Author: Zimo
In the complex world, we often get lost on the road of life, getting farther and farther away from the goals we set at the beginning, getting lost in the expectations and opinions of others, and losing ourselves and ourselves.
In the temptation and suffering of life, I always pursue my dreams all the way, but I forget to do my best in a down-to-earth manner, forget that the real self is my foundation, and keep my heart, so that I will know what I want to live in life.
When we look back at life and calm down, we will know that the biggest epiphany in life is to be ourselves.
1. The best epiphany in life is to be yourself
Being oneself and being one's true self sounds easy, but in the face of all kinds of difficulties and temptations in reality, this is a kind of courage, a kind of pursuit of inner truth, which requires perseverance and belief, and needs to bear too many helplessness and choices.
When a person has survived all the suffering, he will find his own shortcomings, and then he will take the initiative to get rid of the interference of the outside world, listen to the inner voice, let himself be quiet, let life be like a flower, grow quietly, bloom quietly, and need to give himself beauty and fragrance.
As Lu Xun said: "Go your own way and let others say go." ”
If a person insists on going his own way, no matter what, he will not lose himself, even if he has a lot of friends, you must know that after the prosperity is exhausted, after the plain returns, you are you, your road needs you to go step by step, your suffering can be replaced, everything you do, no one can understand, only you can redeem yourself and heal yourself.
Yu Hua also said: "I no longer pretend to have many friends, but return to loneliness and start my life alone with the real me." ”
Because in this world, what you need is your own independence, because you are not brave, no one is strong for you, only by facing life, being yourself, and not afraid of loneliness, will you continue to grow.
To live, not to live for anyone, just to live for yourself, don't think that others can empathize with you, your joys and sorrows have nothing to do with others, only joys and sorrows, and others are difficult to understand.
When we can bravely face all kinds of difficulties in real life, no matter what difficulties we encounter, we can follow our hearts and never forget our original intentions, so that we can show our true selves, you will find a new world and a better scenery of your own life, so that you can bloom your own unique light.
2. Be yourself, not selfish
Do what you want to do, don't be demanding, don't bother other other people's lives, ordinary life, just live yourself well is already very good.
Respect yourself and others, stick to your own principles and values on the basis of harmonious coexistence, let your life be free and comfortable, and enjoy the fun of life.
As Zhu Ziqing said: "The excitement is theirs, and I have nothing." ”
In the hustle and bustle of the world, only by being able to maintain a sense of sobriety and independence, return to calm, accept yourself, enjoy life, and not follow the crowd, can you find your own tranquility and satisfaction.
To be yourself, you must continue to make progress and self-discipline, give yourself more space for development, from vision to pattern, constantly improve, continue to explore and grow, these are your own things, others can not help.
Life is a long journey, in which we are constantly looking for ourselves, every experience, every setback, is to let us find our own shortcomings and beauty in growth, and constantly improve ourselves.
As Lin Yutang said: "Have the courage to be your true self, stand alone, and don't want to be someone else." ”
As long as we insist on being ourselves, we will find that the light of hope always shines on the road ahead, and at any time, only you can give you everything you want.
3. Be yourself, let's embrace that unique self and unleash our inner potential
Since you are alive, you should not rely too much on others, do as much as you have the ability, and be alone in your own world, without having to cater to the expectations of others or caring about the eyes of others. Because, being yourself, you will have the beauty of life and the light of life.
On the stage of life, everyone is a unique existence, and being yourself is to deduce your own unique wonderful.
Only by working hard to be yourself and doing what you want to do can you enjoy the joy of success, just like Steve Jobs, who is a legend of Apple, because he insists on his own creativity and perseverance, with his unique innovative ideas and firm belief in being himself, he not only achieves himself, but also changes the world.
It is precisely because he insisted on his pursuit of product design despite the doubts of others and launched a series of products that subverted tradition. It is this insistence on being himself that has made him a giant in the world of technology.
The same was true of Van Gogh, whose paintings were not widely recognized at the time, but he still maintained his artistic style and did not follow the crowd.
He dreamed of becoming an outstanding painter. However, his work has always been criticized and questioned. But instead of being discouraged, he sees these criticisms as opportunities for growth.
Through my own continuous learning and experimentation, I use my brush to depict the inner world. In the end, his perseverance and hard work paid off, his work was recognized by the world, and his dream was realized.
He uses color and brushstrokes to express his inner emotions, creating unique and shocking works. Today, his artistic achievements are celebrated by the world and become a treasure in the history of art.
There is also Elon Musk, the founder of Tesla, who dares to challenge tradition and pursue his technological dreams. We have been working hard to do things that others dare not do, thinking about things that others dare not think, and finally in the cause of sustainable energy and space exploration, we will continue to promote the development and progress of science and technology with our own beliefs and efforts.
Because of his courage and determination to be himself, he has become one of the most influential entrepreneurs of our time.
Therefore, people have their own characteristics, they can't be a big tree, they can be a small grass, they can't be a captain, they can be a sailor, and the most important thing is to know themselves, find themselves, and be the best version of themselves.
When we live, we have to be ourselves, not only to achieve personal brilliance, but also to have more beauty.
When we are brave enough to show our true selves and pursue our dreams, we will discover how much potential we have.
Fourth, in this complex world, how can we be better ourselves?
Márquez said in "One Hundred Years of Solitude": "All the splendor experienced in life will eventually be repaid with loneliness." ”
Since you are alive, you don't want to pursue prosperity and liveliness, only when you are cold can you have the courage to face your heart.
Only by returning to oneself can we not let ourselves be lost in the voices and expectations of the outside world, and ignore the true voice of the heart. Only by bravely facing our heart's desires and dreams can we find our true path.
We must maintain the ability to think independently, have our own views and beliefs, and have our own lives, and we must use our own minds to analyze and judge, and form our own unique outlook on life, so as to guide ourselves to get better and better.
Nietzsche: "It's gold that always shines." "We must learn to accept our imperfections, accept our shortcomings and shortcomings, and in the midst of our imperfections, we can love ourselves better and face the challenges in life calmly.
Also, keep learning and growing. The world is constantly changing, and we need to keep learning and improving to better adapt to it. Through learning, we can broaden our horizons and enrich our connotations, so that we can be better ourselves.
Steve Jobs once said, "You have limited time, so don't live for someone else." Don't be limited by dogma, don't live in other people's ideas. Don't let other people's opinions sway your inner voice. Most importantly, be brave enough to follow your heart and intuition, only your heart and intuition know what you really think, everything else is secondary. ”
Therefore, stick to your principles and bottom line. In the process of pursuing ourselves, we may encounter various temptations and difficulties, but no matter when and where, we must stick to our principles and bottom line, and do not compromise easily.
Thomas Edison: "Genius is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration." "Being yourself is not an overnight process, but a long process. In this process, we need to continue to explore, try, and reflect in order to gradually find that true self. Let's take every step bravely, to find that unique self, to find the truth, to achieve ourselves.
Fifth, only by doing a good job of oneself and tapping potential can we make life shine
In the long journey of life, we all want to succeed and be able to realize our potential to achieve our self-worth. But how can this be done better?
This requires us to have a clear goal and direction. Like a beacon in navigation, the goal guides us on the way forward. Only by recognizing oneself and clarifying one's dreams and pursuits can we work hard for them and constantly tap our own potential.
With a modest and cautious attitude, maintain an attitude of continuous learning, knowledge is the key to open the door of wisdom, continue to learn new knowledge and skills, enrich yourself, in order to broaden your horizons and improve your ability.
We must have the courage to challenge ourselves, step out of our comfort zone, and do not enjoy comfort at an age when we need to struggle, which is also easy for people to stop and self-decadent. Only by daring to face difficulties and challenges can we break through ourselves and stimulate our potential in life.
As Mencius said: "The heavens will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds and muscles." "Only through hardships can we be stronger and realize our self-worth.
In addition, keep a smile to face reality, dare to take responsibility and bear all kinds of trials in life, face setbacks and difficulties in life with a positive and optimistic attitude, see hope in adversity, and persevere in the pursuit of dreams.
At all times, we must learn to reconcile with ourselves, to be gentle with time, and to cooperate with others. The shallow power of people is infinite, and the road to realize one's potential and self-worth may not be smooth, but as long as we have dreams and work hard to move forward, we will be able to bloom into beauty.
If you want to achieve yourself, you must work hard, persist and pursue in the process of realizing your self-worth, have the courage to pursue your dreams, give full play to your potential, and become the person you want to become.
On the stage of life, everyone has their own unique role. Be yourself, like a star shining in the night sky, radiating your own light.
On the stage of life, everyone has their own story, although they are just a star, they can also shine brightly and illuminate their own way forward.
The road to self-realization is not always easy, and it is fraught with challenges and difficulties. But as long as we have dreams, do not worry or fear, take every step of life in a down-to-earth manner, and continue to work hard, we will be able to realize our own value and bloom our own light.
In the journey of self-pursuit, we may encounter confusion and frustration, but the more we experience, we will be more determined to go to ourselves and complete our life goals.
Down-to-earth mountain to make way, perseverance in the sea can be moved, believe in self, sharpen self, in order to enrich self, show self, let go of self.
For the rest of our lives, let us draw strength from life and hope, be ourselves, and bravely pursue our own life, so that we can live this life in vain.
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