Once, by chance, I ran into a colleague I hadn't met for a long time.
I was holding a book in my hand, which I hadn't seen in years since my colleague left.
To be honest, I don't really have a deep impression of him.
At that time, he saw me holding the book in his hand and said casually: "I have read this book before, and I also agree with many of the author's views. It should be said that to a certain extent, this book has changed me a lot. "
When I heard him say this, I suddenly felt a sense of intimacy, and I chatted with him smoothly.
Later, we even exchanged phone calls and went out for coffee together when we had time.
A lot of the time, we are unconsciously communicating with others through chatting.
And small talk is never just a simple chat.
If you can have a pleasant chat, you can quickly improve the relationship between each other.
Of course, impromptu chats tend to have more randomness, but as long as you can find a common connection with the other person, it's not difficult to have a light-hearted chat.
What should you talk to the other person about when you're in this situation?
The best thing to do is to guide the other person to talk about their lives.
You know, almost everyone likes to talk about themselves, and they will unconsciously share with you the stories or opinions they are most interested in.
In this case, we need to respond to the other person in a timely and friendly manner.
And ask more open-ended questions to help the other person continue and keep the conversation going from topic to topic.
Through this pleasant way of communication, the relationship between each other will be strengthened.