In the past two days, I injured my hand because of playing table tennis, but fortunately there was no fracture, but the swelling was very bad, and it was okay to endure typing and writing articles. Because I was unable to deal with the injury on my own, my wife bandaged my hand and put a plaster on me.
Many people are reluctant to get married, thinking that it is good to be single, to be honest, in the three years of the new crown epidemic, when we were sick and lying in bed, we should be able to think about it, and we should also realize that it is very difficult for a person to face the risks of life.
When we are sick and don't have the strength to call, who will save us?
The world is not as friendly as we imagined, and when we were young, we didn't feel the reality of society.
I don't want everyone to get married, but if you can choose to get married, try to get married, of course, the premise of marriage is that the person you choose must be reliable.
If you can't find a reliable person, don't get married. It's going to hurt you. If you don't get married, then I also suggest that you have your own direct descendants.
Looking for a partner is looking for fate, and it is looking for the life of the second half of your life.
Your object also determines your life, your destiny, including the destiny of your descendants.
So, we have to be well prepared. This person is not of good character, and we must stay away.
The purpose of love is not to let us eat, drink and have fun, but you have to keep scrutinizing and constantly seeing this person clearly.
I usually encourage people to work hard to find their own happiness, but I don't advise people to insist on getting married if they can't find a partner.
Because everyone's cognition, knowledge, and environment are different, it leads to all kinds of strange things that everyone will encounter when looking for a partner.
For me, I think love is actually quite a simple thing, but what has always surprised me is that such a simple thing can be talked about so much nonsense.
There are those who have been cheated, those who have been deceived, those who have met scumbags, scumbags, and some who have been deceived after getting married and divorced immediately.
All sorts of things that make me jaw-dropping.
I often use the analogy that finding a partner is the same as when we take exams in school.
The test questions are the questions given to us by the school teachers, and the questions given to us by the society are the ones that the society gives us.
Everyone has different wisdom due to their own knowledge, and everyone's score is also different. There are those with 100 points, some with 80 points, 70 points, and 50 points, 40 points, and even 0 points.
Therefore, when I entered the society, I have always encouraged everyone to study more and read more books, you make money, you have money, it does not mean that you can fall in love and find a good partner.
A lot of money can only prove your earning ability, but it cannot represent your love and emotional ability.
Especially for those men and women who are in good condition, you must have some basic knowledge of love and marriage.
Otherwise, you will be pitted very badly.
It's a terrible thing to find the wrong person, a man marries the wrong wife, and a woman marries the wrong husband, which is a major disaster in life.
So why is it wrong?
The reason is that we don't have the right knowledge, which will lead us to choose the wrong person.
If we knew in advance that this person was not fit to get married, and that getting married would bring us disaster, would we still get married?
I'm sure no one would do that.
This is also the value that our love heart reading club has always existed.