In our daily life, there is a saying: "The door should always be opened, and the door should always be closed". This seemingly simple sentence contains a rich philosophy of life. So, what exactly do the "doors" and "households" refer to? How are they different?
Let's talk about the "door" first. Literally, a door is a device used in a building for passage and isolation. But in the colloquial saying, the "door" often symbolizes the door of our hearts. When we say "keep the door open", it means that we should open our hearts, embrace new things, embrace change, and build good relationships with others. Only by opening the door of our hearts can we feel the beauty of life and have a broader stage of life.
And what about the "household"? Literally, a household refers to a single room in a home. In the colloquial saying, "household" represents our private life and inner world. When we say "keep your home closed", it means that we should protect our privacy and protect our inner peace. Only by closing the door of our hearts at the right time can we find our own peace in the complex world.
So, what is the difference between the door and the house?
First of all, doors and households differ in function and function. Doors are for passage and isolation, while doors are for privacy and tranquility. The door is the bridge between the inner and outer worlds, and the door is the haven of our hearts.
Secondly, there is also a difference in the frequency of opening and closing of doors and households. The door should be always open, which means that we must be proactive in communicating with others and constantly expanding our own life stage. And the fact that the household is always closed means that while we protect ourselves, we must also learn to be alone and enjoy our time alone.
Finally, the role of the door and the household in life is not the same. The door represents our sociability and determines our relationships with others; The household represents our inner world and determines our happiness index.
In real life, how to grasp the opening and closing of doors and households is an art and a kind of wisdom.
We need to learn to open our hearts at the right time to share our joys and sorrows with others. Only in this way can we have more friends and get more support. At the same time, we must also learn to close the door of our hearts at the right time, leaving ourselves an independent space for our minds to rest and sublimate.
Of course, this does not mean that we should always close our hearts, but we must grasp a degree. Being too closed can easily lead to loneliness and depression; If you are too open, you may get yourself into trouble. So, we need to find a balance between opening and closing to make our lives better.
In addition, we have to learn to switch from door to door. In social situations, we must be good at opening the door of our hearts and showing our charm; In private, we close the door of our hearts and enjoy the peace of being alone. This ability to transform is also a manifestation of our maturity.
In short, the saying "the door should always be opened, and the door should always be closed" tells us the philosophy of life. We need to find our own way of life between opening and closing. Only in this way can we go further and live a more wonderful life on the road of life.
Finally, let's end this article with a poem: "If life is only as it first sees, what is the autumn wind and sad fan?" There are times when the door is closed, may you have no regrets in life. "May we all find our own doors and households in the journey of life, and live a true and beautiful life.