the two finally ended with life and death. But Huang Yimei did not get depressed, she still worked hard to live a more wonderful life as always...

"The Story of the Rose": Love is love, love is wrong, say goodbye

The form of the play is like "Tokyo Women's Illustrated Guide", but the screenwriter definitely doesn't dare to write it like this, otherwise it will only be sprayed to the end in the environment of only watching three views in domestic dramas, so he only dares to set a form. But this story is not as realistic as "The East Girl" to depict the ambitions of the protagonist, of course, it may also be because the growth environment between the two is very different. Rose's family, origin, and growth have given her a strong self, so she can abandon everything and start all over again, which I think many ordinary people can't have. Therefore, the focus of this drama actually falls on the understanding of love, and what this drama expresses may be that the end of love is not to stay in a certain person, but to keep approaching and finding the love you want in your heart and the direction of the future in every stay.

"The Story of the Rose": Love is love, love is wrong, say goodbye

The four relationships in the play are actually very typical. First love is always regretful, flashback at every less than ideal moment in life, unless reconciliation with regret is achieved. The so-called positive fate of marriage depends on external forces, but if the management is not good, only the rest of the two are tired of each other, and they can't get rid of the entanglement of a lifetime. The soul mate is the sand in the hands of the moon in the water, cleansing the soul and unforgettable. The rest of the little throbbing is just a coffee break for dessert. Not every girl has the good fortune of being reborn after a thousand sails like a rose, but more of them are covered with bruises and can't reconcile themselves, "I completely and absolutely preside over me", an unattainable dream.

"The Story of the Rose": Love is love, love is wrong, say goodbye

Li of Hunan Qifa Culture Media Co., Ltd. wrote in his metabolic commentary that at the beginning, he liked the yellow roses that had just budded at the beginning, the sun was blazing, full of enthusiasm and bright vitality, and he survived the withdrawal period and the trough period, and what he really fell in love with was the mature yellow rose that finally matured and was loyal to himself. So happy and happy, at least in this world Rose has become the person I want to be, living the world and life I want to live, and the most important thing is to have the mentality I want to have the most: no longer thirsty for happiness, I am happy, I like everything I meet, the world points to anywhere, and so is the heart that is true to myself.

"The Story of the Rose": Love is love, love is wrong, say goodbye

This drama is unique in that everyone is filming the more refreshing "career-oriented heroine", "grassroots struggle heroine" and "divorced comeback heroine" in the era of sealed hearts and love, and the focus of the public's judgment on the people in the play also loves to focus on the identity of "daughter", "mother" and "daughter-in-law". Huang Yimei is not, she just faces the crazy outlet of women's desires and resentments, and she doesn't tell you whether it's right or wrong, she just watches this woman's growth. It's not so much about the awakening of women, it's as it is about the fact that roses have always had their own ideas. From the beginning to the end, Rose did not give up on improving herself because of men, even if she was pregnant, she wanted to be able to go to work, and she also took various certificates in the three years of taking care of her children to prepare for her future work, Fang Xiewen's final disrespect and desire to control was the fuse of the divorce.

"The Story of the Rose": Love is love, love is wrong, say goodbye

And the people in the play are gray, not black and white. Love itself has selfish love, open-minded love, love that takes care of career, relatively pure love and even hormone-based love. The reason why the director didn't shoot according to the novel is that he wants to film the diversity and authenticity of love and reality, and I think this is also the reason why Liu Yifei took this drama. If we attack a character from God's perspective, it will not only lower our judgment of the show, but also do us little benefit to get along with our lovers in the real world. The world is not sterile, emotions are accompanied by various character defects and family conflicts, lovers, love themselves, know themselves, know each other, and continue to grow and run-in.

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