Here's how a freelancer who came to Dark Horse Psychology class overcame this:
I was the only one in my family who didn't and never would have the title of MD.
There's nothing wrong with a doctorate title, it's just not for me.
Here's what I can tell you:
You can't choose your parents or siblings.
However, you can choose your life partner (which will affect who your children are) and your friends.
This means that while you can't choose your past, you can choose your future.
"When both my friends and my girlfriend are so proud of me...... "stop there – perfect!"
A quote from Richard Bach goes something like this:
"The bond that connects you to your true family is not blood ties, but mutual respect and joy in life. It is rare for members of a family to grow up under the same roof. ”
You only get one chance to live your own life.
When you finally experience the joy of parenthood, remember what you've learned and let your children live their own lives.
So what to do with this burden now?
Don't carry it anymore.
It's their business, not yours.
Either they learn to accept you and join you, or they don't.
There is no guarantee that they will be happily reunited in the future.
From my own experience, I can tell you that focusing on my future family was one of the best decisions I ever made.
My best decision was to propose to my wife.