Text: Little Bear loves big entertainment
Editor|Little Bear loves big entertainment
Preface
Have you ever felt uncomfortable or awkward with someone?
Perhaps, this is not accidental. In traditional Chinese culture, the zodiac may be one of the reasons for this subtle discomfort.
Today, let's uncover the three zodiac signs that are most incompatible with the zodiac ox and take a look at the "mystery of mutual restraint" between them!
Zodiac Sheep: An undercurrent surging under a docile exterior
Cattle and sheep are fighting each other, this is not groundless. Although the saying "sheep into the tiger's mouth" refers to sheep and tigers, it also reflects the delicate relationship between sheep and cows. Niu has a down-to-earth and steady personality, and pays attention to down-to-earth work; Sheep, on the other hand, prefer to be spontaneous and pursue a free and easy life. This fundamental difference in personality often causes a lot of contradictions between the two.
Imagine what it would be like when a diligent cow meets a free-spirited sheep? Cattle may feel that sheep are unreliable and lack of planning; Sheep, on the other hand, may feel that cows are too rigid and lack the joy of life. It's like a person who likes to work by the same order and is in the same room as someone who pursues freelancing, can you imagine that they can get along harmoniously?
The ancients said: "It is better to eat without meat than to live without bamboo." This sentence describes the pragmatic attitude of the cow. For sheep, they may agree more with the life concept of "life must be happy, don't make the gold bottle empty to the moon". This huge difference in values often makes cows and sheep feel uncomfortable even when they sit and chat together.
Zodiac Horse: The source of contradictions that gallop endlessly
"Horses have no night grass and no fertilizer, and people have no windfall and no wealth." This proverb speaks to the characteristics of a horse - hard work, the pursuit of progress. But for a steady cow, this trait of a horse may seem a little too impatient.
Cows like to take their time at their own pace, just like the "success doesn't have to be in me" mentality; Horses, on the other hand, prefer a fast-paced life and always want to achieve goals quickly. This kind of asynchronous rhythm often causes a lot of friction between the two. Can you imagine a scene where a person who likes to chew slowly and eat with a person who gobbles it up? That sense of incongruity may make it difficult for both parties to swallow.
In addition, the active nature of the horse may also be uncomfortable for the cattle. Although the idiom "immediately seal the marquis" is praised, it also reflects the eagerness of the horse. In contrast, Niu is more willing to believe in the truth of "dripping water through stones", believing that only perseverance can achieve great things. This difference in way of thinking often creates many obstacles for cows and horses to communicate.
Zodiac Snake: A dangerous opponent lurking in the shadows
"A snake can't stand without a head, and a man can't stand without a will." Although this sentence praises the decisiveness of the snake on the surface, this trait of the snake may seem a little too radical for the cow. The cow has a gentle personality and pays attention to gradual work; Snakes, on the other hand, prefer to surprise (or frighten) people.
Imagine what it would be like when a cow that likes to follow a path meets a snake that likes to act suddenly? Cattle may feel that snakes are too aggressive and inconsiderate; Snakes, on the other hand, may feel that the ox is too cautious and lacks courage. It's like working with someone who likes to make detailed plans, working with someone who likes to improvise, can you imagine them working together smoothly?
What's more, there is also a big difference between cows and snakes in the way they do things. The cow adheres to the cautious attitude of "it is better to believe what it has than not to believe it", while the snake is more inclined to the adventurous spirit of "it is better to break the can and break it down". This fundamental difference often makes cows and snakes feel like pins and needles even when they are in the same room.
The restraint between the zodiac signs is not the decisive factor, but reminds us to be more understanding and tolerant. Whether you belong to the ox or the zodiac sign of the ox, remember: true harmony comes from mutual respect and understanding. Let's work together to create a more inclusive and understanding world, because as the old saying goes, "harmony makes money", harmony is the most valuable asset.