#万能生活指南#
Workplace elite not only refers to work, but also includes interpersonal communication, interest relationships, hearts and minds, and so on.
Be yourself, you can reduce being used or bullied by others, be able to protect your own interests, and keep your bottom line and dignity.
"Good is not to be deceived, and evil is not afraid." This quote tells us that we should not bully good people; And for those who are malicious, we should not be afraid, but have the courage to face them.
1
You don't have to please anyone.
If you have the strength, you don't need to please anyone, as long as your colleagues have a good relationship and can make achievements for the company, the boss will look at it.
To please you, you have to keep your voice down, look at people's faces, and accommodate grievances.
2
Strength speaks.
There is a saying that does not say, "It is gold that shines everywhere." ”
As long as you have the strength, everyone depends on you and depends on you, and the company naturally values you.
3
Learn to say no.
You have to learn to say "no" to unreasonable demands, so that there will be no next time.
4
The eyes are firm and do not dodge.
Eyes can also reflect your aura, firm eyes, dare to face others, is courageous, generous and not stage fright.
5
Don't just say yes to other people's requests.
When someone asks for something, you don't have to listen to everyone, and you can't easily agree to it. Always have your own considerations, if it's too easy to agree, others will gain an inch.
6
Don't talk too well.
Don't say yes to anything, just listen to others.
To be a difficult person to speak, it is not to embarrass others, but to set up difficulty, so that you can have your own opinions and decision-making.
7
Don't be humble and cowardly.
Everyone has advantages and is not the same, so why do you need to feel that there is a distinction between high and low.
Self-confidence is the strength in the bones, and if you believe in yourself, you can have light, and you will not be humble.
8
It is not their responsibility and does not bear it.
Don't be reckless, take the responsibility on yourself, don't be stupid, others use you as a backing and don't know how to resist.
9
The tasks assigned by the leaders should be done well.
The leader looks at the results, and if you do it well, it will recognize you.
So don't delay your own business for the sake of other people's business.
10
Don't clique with others.
Don't gang up and then turn on each other.
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For those who are not hostile, be kind and win over friendly forces. The more people who get along well, the more friends there are, and the more friends there are, the easier the road to walk.
12
Become an old employee.
Stay in a company for a longer period of time and don't change jobs too often.
Don't let yourself be a new hire all the time.
Stay longer, who would dare to bully the old fritters.
13
Straighten your waist and practice your aura.
The aura is powerful. Others won't bully you easily.
14
Don't gossip about others, and dare to refute gossip.
15
Refuse unreasonable orders from others.
For example, let you fetch water, let you bring things without giving money.
If you refuse once, the next time someone else will not be able to order you again.
16
Listen to the leader and don't call the shots.
If you don't listen to commands, you are not a good employee, and leaders will not be reused.
17
Work harder than others.
Work a little harder than others, have more opportunities, and reduce the probability of being bullied.
18
Defend your own interests.
You must fight for the treatment you deserve, and you can't give it to others for the achievements and honors you deserve.
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Work should also be dignified.
Even if you go to work and receive a salary, you don't have to be so humble, after all, you are exchanging labor for money, so why use dignity.
20
Don't be emotional at work, but also have a proper temper.
Be sensible, but also with a little thorn.
21
Don't speak your mind.
Some things are seen through without being broken, and bad luck will come when they are broken.
22
Don't complain.
Complaining about work, about your boss or your colleagues can be a lever or a stepping stone for others to take advantage of.