Lin Huiyin's affectionate monologue: love hovering between active and passive
In the vast sea of people, there is an emotion, which is like a spring breeze blowing on the face, and like a drizzle moistening the heart, it makes people's hearts move and makes people's hearts ache. This kind of emotion is Lin Huiyin's love. She once said: "If you don't take the initiative, you're afraid of losing you; too active, afraid of self-inflicted affection; Stretch out your hand for fear of making a mistake, and shrink your hand for fear of missing it; A little more afraid of interruptions, a little less afraid of regrets. This passage, like an affectionate monologue, expresses the entanglement and helplessness of countless people in love.
Love always makes people suffer from gains and losses. When we fall deeply in love with someone, we will always involuntarily fall into a contradiction. not taking the initiative, afraid of missing the opportunity to get along with the beloved, afraid that the relationship will drift away because of his hesitation; Too proactive, but also worried that their enthusiasm will become a burden to the other party, afraid of being misunderstood as self-inflicted. This contradiction is like a double-edged sword, which makes people yearn for it and discourage it.
In the world of love, we often encounter such a dilemma: stretch out our hands, afraid of making mistakes, afraid that our actions will make the other party feel uncomfortable; Shrink your hand, and you are afraid of missing it, afraid that your hesitation will let the opportunity slip through your fingers. This kind of entanglement seems to be an unspeakable pain, which makes people hover between active and passive, and they are at a loss.
However, true love requires not careful temptation, but honesty and bravery. When we truly love someone, we should dare to express our emotions and dare to pursue our own happiness. Of course, this does not mean that we can disturb the other person without any scruples, but we should express our thoughts in an appropriate way on the basis of respecting the other person.
Lin Huiyin said: "I want to see you, but I clearly know that only when you want to see me, our meeting is meaningful!" This sentence expresses the true meaning of love. True love is not a one-sided effort and pursuit, but a mutual attraction and cherishment of both parties. Only when both people are willing to give for each other can the relationship be long and beautiful.
In real life, we may have all experienced such a moment: in order to meet our beloved, we do not hesitate to cross thousands of mountains and rivers, just for that moment together. However, when we stood in front of each other, we found that the other party was not looking forward to this meeting as much as we did. This kind of loss and helplessness seems to be an unspeakable pain. But it is this experience that makes us better understand the true meaning of love: not all efforts can be reciprocated, but as long as we have sincerely paid, it is enough.
Love is a beautiful emotion, which makes us feel the warmth and strength of life. However, in the process of pursuing love, we must also learn to cherish ourselves and not lose ourselves for the sake of love. When we meet the person who makes our hearts flutter, we must dare to express our emotions, but we must also know how to stop in moderation. Only on the basis of mutual respect and understanding can our love be long and beautiful.
Finally, let's end this article with Lin Huiyin's words: "If you don't take the initiative, you're afraid of losing you; too active, afraid of self-inflicted affection; Stretch out your hand for fear of making a mistake, and shrink your hand for fear of missing it; A little more afraid of interruptions, a little less afraid of regrets. But no matter what, I will cherish every moment I meet you, because I know that in this world, there is nothing that makes me happier than meeting you. "May we all find our own happiness and beauty in love!