Everyone knows that "The Three Character Classic" is an enlightenment reading for children, in fact, I want to say that the "Three Character Classic" is also an enlightenment reading for parents.
Why? First of all, let's understand the main content of the "Three Character Classic".
The book "Three Character Classic", in a nutshell, can be divided into six parts,
The first part is the importance of children's education, that is, what we call "not teaching sex is migration", if parents do not educate their children well, the nature of children will change, of course, many times it is in the direction of ignorance and bad change.
the second part, the content and sequence of education, what to teach first and then what to teach; As for the third and fourth parts, including the fifth part, the content is more specific and is some knowledge, for example, the third part teaches basic cultural knowledge, the fourth part introduces Chinese cultural classics, and the fifth part is dedicated to Chinese history; And the last part, the theme is to talk about hard work.
After a rough analysis, we will find that the beginning of the book "Three Character Classic", that is, the first part, is for parents to see, not for children, this part is for parents to pay attention to their children's education, what "the way of teaching is more important than specialization", "the son does not teach the fault of the father", including the examples given later, whether it is Meng's mother or Dou Yanshan's, it is not about how powerful "other people's children" are, but how responsible "other people's parents" are.
Therefore, as parents, don't always envy how good other people's children are, the "Three Character Classic" tells us that you must first look down to see if you have fulfilled your duties.
Being someone else's parent is not something that can be qualified casually. Let's take an example, nowadays many children like to play with mobile phones, which makes parents very distressed, and some parents are very angry and often reprimand their children, they think this is education. In fact, this is not education, this is just a kind of oppression, because even if the child puts down the mobile phone, he is not convinced, because the problems faced by the child have not changed in the slightest, and he still wants to play with the mobile phone. After the child was reprimanded by his parents and even had his mobile phone confiscated, he couldn't tell how much he resented his parents.
To put it mildly, nowadays, in the eyes of some children, their parents do not solve the problem for them, but instead become their problem? You see, I wanted to play a game for a while, but my parents said no, and even dropped my phone; I made a friend, and my parents said no, and some of them went to school to make a noise. Where is this to help children solve problems? This is to create problems for the child, and the child has to spend time to solve the problems that the parents bring to them.
So how to solve the child's problem? I think there are at least two ways, the first is to do a good demonstration by yourself, don't hold your mobile phone all day long and watch Tik Tok, and the child will not look like it; The second is to find things for him to do, enrich the child's life, and don't let him have so much free time to indulge in playing with his mobile phone. In a word, the child was born with a blank sheet of paper, and the reason why he became what he is today is not his reason in the first place, but the result of his parents and environment, and parents must learn to reflect.
In a sense, children are the mirror of their parents, and the shortcomings of children are actually the shortcomings of parents. Nowadays we are all talking about that children cannot lose at the starting line, in fact, parents themselves are the starting line of children. Of course, what I am talking about here is not only the economic and cultural level of the parents, but also the attitudes, habits, and values of the parents towards life.
Finally, let's take a look at the word "teaching", its original meaning is "what is done, what is done below", up and down, leading by example, the best education for children will always come from the continuous growth of parents. Parents nurture their children with their hearts, and don't forget to nurture themselves with their hearts, so that their children can learn and emulate.