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Many young people struggle with their parents when it comes to communicating with their parents, which often turns into unavoidable arguments that make it difficult for both parties to communicate effectively.
Many young people unconsciously feel irritated and angry when communicating with their parents.
Psychologists point out that this emotion does not stem from your real hatred of your parents, but more from the fact that your parents have been critical, belittling, and even scolding you in the past. These negative experiences and feelings are uncontrollable at a young age and accumulate deep in your subconscious. Therefore, when you grow up communicating with your parents, whether their words are correct or not, it is easy to trigger these negative emotions deep in your heart, making you irritable and even overly excited about small things.
This is the cruelest thing to you, in fact, as their bodies slowly get older, they feel like they want to go back to when they were younger!
Many people are like this, this is the seed that germinated when they were children!
I thought it was just me, and I thought it was my own problem
I hate his temper, but my personality is most like him!
Nothing else seems to matter, the most important thing is school grades, in fact, the child's emotions are really important at this time!
But home is always a safe haven, and no parents don't love their children!
Sometimes it's really just a communication problem!
Sometimes parents just don't know how to communicate, and they come over like that, but they won't do this to their children when they come to us!
Sometimes parents really don't do well, but as children, you have to learn to understand!
There is a saying: the worst temper is always given to the person closest to you!
Don't be a bummer parent!
This is really the most annoying!
I really have a problem communicating with my parents at ordinary times, and sometimes it's really not that I don't want to communicate, but I can't communicate!
The experiences of childhood have certainly shaped our character and behavior today, but we must learn to control our emotions in the face of aging parents.
In fact, every parent loves their children deeply, but due to the conditions of the time, they may not have learned enough communication skills to accurately express this love.
With our own experiences, we should avoid repeating the mistakes of our children and guide and educate them with a more open and understanding mindset to ensure that they can grow up in a healthier environment.
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