Many of life's troubles are actually self-inflicted.

The so-called others are like prisons, if a person is in this world, if there is no contradiction with others, then there will be no grievances and grievances.

Think about it, if there is only one person in the world, then what does this person know about sorrow? Of course, one person will definitely not survive.

Zhuangzi has a story of "The Empty Boat", "The ark is in the river, and there is a virtual boat to touch the boat, although there are people who are worried and do not get angry." If there is a person on it, he will call Zhang Shezhi; One breath is not heard, and then the three evil voices are followed. Xiang is not angry and is angry now, and Xiang is also false and now it is real. People can empty themselves to travel the world, but who can harm them! ”

There is no one on the boat, and people will not be angry when they collide with it, but if there are people on it, they will inevitably be angry, which tells us that our troubles are all troubles between people.

Don't be too greedy, there is no perfect person in the world!

Don't be attached, the essence of attachment is self-centered, so that you will have high requirements for others, only others can be 100% satisfied with you, then no one in this world can get along with you. But on the other hand, what if someone asks you that?

Don't think too highly of yourself, and certainly not too low. Don't ask for full blame, don't try to see too clearly, and certainly not too vaguely. If we want the world to be tolerable, we must tolerate half-truths.

People who can't tolerate the shortcomings and bad side of others don't deserve the good and good side of others. You must know that the red dust is like fire, if you interact with people, it is already a luxury to meet others with three points of sincerity, and it is already rare to have a point of true feelings, if you are too persistent, I am afraid that this point will not be retained.

More is less, less is more. Life is in the world, and it is rare to be confused.

The rivers and lakes are evil, true and false, true and false, sometimes true, sometimes false, just like the truth and falsehood of love, virtual and real, and finally you can be content if you can leave three points of truth. Otherwise, if you cling to a "perfect person", you will be too greedy, and it will be a big disappointment after all.

The biggest obstacle for people is to have the word "I"!

It is the characteristic of human nature to be "me, me, I ......" at all times, and each of us is self-centered, selfish, arrogant, self-righteous, and pretentious at the beginning.

If we pay attention to observation, we will find that all people who have a "I think" mode of thinking, because there is a "me", will naturally have a distinct mind, and you, me, and him will be clearly distinguished.

And because others are like this, they won't be as you think, then they are easy to have disagreements with each other. Think about it, if you don't let go of yourself, then why should others let go of yourself?

In the final analysis, all the troubles and calculations in the world are because of "I think" and "what do I want", so it is easy to look at others unpleasantly, either to look up to others or to look down on others, and to always think about how others should see themselves and themselves. In fact, when you look at other people's faults, you are equivalent to looking at your own faults, others are your mirror, when you pay attention to others, you are the person in the play, or the others in your eyes are you.

You and I are relative, you are me, I am you, and this is the equality of all beings.

When you see others as yourself, life is transparent!

People who look down on others will look up to others, and in this world, there are too many looking up and looking down, and the most rare thing is to look up.

The so-called trend is inflammatory, and the world is hot and cold, which is what it says.

However, self-righteousness and self-centeredness cannot know oneself, which is just an imaginary person as oneself.

I think a person must go out into the crowd and deal with people, and only when people are dealing with others, giving feedback to each other, will they slowly know who they are. And the more powerful the person you deal with, the more objective and true the "I" tends to be.

Truth is a kind of power, and hypocrisy is always fragile, so it is said that the gentleman is frank and open, and the villain is a relative.

Treating everyone equally is a great accomplishment!

Being able to empathize with others and do unto others as you would have them do unto you is the real master. You have to believe that when you understand others, you really understand yourself, and this is called seeing sentient beings.

There is a word in South Africa - Ubuntu, which has the connotation of "I exist because we exist", which is a very broad concept, which can be described as the height of equality of all beings.

From ancient times to the present, the main reason why human beings have been able to reproduce is because "we", if there is no communication and unity, and we cannot be organized, then we will not be able to evolve and improve our intelligence.

The so-called no one is an island. I don't see the ancients before, and I don't see the comers after. Life has been infinite for generations, and Jiang Yue is only similar every year. Each generation is a whole, and from a historical point of view, all people are like a drop of water, which merges into a stream and becomes the sea.

When we have such an awareness, then what else can we care about?