A woman's emotional requirements are stronger, she wants to find a partner who appreciates her, understands her, and is willing to take care of her.
Different women will have different opinions on this issue. Some women pursue a vigorous love, even if the man is incapable, powerful, and good-looking. More women pursue material things and money, hoping to achieve class leapfrogging through marriage, and live a good life without worrying about food and clothing.
Of course, there is nothing wrong with these two ideas, if you can have both, it is the best choice, in order to achieve this wish, many women choose to marry an older and financially powerful man, she can live a superior life without hard work.
A 32-year-old beauty marries a 50-year-old rich uncle, they are 18 years apart, and their family backgrounds, living conditions and life experiences are very different. Many people are not optimistic about this marriage, and the beauty firmly believes that they are true love, and as long as they face difficulties and challenges together, they will definitely achieve positive results. After some hard work, they got married and gave birth to two children, she reached the pinnacle of life and lived as envied by others.
Ms. Li was born in an ordinary family, and her parents were factory workers, and they took great care of Ms. Li. It is no wonder that Ms. Li is smart, sensible, lively and cute, the pearl of the family, as long as Ms. Li makes a request, her parents will try their best to meet it.
After graduating from university, Ms. Li found a job as a clerk, and she worked 9 to 5 every day, and her life was very regular. Because of her good image and good temperament, Ms. Li is pursued by many men, and with Ms. Li's conditions, she doesn't have to worry about not being able to get married. However, she is still not married in her 30s, because Ms. Li has her own views on the issue of choosing a mate.
Ms. Li wanted to find a handsome, humorous man who was willing to coax her, spoil her, satisfy her material needs, and have a common language in terms of emotions. Ms. Li has been in love several times, and has been on blind dates more than ten times, and she can't look down on those men. She either disliked the other party's reckless and simple thinking, or disliked his poor economic conditions and could not meet her material needs, so Ms. Li chose to refuse.
After a series of emotional setbacks, Ms. Li has a soft spot for "uncle-type" men. On the one hand, she feels that such a man can understand women's feelings, and at the same time will care for and care about women, and more importantly, "uncle-type" men have good economic strength and have the ability to make women live an ideal and superior life.
With this in mind, Ms. Li put more energy into finding men in their forties and fifties. She has been in love several times and fully feels the charm and strength of mature men, and Ms. Li is never tired of it.
At a gathering of friends, Ms. Li met Mr. Zhang, who was 18 years older than Ms. Li, he was mature and stable, had a successful career, was a boss, had an annual income of hundreds of thousands, had a house and a car, and his living conditions were very good. Ms. Li was attracted by Mr. Zhang's steady and down-to-earth and gentle temperament, and Mr. Zhang was impressed by Ms. Li's optimistic and cheerful and young and beautiful appearance, and they fell in love at first sight.
Mr. Zhang was very willing to spend money on Ms. Li, and at the same time tried every means to please Ms. Li, he took Ms. Li to high-end places, bought Ms. Li beautiful clothes, shoes and cosmetics, and tried every means to please Ms. Li. Ms. Li was immersed in this relationship and decided that Mr. Zhang was her ideal marriage partner.
After a few months of dating, their relationship quickly warmed up. Ms. Li agrees with Mr. Zhang's economic strength and Mr. Zhang's warm and masculine personality, they recognize and appreciate each other, and Mr. Zhang promises that he will be able to provide Ms. Li with a comfortable life and make Ms. Li the happiest woman in the world.
Ms. Li married Mr. Zhang naturally, she didn't need to go out to work, she didn't need to run for life, she was pampered and pampered as a full-time wife. On the one hand, Ms. Li enjoys a privileged life, and on the other hand, she takes care of Mr. Zhang with all her heart, and they are both very satisfied with this marriage.
Ms. Li gave birth to two children, which brought even more happiness to an already happy family. Ms. Li spends more time and energy on her family and children, and she takes care of her family of four, whose relationship has always been strong.
In her spare time, Ms. Li took a video of her daily life and posted it on the Internet, she and Mr. Zhang are 18 years apart, she is tall and has a good figure, and she is an out-and-out beauty. And she can speak well, love to talk and laugh, and often share interesting things in their lives with netizens, Ms. Li naturally attracted many fans and became an Internet celebrity. Ms. Li and Mr. Zhang generously showed their affection on the Internet and shared their love experiences, which became the envy of many netizens.
There are different opinions on this matter. Many people agree with Ms. Li's approach, thinking that women must be cautious when it comes to marriage, don't marry casually, and don't compromise, it is commendable to find a man who treats her sincerely and holds her in the palm of his hand. In addition, a man's economic strength is a key object of investigation, and a man with good economic strength is the first choice for marriage, and it is obvious that Ms. Li married the right person.
More people are not optimistic about this marriage because the gap between them is too big. We all know that the best age difference between a couple is three or five years, if the age difference is too large, it is difficult for them to have a common language, and they do not have the same interests and hobbies, and various problems will inevitably arise in the process of getting along. Ms. Li and Mr. Zhang are 18 years apart, their physical conditions and living habits are different, they choose to get married because of love at first sight, and they will inevitably face many practical problems after marriage, which is very unfavorable for the stability of marriage.
Some people also ridiculed: "Men like beautiful women, women like rich men, age plays a very small role in love, Ms. Li and Mr. Zhang are a good example!" ”
What do you think about a woman marrying an older man? Do you think Ms. Li and Mr. Zhang can grow old happily? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.