In addition to tearing up the mistress and cheating man, and her husband cheating, the original partner still needs to do four things!
If you find out that your husband is cheating, don't be busy tearing up the cheating man and the mistress.
Because the most important thing is not necessarily the conflict with the cheating man and the mistress.
Instead, do four things well to avoid deeper losses after being cheated on.
A man's cheating proves that there is something wrong with your love, even an irreparable problem.
If you don't have love, at least you have to keep your interests, not nothing in the end.
The first thing to do is to collect as much legally valid evidence of infidelity as possible.
The easiest thing for many original partners to ignore is to collect evidence of a man's cheating.
Like the previous original partner, he went to court with a cheating man, and there was no evidence in his hand.
She wants to prove that the cheating man is at fault, saying that the man cheated,
But there is no evidence, or just a few ambiguous chat records, which can't prove that a man cheats.
You can't prove that the cheating man is at fault, and if you really divorce and divide the property, the cheating will have no impact.
Wives not only have to be divorced, but they also have to have the cheating man take half of their property.
In addition, evidence of cheating is not only useful in court.
When the original partner negotiates with a cheating man, you have conclusive evidence, which is not the same as your accusations out of thin air.
Many people who thought that the cheating man was not afraid of evidence, but in fact, what he was not afraid of was that he could not prove his cheating at all.
A cheating man can quibble, and he can even bite his wife back, but his wife is suspicious.
really made things bigger, it may not be that the cheating man suffers,
So wives must have evidence, and it must be evidence that can hammer the cheating man to death.
The second thing is to keep an eye on the joint property of the husband and wife.
For most women who have been cheated on, it is difficult to take control of marital property,
Because you don't care about money and are not financially independent, you are easy to be derailed.
To put it bluntly, a man dares to cheat, which is essentially a kind of contempt for his wife.
Most cheating men don't cheat because they love Xiaosan, but they dare to cheat because they feel that their wives can't do anything about him.
And the economy is not independent, and the living expenses need to be given from the cheating man, which is the easiest to be cheated on.
This is a very realistic factor, he may not have any ill intentions when he persuaded you to return to the family.
But people will change, she will change with the environment, and as the gap between husband and wife widens, the mentality will change.
So wives don't ignore the economic aspect, don't think that men are just cheating mistresses.
He does not count his wife, or divorces his wife.
The reality is that men cheat, that is, they have changed, and you need to guard against cheating men.
Avoid cheating men from transferring property, and also avoid losing their money in the end.
The third thing is to learn to handle cheating men.
Cheating men are not afraid of everything, and there are many things that most cheating men fear.
For example, many men usually have a good face, and they are afraid that cheating will be made big.
Wives don't want a divorce, they don't want to have a grudge with a cheating man, you don't have a big extramarital affair,
You can use the mistress to stimulate the mistress to reveal the extramarital affair.
When a cheating man is blamed, only a wife can help the cheating man.
At this time, the wife has the hole card to negotiate with the cheating man.
Don't just think about it, you have to separate this junior, everything is a junior's problem.
In fact, most extramarital affairs, the problem is with the man.
This man wants to cheat, and he hits it off with Xiao San, so he will have an extramarital affair.
The cheating man doesn't want to cheat, even if the mistress appears, the extramarital affair can't start.
So when a cheating man asks for you, or is afraid of you.
Let the cheating man write a letter of guarantee, sign an intramarital property agreement, and leave something that is beneficial to you.
If a man dares to cheat again, you have the confidence to rectify him, and you can also turn around with your property.
Fourth, never let yourself be left behind.
Many men dare to cheat because they think that they will make your wife strong,
The gap between husband and wife is too wide, and cheating men are easy to understand crooked thoughts.
Only the husband and wife are evenly matched, or the wife is superior,
Men think about the consequences of what their wives may do after cheating.
In the matter of derailment, there will be scruples and dare not easily cheat again.
At all times, you have to be strong so that you don't lose what you hold dear.
You have to have financial confidence so that you won't be easily betrayed in your marriage.
A marriage that encounters an extramarital affair is a war without gunpowder,
There will always be people who will be injured in this war,
There are also people who will be disgraced because they cannot gain a foothold in the war,
But there will also be people who will hold their ground no matter what.
If you go on a rampage without discipline, you are doomed to injure the enemy by 1,000 and lose 800 by yourself.
If you are submissive, looking forward and looking backwards, you are destined to be defeated and withdrawn,
You want to win strongly, and if you do it right, you will win.
In this war, your final outcome depends on your attitude and manners,
As long as you have the determination to win, I will give you the way to win, and you will be the final winner.
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