The most healing sentence in the world:
"In life, if you think about it, it's heaven, if you can't think about it, it's hell, what you care about, what will torment you, what you care, what will bother you!
In this life, as long as you go with the flow, it's just that, the reason why you are miserable is because you are too serious! The reason why you are confused is because you are too concerned about gains and losses.
Do your best, listen to the destiny of God, get my luck, lose my life, too high expectations are the root of all suffering, some things choose to let go not to forgive others, but to let go of yourself! ”
The world is a big dream, and life is cool several times. The world we see and everything we experience is a projection of our own hearts. What kind of mentality you have towards life, life is what it is like. If you look at life with optimism, life will shine, and if you look at life with a negative heart, life will be painful.
A person's top cultivation is not to care, not to care, not to compare.
not care
One of the weaknesses of human nature is that we hate you for being poor, fear that you are rich, hate you for having it, and laugh at you for not having it.
If you care about other people's opinions, you will always be anxious in other people's worlds, and your life will be very awkward and painful. Don't care what anyone thinks of you, people say you're a cow and you don't really become a cow, people say you're a horse, you don't really become a horse. No matter what others think of you, you are always you.
Zhuangzi said: The world is famous without persuasion, and the world is not frustrated.
People all over the world praise me and don't get excited. People all over the world belittle me, and I don't complain. What others think of me, what they say about me, and miss me is his business, and we can't control it, and we don't have to care about it. Go with the flow in someone else's world and be alone in your own world. Those who like it will come closer, and those who don't like it will walk away, and that's it.
Don't care
Su Shi wrote a poem "Man Tingfang":
"The snail horn is famous, and the fly's head is small, and it is very busy. Everything is predetermined, who is weak and who is strong. And while you are still old, let me go and be a little crazy. In a hundred years, Hun Sect was drunk, 36,000 fields. ”
Meaning, what is there to keep busy with with a small amount of fame and profit? Fame and fortune have their own causes, and those who gain may not be strong, and those who lose may not be weak. Hurry up and take advantage of the idle body when you are not old, put aside the shackles, indulge yourself, and be at ease. Even if it's only a hundred years, I'd like to get drunk on it 36,000 times.
Everyone is up and down in Vanity Fair, in order to get more fame and money, in order to satisfy more desires, the baht must be compared, and the fight is endless. In retrospect, why is it necessary? Those who earn 30,000 yuan a month, and those who earn 3,000 yuan a month, live the same days and do similar things, and the quality of life and happiness index depend on a person's mentality.
Only by not caring about fame and fortune, looking down on gains and losses, and not being shocked by favor and humiliation, can we live calmly.
No comparisons
The root of many people's suffering is because of the comparison heart.
I could have had enough food and clothing, but I envied other people's luxury cars and mansions. I originally had a stable and harmonious family, but I envied other people's wives and concubines. I originally had a comfortable job, and I envied others for promotions and salary increases.
This mountain looks at the mountain high, and even because others are better off than themselves, they are jealous, complaining, full of hatred, and their souls are twisted.
If a person can let go of the heart of comparison and eliminate abnormal desires, he can live a good life. Why should we be too ourselves, having a healthy body, having a beautiful mood, no disease, no disaster, and no worries is the happiest life.
For the rest of my life, I don't care, I don't care, I don't compare, in the deepest red dust and fireworks, I am content and happy, I am at peace with what I encounter, and I am happy to know my fate.