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On June 24, on Beijing Metro Line 10, an old man forcibly asked the girl to give up her seat, and even used a cane against the girl's leg!
It is understood: The old man's surname is Ye, 65 years old, and he has been administratively detained by Ye in accordance with the law for disrupting the order of riding! Let's take a look.
The old man forcibly asked the girl to give up her seat, and also used crutches to pull the woman's legs.
In our daily life, taking the subway and bus is a very common thing, especially in densely populated first-tier cities, it is something that must be experienced every day.
In this case, the supply of seats in the carriage is always in short supply, especially during the rush hour, and the people who can take the subway for one stop are already very satisfied.
As a result, people in need are often not provided with timely help, including pregnant women, the elderly, and people with disabilities who are a little weaker in their movements.
It is generally accepted that in such a situation, it is a social responsibility for young people to reach out and give up their seats to these people.
But after all, young people also have their own lives and jobs, and they are physically and mentally exhausted by all kinds of things every day, so it is also very important for them to be able to take a break on the subway for a while.
Therefore, there are many different voices in society about whether young people should give up their seats to older people, and there is no unified standard. Most people rely on self-awareness and feeling.
If the elderly can maintain a kind attitude and ask these young people to give up their seats, most of the time there will be no problem, after all, everyone will be old, and they also want to be able to get help from others when they become old people.
But if older people are tough and even use some unfair means to get seats, then they may not get the help that most people deserve.
For example, the old man surnamed Ye we are going to talk about today finally led to his administrative detention because of such an act of forcibly asking for a seat.
The old man pressed his cane against the girl's leg
According to eyewitness accounts, the place where the incident occurred was Beijing Metro Line 10, and during the operation hours of the subway, the carriages were crowded with people, and all the seats were already occupied.
The old man's surname is Ye, 65 years old, because he has something to go out, so he can only stand at the station like other passengers. Next to him was a girl in her twenties, who looked like she was just starting to work.
Because the girl has no obvious features, such as a uniform, a document bag on her arm, etc., no one can guess what kind of job she is, but sighs that young people nowadays are really too tired.
But it didn't take long for everyone's attention to be drawn to an old man who was asking one by one if there were any empty seats available for him.
At first, everyone was very understanding and supportive, and they turned their bodies to see if they had any extra seats to give up.
But because there were a lot of people in the carriage today, and it was raining lightly, everyone's requirements for their physical comfort have also increased a lot.
So except for those who have been standing for a long time and their legs are numb, basically no one wants to give up their seats. The girl also shook her head, saying that she was tired of the day and wanted to hold on to the next stop.
I thought that the old man would choose other ways to solve the problem after hearing everyone's answers, after all, the old man himself did not have the problem of difficulty standing.
But unexpectedly, the old man surnamed Ye began to get excited, she pointed to the girl sitting next to her and said loudly, "Why are you so rude, young man? Even if you have a seat, you won't give it to me. ”
The girl was stunned for a moment, and then showed an indifferent look: "Uncle, you don't seem to see clearly, there is obviously no empty seat next to me." ”
This sentence angered the old man surnamed Ye even more, and she replied directly: "You stand up for me, I want your position." As he spoke, he began to wave the cane in his hand.
Everyone felt that a sense of foreboding was slowly rising, everyone knew that crutches were an important aid for the elderly to stand, what if the girl was poked by crutches and couldn't walk?
Of course, the girl herself didn't dare to resist, so she could only stand up by herself, and also helped remind the old man surnamed Ye not to be too excited, so as not to hurt herself by missing the cane.
But I didn't expect the old man to be more targeted, she directly sandwiched the girl's leg between her legs, and pointed at the girl with a cane and began to preach.
It wasn't until a few stops had passed that passengers got off the train and a seat was vacated. But at this time, everyone couldn't stand the embarrassment between these two people, let alone the girl herself.
There are also speakers for the elderly in the midst of condemnation
Although the girl kept smiling and patient, everyone could feel that her face was starting to feel a little embarrassed.
Just when everyone couldn't stand this embarrassing atmosphere anymore, a passenger finally stood up and stopped the old man surnamed Ye. He said: "Uncle, you can't be so willful, taking the subway is a very ordinary thing, whether you sit or stand, there is no problem."
Since you can't get a satisfactory answer today, you can only admit it, but you can't just move your hands and feet, let alone threaten others. ”
She wanted to say a few words back, but seeing that everyone was looking at her ugly eyes, and the other party was still a male passenger, she was embarrassed to maintain the strong image she had just now.
I could only grunt a few good words and sit down on the empty seat just now. After a few stops, she was about to get off the bus, and before leaving, she didn't forget to tell the girl to remember to give up her seat to someone in need.
The whole thing ended like this, although there was no physical altercation, but everyone was still very angry with the old man surnamed Ye.
As an elderly man, he actually used violent means to threaten others on the subway, and he also took excessive behavior for granted. If she hadn't been kind enough to remind her and stop her from continuing to hurt the girl, she might have continued to do so.
What's even more terrifying is that she is still pretending to be concerned all the time and telling the girl to pay attention to the etiquette of the car, as if everything that happened just now was the girl deliberately provoking her and causing her to lose her dignity.
Correcting misconceptions is not for the elderly
Of course, we do not approve of conflicts and contradictions between disadvantaged groups and ordinary people, after all, we should be respected by everyone to be able to get to this age. But the problem is that the old man surnamed Ye did not lead by example and respect others first.
From the beginning to the end, she negotiated and demanded on the premise that she deserved special care. This notion is inherently wrong, and it is not promoted in modern society.
Although we should respect the elderly and create an environment for them to live in peace, this does not mean that we should magnify the problems in the misconceptions and behaviors of the elderly themselves, and revolve around them.
If there is something wrong with the elderly themselves, then we should be brave enough to stand up and criticize and correct them. Because this is the only way to make them aware of their current problems and cause change.
If we continue to tolerate adulterers, or even choose to acquiesce in the logic behind their wrong behavior on some occasions, we are helping them to consolidate their wrong beliefs. This is very bad for them.
Furthermore, we must make it clear that age is not the only criterion for measuring a person's moral character, depth of knowledge and experience. Although time can change the way a person perceives the world and sees problems to some extent.
But if a person grows up with no new knowledge, an open mind, and a stubborn belief that he deserves special treatment because he or she has lived the longest in the world, it will be difficult for such an elderly person to win our admiration.
Girl attempted harassment? The police intervened in the investigation
Judging from the information that has been circulating so far, the old man surnamed Ye is a very typical "blind respect for the old and love for the young", and at the same time extremely self-centered thinking substitute. He believes that as an elderly person, he deserves unconditional help and support from everyone.
If someone refuses her request, then the person must be impolite and disrespectful to the elders. And she herself did not carefully observe whether the passengers around her really had seats to give up.
It can be seen from the way the girl dresses that she should also be on duty just after work or on the way to work, and being able to sit and rest next to her for a while is undoubtedly a great opportunity for her to relieve stress and fatigue.
But the surname Ye thinks that she doesn't care whether she is really wrong, and only knows what to do if she puts herself in the center and imposes it on others. This behavior itself already makes a lot of mistakes.
What made everyone even more disturbing and disgusting was that he even used crutches to physically attack her after negotiating with the girl. Although no substantial harm was caused, its egregious nature has been exposed.
If the passengers next to them had not stopped it in time, the situation at the scene could have deteriorated further. Because the surname Ye has already lost the minimum ability to communicate and negotiate, but completely fell into self-infection and emotional catharsis.
If she doesn't get a satisfactory answer, she may make a more drastic and dangerous move next. However, as an elderly person, it is clearly illegal to use violent means in public.
If you add to this the fact that she had previously threatened to send the girl to the police station, it would legally constitute the crime of intentional injury and intimidation of others. No matter how much she felt that she was wrong, this girl really lacked the awareness and way of behaving with respect for her elders.
But none of this is a reason for her to attack and threaten the girl. Therefore, there is public opinion that her administrative detention is already a deserved punishment. But it's hard to predict exactly what the police will decide.
Although the girl was not injured, and the surname Ye herself also said that she was just overexcited, and she didn't really mean to hurt the other party. But after all, these are just her own words.
According to normal procedure and logical reasoning, we cannot be sure that the girl was really unharmed without further investigation and verification of the facts.
After all, the whole process happened very suddenly, and the surname Ye had completely lost control of his emotions and behavior. If it hadn't been for the passenger next to her to alert her, she might have stabbed the girl with her crutches to other parts of her body.
Police responded
Although there have been no cases of serious consequences so far. However, as a police, it is necessary to deal with it in a timely manner and eliminate potential safety hazards.
Otherwise, once an accident occurs, the consequences are unimaginable. The old man's practice aroused the anger of netizens, and the local police attached great importance to it! It is understood that the old man has been administratively detained by Ye in accordance with the law for disrupting the order of the car!
epilogue
The behavior of this old man surnamed Ye was really shocking, and he used violent means to ask for a seat, and even hurt the girl next to him.
We must not tolerate such behavior, but should resolutely stop and correct it.
Respect for the old and love for the young is a virtue, but it cannot be an excuse to abuse power and harm others.
What do you have to say about such an old man?